Masturbation & Family Openess

[lokican]

I only have 1 sister whos older so no mutual masterbation in my family. Would be intrested in doing iith a cousin maybe but way to shy to ask.

Materbation was never really talked about, once my dad did find a penthouse in the bathroom when i was 15 and told me to be more carefull cuse my mom would be very embarassed to find it, but he was really cool about it. I also caught my dad looking at porn on the comp a few times. I'm nice enough to delete the history for him when he forgets.

As for masterbating with a parent or grandparent to me as open and liberal as I am I see that as sexual abuse. Parents should never engage with sexual relations with a child.

Sex with a brother or cousin is another taboo I'm against. Incest is disgusting and very wrong. I try to be open minded but those 2 cross a very clear line in my opinon.

 

[Sabln7]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Apr 21 2005, 12:48 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Apr 21 2005, 12:48 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-KinkGuy@Apr 21 2005, 12:37 AM
But what would he say about a cousin or brother?  Don&#39;t anyone ask if you don&#39;t wanna&#39; know.  :evilgrin:

Okay, yeah ... I&#39;ve whacked off with my brothers and cousins. In fact, I&#39;ve whacked off my brothers and cousins. I had always assumed that it was a normal part of growing up. Apparently, not everyone shares that belief.

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I too have jacked off with my brother and all of my mail cousins, and we jacked each other off. To my best knowledge, I am the only one that grew up gay.

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by nacard01@Apr 21 2005, 11:04 AM
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I could share stories all day on the inhibitions my parents have caused in regards to my sexuality


Nater

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Nater,

Parents have dreams for their children and so many times what they will accept from others, they won&#39;t accept from their own children.

Please know that we here at LPSG will support you as much as we can. I am old enough to be your father. So yea, I will joke about you coming and joining the fleshpile and spanking your butt and assorted other things, but in truth, it is all comical. It is all utter nonsense and all of us enjoy the joking because we all have been put down in some way by somebody for something about us sexaully.

But in the serous tone, feel free to write me privately or publically on this post. Pappy, KinkGuy and I are regular posters and we are all about the same age. We will support you all we can. KingGuy has had a time with his family. He has had to endure a lot. So we are here. I know I can speak for the other two as well in saying that we will be mature older men to give emotional support. Then there are regular posters here you age as well who will support you unconditionally.

Good luck to you. Keep us posted on your life. We are here for you. So come join in the fleshpile and let off a little stress in your life.

Freddie

 

[Alley Blue]

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Actually, Jacinto already mentioned Gramps. My own grandfather swears like a sailor, one time even made a joke about the "family tradition" when he saw me naked, but never EVER thought of incest.

*sigh* Why do we have such idiots?

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I&#39;m a little lost. I was speaking of the inappropriateness of participating in the act of masturbation with your parents.

The "idiot" part throws me off........

I confused :wub:

 

[jeepwranglerboi]

Like DMW and others here, I too have whacked off with and whacked off my brother and cousins. I never even really thought anything of it. I thought that everyone did it. Hell, I&#39;ve even had sex in the same room that my brother and other friends were in. All the men in my family are comfortable being nude in front of one another. Don&#39;t get me wrong we don&#39;t prance around waving our cocks in the air but if you walk in the bathroom or bedroom or something, well, it was just no big deal.

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by jeepwranglerboi@Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM
Like DMW and others here, I too have whacked off with and whacked off my brother and cousins. I never even really thought anything of it. I thought that everyone did it. Hell, I&#39;ve even had sex in the same room that my brother and other friends were in. All the men in my family are comfortable being nude in front of one another. Don&#39;t get me wrong we don&#39;t prance around waving our cocks in the air but if you walk in the bathroom or bedroom or something, well, it was just no big deal.

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This I can see happening and to a certain degree, understand ( e.g. exploring and learning about your bodies as you grow up with you brothers)

But jerking off with dad or other grown-up male relatives ( Uncle, Grandfather, etc....) is something different.....just my opinion......

