thicknfurry73: Guys and gals, I've been with my partner for 3 years and things have been great for the most part, however the topic of solo masturbation is a huge bone of contention (no pun intended) between us. He was brought up thinking that masturbation is morally wrong and that it has no place in a committed relationship. He also has a difficult time getting himself off without some sort of outsite stimulus. I on the other hand enjoy masturbation as well as using toys, etc. I like masturbating with my partner, but I also appreciate alone time once and a while. I have never felt guilty about self-pleasure for a day in my life, but he is making me feel like I missed the boat when it comes to being in a relationship. When we first got together everything was in balance until he started pressuring me to stop playing with myself. To keep him happy, I stopped any form of self-pleasure and reserved sex only for that between us. After a while, my sex drive started to decrease and I felt a growing resentment that he had asked me to stop. We're sexually monogamous, yet I feel like he is jealous of me being with...me! Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Did I not read all the marriage rules before I signed on the dotted line? Many thanks, folks.