Masturbation addiction

[deleted16787381]

I'm 19 years old, and consider myself to be really addicted to masturbation, something around 4 to 6 times a day, followed by a huge urge to watch porn and keep myself shirtless and barefoot all the time, ready to bate

How you guys dealt with that at my age? It's been two years, and it's getting more intense every single day

 

[Tomy12345]

I am also 19 and I think it is a very hot age, too hot. I can tell you that sometimes I'm so horny that just by yelling at me a little I cum and even so I'm still horny.
Here the question is, does masturbating so much affect the important aspects of your life? (Studies/work, diet, exercise).
If you don't, masturbate as much as you want, free time is to be used however you want. On the other hand, try to do long sessions and practice edging to avoid premature ejaculation.
Porn, I can't say it's bad at all, just try some times to masturbate with your imagination, you'll see how pleasurable it is.
Final advice, enjoy yourself and make the masturbation sessions something beautiful, after all, you are making love to yourself.

 

[deleted16787381]

I am also 19 and I think it is a very hot age, too hot. I can tell you that sometimes I'm so horny that just by yelling at me a little I cum and even so I'm still horny.
Here the question is, does masturbating so much affect the important aspects of your life? (Studies/work, diet, exercise).
If you don't, masturbate as much as you want, free time is to be used however you want. On the other hand, try to do long sessions and practice edging to avoid premature ejaculation.
Porn, I can't say it's bad at all, just try some times to masturbate with your imagination, you'll see how pleasurable it is.
Final advice, enjoy yourself and make the masturbation sessions something beautiful, after all, you are making love to yourself.

Thank you a lot, currently masturbation isn't affecting important aspects of my life, I will try to watch less porn, and deal with the idea of keeping myself using less clothes through the day, nice to know that bating isn't a huge problem if we deal with it consciously

 

[P.B]

I was a five times a day guy when I was your age. I've jokingly described that period in my life as being an orgasm addict, which was prob more accurate than a wanking addict.

I could fullfill the roles in my life and still squeeze in time to have about five ejaculations. If I was alone I'd wank. If my girlfriend was staying, it'd typically be have her stroke me off first because she liked to see a big load and obv. my first would be the biggest, then I'd fuck her, then knock another one out while she was cleaning up in the shower, then either another fuck later or a sneaky wank if she wasn't in the mood.

I think mens horniness peaks in your teens, twenties, if your body is giving you he'll because you are horny, then you need to knock one out. Another example; until recently (I'm now in my 40's), I'd need to jack off before riding my motorbike, otherwise I couldn't concentrate on the discipline of riding. I reckon wanking before riding was important for road safety. The act of riding also got me horny, so I'd need to find somewhere to have an orgasm on route or when I got back...

 

[Jan2000]

Enjoy it while you can bro. At 19yo, 5 times a day would be considered normal=nothing wrong with that. A good way to de-stress then concentrate on what you need to do.
I used to masturbate, as soon as I woke up, then in morning shower, morning break at school, as soon as I got home, in gym shower after workout, then the big one was before going to sleep.
I reckon that’s why I cum such a huge load now,
Don’t over think it- just remember to lock your door- too many times me dad has walked in on me.

 

[LewdKiwi_]

I’m 21 and I’m constantly turned on and hard. It’s been 5 days that I haven’t cum and the thought of cumming turns me on but I edge myself 24/7. I’ve been leaking precum everywhere and it’s a lot and it feels so fucking good. After about 10 days I’m going to shoot the biggest load of my life

 

[chrisrobin]

I'm 19 years old, and consider myself to be really addicted to masturbation, something around 4 to 6 times a day, followed by a huge urge to watch porn and keep myself shirtless and barefoot all the time, ready to bate

How you guys dealt with that at my age? It's been two years, and it's getting more intense every single day

When I was your age I wanked as much, well I had as many daily orgasms cos I became a sex slut, and would play with any guy just to get his spunk and for me to shoot my load

 

[P.B]

Here's another thought, do you suffer "Blue balls", the notorious painful bollocks caused by needing to shoot your load? When I was your age my mates used to bitch about having blue balls but I never knew what they were on about because I never suffered with it, prob because I was shooting my seed so much. So if you get "Blue balls" you prob need to beat off more and of you don't you are probably doing something right.

 

[deleted817718]

Enjoy it while you can bro. At 19yo, 5 times a day would be considered normal=nothing wrong with that. A good way to de-stress then concentrate on what you need to do.
I used to masturbate, as soon as I woke up, then in morning shower, morning break at school, as soon as I got home, in gym shower after workout, then the big one was before going to sleep.
I reckon that’s why I cum such a huge load now,
Don’t over think it- just remember to lock your door- too many times me dad has walked in on me.

How often are you doing it now and how old are you?

 

[Jan2000]

23yo. Still average at least 3 to 4 times per day. Weekends , maybe 6,

 

[twoton]

Maybe you’re “addicted” to the dopamine and are self medicating for anxiety or depression.

 

[ronin001]

A 8 hour a day job, coupled with an hour commute to and from work, will cut down on your free time. The dick looses some of its importance when one is worried about work/ school / bills Etc . Get dressed, go outside , go for a walk, ride a bike, get a GF -BF >>>>

Most of all watch less porn

Good luck

 

[Acratopotes]

I think people are quick to label something an addiction when this is not the case. I was areally horny at 19 too. For me, I still had time for the other important aspects of life and that's the test as to whether it is excessive.

Here's another thought, do you suffer "Blue balls", the notorious painful bollocks caused by needing to shoot your load? When I was your age my mates used to bitch about having blue balls but I never knew what they were on about because I never suffered with it, prob because I was shooting my seed so much. So if you get "Blue balls" you prob need to beat off more and of you don't you are probably doing something right.

I have never seen any benefit in going without long enough for that to happen. As well as my normal sessions at home, I would also have odd times when I be incredibly horny, seemingly at random. Things that come to mind include:

1. Finishing a college lecture and being so horny I had to nip into a cubicle and rub one out.
2. Cutting back some invading vegetation as part of a conservation project with other people of a similar age, including women, and getting so horny I had to go behind a bush on the pretence of needing to pee, but actually jacked off.
3. Late at night, driving along a deserted road through a forest and needing to pee. I stopped, went off into the trees a bit and pissed and then suddenly felt horny so kept it out and masturbated too.

There are loads more of these. The ability to enjoy orgasms so close together will gradually decline as you age so don't see it as a problem but as an opportunity to enjoy one of life's great pleasures.

 

[Nick56]

I'm 19 years old, and consider myself to be really addicted to masturbation, something around 4 to 6 times a day, followed by a huge urge to watch porn and keep myself shirtless and barefoot all the time, ready to bate

How you guys dealt with that at my age? It's been two years, and it's getting more intense every single day

I'm 68 and am still addicted, only cumming two or three times a day now.

 

[ricd250584]

Hey 39 and still go once a day on average

 

[Evenflow618]

Semen retention is the way to go

 

[natevega]

I've find that some "eras" of mine, I'm extremely horny. Like right now I could JO 4-6 times a day, but others I just do it once, or twice.

I just love the feeling of my cock in my hand. I think that as long as it doesn't interfere with your life (ie. your goals, bad grades, affecting your job/relationships) it's okay to jerk off as much as you want.