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by alleyblu+Apr 22 2005, 11:56 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(alleyblu &#064; Apr 22 2005, 11:56 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jeepwranglerboi@Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM

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This I can see happening and to a certaining degree, understand ( e.g. exploring and learning about your bodies as you grow up with you brothers)

But jerking off with dad or other grown-up male relatives ( Uncle, Grandfather, etc....) is something different.....just my opinion......

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It is more than opinion. It is the law. When an adult jacks off with a minor. It is called "fondling" and if convicted you get free room and board down at the local prison.

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by jeepwranglerboi@Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM
Like DMW and others here, I too have whacked off with and whacked off my brother and cousins. I never even really thought anything of it. I thought that everyone did it.

In fact, I&#39;m considering adopting Jeep as a brother so we can whack each other off. Who said that LPSG isn&#39;t like a family?

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Apr 22 2005, 01:05 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Apr 22 2005, 01:05 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jeepwranglerboi@Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM
Like DMW and others here, I too have whacked off with and whacked off my brother and cousins. I never even really thought anything of it. I thought that everyone did it.

In fact, I&#39;m considering adopting Jeep as a brother so we can whack each other off. Who said that LPSG isn&#39;t like a family?

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ugh oh&#33; Scenes of the fleshpile return. Does this work like square dancing when you are always exchanging partners at certain points in the music?
*Freddie looks for CD for square dancing.

 

[indianaman_04]

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It is more than opinion. It is the law. When an adult jacks off with a minor. It is called "fondling" and if convicted you get free room and board down at the local prison.

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I agree this is wrong but know that the law IS nothing more than an opinion. The law also says not to speed but I do it all the time. It is because somebody, somewhere had an opinion that going too fast is wrong and they made a law. People express opinions everyday and sometimes those opinions becomes laws.

 

[jeepwranglerboi]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Apr 22 2005, 06:05 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Apr 22 2005, 06:05 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jeepwranglerboi@Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM
Like DMW and others here, I too have whacked off with and whacked off my brother and cousins. I never even really thought anything of it. I thought that everyone did it.

In fact, I&#39;m considering adopting Jeep as a brother so we can whack each other off. Who said that LPSG isn&#39;t like a family?

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No need for adoption to do that. Just say the word&#33; als:

 

[madame_zora]

Not being male, I am on the outside on this one, but I did have a female cousin once that we experimented with masturbation together. It left us feeling weird about each other because my mother walked in on us, I never did anything like it again. It&#39;s really a shame it was handled so poorly, I&#39;m sure it had a lot to do with the sexual repression I felt as a young woman.

I think peer experimentation is very normal, people are sexual beings and very curious, nothing wrong with that. I don&#39;t know exactly where the lines should be drawn with other family members, with my background I&#39;d err on the side of caution and say no touching with older members, but I can&#39;t see where whacking off together hurts anybody.

 

[oldman9x7]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Apr 22 2005, 08:09 PM
Not being male, I am on the outside on this one, but I did have a female cousin once that we experimented with masturbation together. It left us feeling weird about each other because my mother walked in on us, I never did anything like it again. It&#39;s really a shame it was handled so poorly, I&#39;m sure it had a lot to do with the sexual repression I felt as a young woman.

I think peer experimentation is very normal, people are sexual beings and very curious, nothing wrong with that. I don&#39;t know exactly where the lines should be drawn with other family members, with my background I&#39;d err on the side of caution and say no touching with older members, but I can&#39;t see where whacking off together hurts anybody.

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This thread is a real memory jogger for me. Tomorrow I&#39;ll be 86 and this has thrown me clear back to when I was about 3. A cousin, on my Dad&#39;s side, was six weeks older than I. At my birth it was discovered (a little late) that my mother had little or no milk and she was trying to breast feed. Since my aunt was still breastfeeding my cousin and had quantities of milk, they moved into our home and she nursed both of us. Hence, from babyhood on my cousin and I were constantly together.

Back to age 3, or thereabouts: We devised a little game wherein a farmer is milking his cow and getting thirsty decided to drink from the cow. This cow was malformed and had but one teet. Lying on his back under the cow the farmer began to slake his thirst when miraculously his unit appeared in a rigid condition and the cow began to suck on it. Question: How could two 3 year old babies come up with a 69 concept???

