masturbation and PE

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by NewDeek, Apr 23, 2008.

  1. NewDeek

    NewDeek New Member

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    hello everyone. this is my first post here in LPSG. i have a question that i would like to ask all guys. it is kind of embarrassing for me, but here it goes... since i'm still a virging and young i would need your help. i have posted this question in other sites, but no luck. here it is...

    how long would it take for you to ejaculate and orgasm if you masturbate and stroke fast and nonstop?

    If I masturbate and stroke my penis fast and nonstop I would ejaculate in less that 2 or 1 minute, sometimes in seconds when really horny. this has raised some reds flangs in my mind since i have heard about premature ejaculation. is this a sing of PE (premature ejaculation), meaning that i would have it when having real sex? what is considered the normal time for a guy to ejaculate when masturbating without a break? What could I do to last longer?
    also, if i use the stop-and-go method I can last as long as I want. is this a good way to help my problem?
    i'm open to any honest and good suggestions.
    thanks
     
  2. alex8.5

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    Every masturbation session is different depending on the man. If i pump vigorously non stop i can cum quickly. Or if I go slow i can make it last 1 to 2 hours, depending on when I want to cum.

    When I'm fucking, i can cum several times, up to 9 times in a session, so it really depends on the individual.

    If you want to last longer, just go easy on the pumping and when you think your about to blow, stop and start until you can't take oit anynore
     
  3. NewDeek

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    thank you alex8.5
    also, i do not use any kind of lube, i always go dry.
    do you think if i use lube i could last a bit longer, or it does not matter?
     
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    New Deek, when masturbating you should try to pleasure your whole body. No need to just focus on the penis. It is a good idea to really relax and enjoy your masturbation session. Of course we have all been so horny that a few strokes and we are done. Especially when we are younger. Don't get into the bad habit of trying to finish as fast as you can though. It will train you to be a lousy lover. Relax and enjoy the session and try to let it happen over a long period of time. You will have a much better time and eventually so will your partner.
     
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    Dont worry about it would be my advise, you dont even know you have a problem yet but worrying about it so much could make it a problem. I always cum quickly when i masturbate because thats what i want, but i can still have marathon sex sessions with my gf and pretty much last untill my fitness levels are an issue lol!
     
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    Lube usually shortens the time to ejaculation.

    The "stop-go" technique is the best way to learn to extend the time to ejaculation. Making love to yourself or someone else means that you concentrate on as much f the body as possible and not just on penis stimulation.

    You would also use a similar strategy to "stop-go" when having sex with someone.
     
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    thanks for all of your answers! now, how can i focus more on my body & not so much on my dick? it's really hard!!, LOL. do you have any suggestions... :wink:
    thanx again
     
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    HAVE fun not only with your body, but with your mind TOO... try to 'hold' as much as posible when cuming, so to have that 'multiple orgasm' feeling... :p

    and YES, don't do it DRY... use any kind of lube, spit is the best, and more practical choice!

    HAVE FUN and ENJOY!

    p.s.: post some 'hard' pics!
     
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    220483, what do u mean by
    can you be a bit more specific, please?
     
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    NewDeek,
    Well as an old fella I would say that training is the thing. stop go, squeezing the base before you cum then starting again are all good. however its all in the mind. You will need good control if you are to keep going and make somebody else cum first. this comes with age and experience. You must not let yourselof go and keep control until the other person has come first, then let go.
    I'm 51 and last night, or early this morning I gave my partner 8 orgasms one by one in a row and did not come. That takes a lot of practice (fortunatley my wife can stay 'up there' and orgasm more than once - a neat trick and it sure does make you feel good) and I practiced pretty hard when I was growing up. porn was hard to come by when I was young so anything would turn me on. I even ejaculated when sexy dancers were on telly and my hands were nowhere near my dick! So in conclusion, train regularly, its good for your balls and semen system too as they need to keep flowing, try refraining from coming as often as possible then reward yourself with a good one at the end. You and your partner can benefit if you gain control of yourself. Good luck mate.
     
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    NEWDEEK:
    what I mean is, when reaching THE moment, that one where YOU feel you're cuming, STTOOOPPPP! [probably something will come out..]

    work out those PE muscles [the ones that enable you to control while pissing...], stroke your cock gently, and start again! IT'S a great feeling, but YOU'LL need lots of self control!

    any other doubts send me a PRIVATE mesage! ;)
     
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    Not sure how old you are, but lets say 18.

    Cumming in less than 2 mins of fast masturbation is NOT PE. It sounds pretty normal to me, and there are figures out there that will demonstrate it is normal. A fit 18-year old is biologically designed to cum pretty fast. In sex the time is measured from intromission to ejaculation and for the AVERAGE 18 year old the time is under 2 mins.

    Sure you might want to experiment with slowing things up a bit. Or you might not. The easy way to slow things up is to cum then go for round two.
     
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    NewDeek,

    I agree with 220483, you need to control yourself. The stopping peeing during mid flow is a good exercise in any case as it strengthens the erection. Do this five times every time you pee and you will stave off any later problems with your prostate gland. I do it without thinking now. you will definietly feel a difference in a few weeks as the muscle takes a while to respond. you will find you ejaculate further as well, so keep your mouth shut when throwing one over the thumb!
    Don't take things or yourself too seriously and have fun without causing harm to yourself or others.
     
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    Alex, you've been watching me. And taking notes. :biggrin1:
     
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