Masturbation cure?

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  1. smokey666

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    Been reading the thread about masturbation frequency and it appears that perhaps I’m not in a minority of hardcore wankers. Apologies for starting a new thread but this one is slightly different in that I want to know if anyone has any methods of curbing the frequency . . . mind methods . . . chemicals . . . etc?

    If I take a normal day, when I wake up I start beating off. After finished I get up and have breakfast, after finishing eating I’ve normally recovered sufficiently to fit in a wank before getting down to work. I normally then have a wank in the afternoon and then sometimes have a nap and a wank before dinner. If I am at home in the evening I’ll spend a large part of that beating off. I then go to bed and wank before sleeping. I normally doze through the night and god knows how many wanks I can fit in . . . . and then I wake up in the morning and start the cycle again. If I go away for a few days and don’t have much time to fit in a few sessions, the next day when I get back is substantially taken up with a 5-6 hour internet porn wank.

    I love doing it but the trouble is, I think I do it too much and it’s taking over my life.

    I was really wanting to know if anyone has any methods for suppressing the urge to wank - I wish it didn’t rule so much of my life. I work from home so have a lot of time by myself, of which a lot of that time is taken up with jerking off. I am single at the moment but even when I have a girlfriend she gets it big time when she stays over but once she has left for the day it’s back in to the same routine.

    I kinda wish I could get down to once a day when I wake up or something. Anyone any ideas?

    Shit, I gotta go have another wank . . . .
     
  2. jeff black

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    I am going to say this. Is it possible for you to just Stop it. I mean, your dick doesn't control you. Just slap your hands away, and cut down. I like to jerk off, but there are better things to do, than just sit there and beat off all day.

    Seriously, you want a "cure"?? Just dont' do it. Cut back completely, have one when you get up, and one when you go to bed.
     
  3. smokey666

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    Haha. If only it were that easy. I don't smoke, but when a smokers gotta have one he's gotta have one.

    If I'm down the gym and there's some tight bottomed chinese girl on the running machine in fron of me. . . I gotta do it when I get home. If I'm walking along the street and some chinese girl cycles past me with her skirt hoisted up and her knickers showing . . . I gotta get home and do it. I live in China by the way, which leads to many wank worthy situations along with the regular sex.

    Shit, I gotta find a cure.
     
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    just stop.:biggrin1: You are letting your dick control you man. That shit doesn't lead to anything good in life. You watch, someday, you are going to be in Sexaholics annonymous.:tongue:
     
  5. Ummagumma

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    Precisely. And can you picture yourself on your deathbed, looking back on life and the fact that you spent such a huge chunk of it masturbating to internet porn? Think about that... you only get one youth, don't waste so much of it alone in your room with your dick in your hand.
     
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    Cure for Wanking: Watching little dick porn

    Who are we to determine the means by which this person should achieve pleasure in his life? If masturbating truly brings this man joy each time he does it, then let the man revel in it. At least he can die knowing he brought himself that much pleasure in the course of his lifetime. How many others can say that?
     
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    That's a little too much philisophy in this situation. Masturbation becomes a problem when it interferes with your daily life...IE, you stay in to rub one out instead of going to the movie with a group of friends. While I can't say the OP has a serious problem with masturbation, it does seem to be a bit excessive.

    Besides, he admitted himself he wants to try and cut down and he came here to ask for help. Your post undermines the advice given thus far. I'm not tryin to rag on you but think about what you said. What if I got pleasure out of killing babies in a microwave...should you just let me continue because it brings me pleasure? I don't think so.

    FOR THE RECORD, I do NOT microwave babies.
     
  8. Ummagumma

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    Fair enough.

    But I have to add - I used to do it like 5 to 6 times a day too though... and despite the pleasure I received from it, there's something hollow about the whole process that made the entire act depressing to me deep down inside - and I think it's the same feeling that drove this thread to be created.

    I know what you're going thru smokey, and as Jeff said, you and only you can curb the addiction (nobody's telling you to quit altogether of course). Only cranking one out twice a day instead of six times still isn't that bad, and it gives you time to start a more productive hobby, like stamp collecting!
     
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    Well that's good. They turn out much better on the rotissierie.

    At worst, masturbation is a victimless crime (unless you believe the rot that every sperm cell is sacred). Killing babies is not a victimless crime. Honestly I just hate it when people use such dramatic counterpoints to try to illustrate their side of an issue... and I didn't think of them first.

    A balance between the drama and the philosophy is definitely in order. Let's not forget that pleasure is at the root of the problem. By acknowledging that, you have opened the door to recovery.

    Maybe someone should start a WA chapter somewhere (Wankers Anonymous)
     
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    That pretty much mirrors my wanking pattern, although I don't go for the full evening of beating off and I'll probably only have one (or less) overnight, other than before I fall asleep - generally I sleep solidly through the night. On the other hand, if I go away for a few days to stay with friends or family then I can abstain for most of the time that I'm away - I may have to have a wank in the toilet or an outdoor one somewhere if I get too frustrated. However, like you, once I get home it's a mega-wanking session to milk my balls dry.
     
  11. DC_DEEP

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    Bareback, if you look back at the OP, smokey DOES say it is interfering with his life.

    Smokey, you should probably talk to a doctor (GP or psychotherapist) about a possibility of obsessive behavior, especially if you find that you try to cut back, but cannot.
     
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    I think you should check out SA or some kind of similar group. Everyone has their own definition of sobriety, and I think being involved in a group like that will help you find yours and live comfortably in it. Just my 2 cents.
     
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    If a 12-step type program would work for you, yes. If I had an addiction/obsession, a 12-step would be useless for me. So much of it is based on acknowledging the "higher power I choose to call god." Since I don't believe in a "higher power," that knocks out the first step, right from the start.
     
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    I know how you feel. It is hard to stop doing something that feels so good, doesn't cost anything or invlove anyone else - it really isn't healthy though. Besides, after a while it looses it's appeal, and then what will you do? Like a PP said, cut down to twice a day, and then you will have somethng to look forward to.
     
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    Rule out Internet porn by getting someone to install a porn blocker on your PC...Only you don't know the password:tongue:

    At least it'll knock out the Internet porn, but not the physical interaction with yourself. Try and Keep yourself busy, if you find that you have very little, or nothing to do. Look around the house for jobs that need doing, or catch up on some paper work for your home business.

    Keep yourself busy, and that way it should hopefully take your mind off it....

    It worked for me at least.. but everyone's different, so then again...maybe not.
     
  16. Mr. Snakey

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    What i do everyday is give my dick a good work out before work for mabye an hour Not to the point of cumming I found its a good way to start the day It also keeps my dick long and fat and keeps my loads big!:wink:
     
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