Not sure where this one belongs but here's the question... Men, do you mind if your women masturbate either in front of you or otherwise? Ladies, same question in reverse. My boyfriend does not like it. He thinks its rude or is in someway insulted if I want to masturbate or use a vibe. I thought men were typically turned on by such things but not this one. Not my intent to make him feel badly but would love to figure out how to make this a part of our sex life. I'd love to watch him masturbate but he says he doesn't do it - does nothing for him. He'd rather just be fucking. I'm curious as to what others have to say about this.