masturbation and sex

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  1. dre101

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    hey all! i am a virgin and for my whole life i have always masturbated quickly in fear of being caught.. i usually last a couple minutes mad five minutes. but when i have the time i try to last 10 minutes of watching porn..

    since i masturabte so fast does this mean sex will last less than a minute??
     
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    Whatever means of expression - ENJOY it!
     
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    find a nice quiet bathroom and have fun I usually like to jack for about an hour before I cum
     
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    I've been in a similar situation recently sir. Feel free to contact me!
     
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    not necessarily. but its true, that one reason of premature ejaculation can be false masturbating habits. if you aim to reach orgasm as quick as you can, then your body will get used to it. on the top of that, during sex you are usually more aroused than during masturbation, so this can also mean for you that you cum faster.

    i suggest you should do some really long masturbation-sessions. firstly, make sure that you have a nice atmosphere while you do it, if you have some fears in your mind (of being caught, ...), thats not good. lock your door or do it at midnight while everbody is sleeping, etc.
    try to add a minute to your time every week or so. if you reach 20-25 minutes, i would say thats good enough, but of course you can go up to hours, depends on what you like :)
     
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    find a time and place that you know will be yours and yours alone. no distraction, no visits, just and your penis, well plus whatever fantasy you want. enjoy the sensations. dont rush, there's no plane to catch.....just relax.
     
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    I have heard that the stigma of masturbation and fear of being caught as a youngster can cause conditioning that leads to premature ejaculation. You might consider arranging some serious alone time with your junk as outlined above. I'm kind of glad there wasn't internet porn when I was young. Take your time and learn to control your responses to pressure, speed, etc.
     
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    Less than a minute? Probably not...but I agree that you should start finding the time to enjoy masturbation more thoroughly. It's one of the most fun things you can do with your body.
     
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    All of the above.
    My orgasms are much stronger and more enjoyable when I masturbate for an hour.
     
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    I have a wife and we have good sex all the time and I still maturbate in the showerz every day I try to make it last as long as I can the longer u last the better it feels wen u cum trust me take a long warm shower and enjoy ur self good luck
     
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