We conttinued doing things together, making up other stories to fit the action, until we were in 4th or 5th grade. Thereafter we would at times compare our equipment and as often as not wind up handling one another. By that time I had already become adept at ejaculation but he didn&#39;t start until about a year after I shot my first. He was a little concerned about that for awhile but he was really put out by the fact that I was getting larger. The last time I remember us making a comparison was at about age 16 or 17 when he was just shy of 6" while I had already attained to a hair short of 9". Go figure.

Another cousin (this one on myy mother&#39;s side) and I had a thing going for a few years. We were staying at our grandparent&#39;s house overnight (something that we did frequently - but I don&#39;t remember why) we had gone to bed -oh, I didn&#39;t mention that he was about a year and a half younger than I - and we had talked some when he reached for my hand and placed in his crotch where he was sporting a woody. I guess I was around 11 at the time so he would have been 9 I suppose. I was squeezing his little hard on when he decided to return the favor. No doubt he was startled by my size and wanted to see what he was feeling. He turned on the light for a bettter visual and after playing with it for a bit he just helped himself to a mouthful and began sucking. It wasn&#39;t long before I told him to quit because I was going to "shoot my stuff". AND I did. He couldn&#39;t believe what he had just seen because he&#39;d never heard of such a thing.

He, of course, wanted to know if maybe he could do it so I said we could try and I gave him a good sucking. He had a pretty hefty reaction but no cum. As I indicated before, we were together quite often and it always wound up in a suck-session. He eventually got into swallowing. I think he thought it might get him started - I may even have told him that but it was nearly two years later before he experienced his first shoot. When we were grown we were remembering those times and since I never knew (WW II having intervened) I asked him if he had grown a cock that satisfied him. He said that he had a fairly thick seven and three quarters. Then he wanted to know hown big I had got and when I told him, you know he wanted to see. Short version - we both showed off and ended up by doing a mutual wank.

Before I stop - - This cousin had a younger brother and one time when I stayed over night at their house, my older cousin asked his brother if he&#39;d like to feel a "fire hose". He already had me in a hardened condition when he pulled his brother&#39;s hand over to me. After a bit of feeling and stroking, HE wanted to see so I let him. I stayed there most of the next day and in the afternoon my Aunt took me aside and confronted me with a "story" that her young son had told her conserning what I had between my legs and she admonished me that I shouldn&#39;t talk about those things OR be showing same to other little boys. She went on to say that little Bobby had claimed that I was of a size that was, to her personal knowledge, impossible. We had told Bobby how long I was and he had obviously passed the news along to mommy. Short version again: after much talk and urging "just to prove that I was lying", she called for a showdown. This was accomplished by her helping to create an erection which vindicated me and satisfied her curiousity. That was all to the good but THEN she told my father the story (leaving out the "showdown" and her "helping hand") Dad didn&#39;t do much other thanto suggest that I should be more careful about who saw my "thing". After all, he grew up on a farm with three younger brothers and SIX sisters.

Gramps

 

[jonb]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Apr 21 2005, 05:53 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Apr 21 2005, 05:53 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Apr 22 2005, 01:41 AM
Actually, Jacinto already mentioned Gramps.

Ummm ... did I? If I did, I must&#39;ve done so in a secret code without realizing it&#33;

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I thought you said masturbating with your grandfather would be a bit too weird.

Either way, everyone here agrees that&#39;s too weird, either for the incest or the age dissonance. Father/son doesn&#39;t have as much age dissonance, but it&#39;s still weird because of incest, not to mention the remaining age dissonance.

 

[KinkGuy]

I&#39;ve told this before....ah, what the hell.....My Dad walked in on my brother and I one afternoon while we were experimenting and giving each other a little pleasure. He just grinned, turned, left the room closing the door. Later we got the it&#39;s all ok, natural, all boys do it speech. He did emphasize however, that there were times and places for the activity. Opposite MZ&#39;s experience, he made sure we never felt weird or ashamed.

 

[Alley Blue]

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Tomorrow I&#39;ll be 86 and this has thrown me clear back to when I was about -Gramps

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My hat is off too you Sir&#33;
There are very few 86 year olds who actually surf the net......and even fewer who actually refer to themselves as "Gramps"

 

[KinkGuy]

Ah, the things we could learn&#33; And I&#39;ll bet oldman9x7 still knows how to work with his tools&#33;

 

[PonyPete]

My older brother was the one who taught me how to beat off. I never knew anyone considered brothers jacking off together strange before I found LPSG.

 

[KinkGuy]

It&#39;s not, Pony. Most guys just won&#39;t admit it.

 

[oldman9x7]

I never jacked off with my brother for the simple reason that I never had a brother, but my older sister watched once. I know I&#39;ve told this story before but it was some years back.

We were returning from a summer in the Colorado moutains in the company of another family, a doctor, his wife and daughter and young son. As it happened we traveled in three cars, one being my dad&#39;s Dodge coupe (red wire wheels, rumble seat, the works). My older sister (16) and the doc,s daughter (15) were going to be in the Dodge (sister driving) and I was flattered when they invited me to ride with them. I missed out on getting a window seat and wound up as "Malcomb In The Middle".

I don&#39;t recall how long we had been traveling (several hours) and conversation had lagged until Willie (doc&#39;s daughter) started telling about all the information about "sex" that she had gleaned from some of her dad&#39;s books. When she got to the area of male genitalia and the marvel of progressing from soft and small to hard and big, she cut us in on the hot scoop that, "Some men are as much as SIX INCHES long when they&#39;re hard." At this my sister asked (I guessed quite innocently) if I thought I would ever have one that big. With some bravado, I&#39;m sure, I let them know that I already possessed one that was longer than that. Willie gave a snort while she advised me that what I had just claimed was IMpossible because the books she had read suggested that the largest ones were just six inches - most were shorter. We argued a bit till I offered to settle by showing her that I wasn&#39;t lying. I looked at my sister for support but she just told me to "Go ahead and show her."

By this time, what with all the sex talk, I already was hard so I slid my pants and underwear down and exposed my pride (which was right at 7"). Willie and my sister both gave it a good scanning and then Willie pointed to the slit and gave us the news that, "Right there is where the baby-making juice comes out." Again my sister asked, "You&#39;ve never had any of that, have you?" And again we were treated to a hoot from Willie, "You couldn&#39;t have because boys can&#39;t do that until they&#39;re 15 to 17 years old." I had turned 11 about 4 months earlier. I was getting tired of her doubts and I told her that I made it shoot out all the time and that I could do it ANYtime. THAT surprised her. She obviously thought there was only one way to make the juice fly. Now there was a gap in her knowledge so she wanted to know, "How can you MAKE it come out?" Sitting there between two girls with an exposed erection I was very much ready to do something about it so I started to show her. I started with a little pumping action and then went to long strokes. Willie was watching closely and asked, "Is that all you have to do?" I gave her an affirmative and then she wanted to know if it would work if SHE did it. I felt sure that it would so I took my hand away and she replaced it and was stroking the way I had done. My dick was not unused to strange hands but Willie was so obviously impressed and eager that it was only a matter of a minute or less before I breathed, "Here we go&#33;" and I let go two shots that both hit the dashboard. The rest ran down over her hand and she changed hands so that she could do a sniff test on her hand AND a little taste with the tip of her tongue. My cum was about to drip off the dashboard so Willie grabbed a hankie and started to wipe it up when she suddenly dropped the rag and grabbed herself in the crotch. She stiffened out in the seat and after stomping her foot on the floor two or three times began to relax. My sister laughed at her and asked, "Did you have an orgasm?" Willie was breathing a little fast but she managed to nod and admit that she had never had one before and added, "My God, that&#39;s the best thing I&#39;ve ever felt&#33;" She took hold of my dick again (which was on its way to a semi but now became fully hard). "Doesn&#39;t that thing ever go down?"

It was at this moment that Sis (who was watching stuff other than her driving) ran off the pavement and when she pulled back a tire blew out. That ended the sex talk as we had to change off the flat and when we resumed our trip we found both our families waiting for us about a mile up the road. Good thing they didn&#39;t turn around and come back&#33;

Gramps