Masturbation & Family Openess

Alley Blue

Sexy Member
Joined
Apr 1, 2005
Posts
1,151
Media
0
Likes
27
Points
183
Age
34
Location
New York
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
Originally posted by sunnyside4lyfe@Apr 25 2005, 02:40 AM
Then lets get to the best friend whom I experimented with while he was sleep, it started out as just seeing what all the talk was about, he always claimed to be so big so I wanted to see. As that was my first thought I had when I woke up in the middle of the night knowing there was no chance that he'd wake up. So first i just felt it, he had on boxers and shorts it felt like he was probably a grower even though it was still pretty big, but then either it was me or his dream but it started to harden( it was probably the dream because we had watched a porno the night before) but then I just had to see so I slowly pulled his shorts off and opened the flap of his boxers to expose that beautifully dark penis of his I had never seen a penis so dark. I guess maybe that because he was much darker than me (yes we are both black) but anyways I just had to get a little suck in but then he started to move to much so i politely tucked it back away in fear of being caught. And you know I was hard so I had to jack off after every since then I have looked at him in a different view.

[post=304399]Quoted post[/post]​


Thats why I like comming to this site, because of stories like yours Sunny.
Did your friend ever try to get a glimpse at your "monster" ? :evilgrin:
 

SEISMIC

1st Like
Joined
Apr 25, 2005
Posts
4
Media
0
Likes
1
Points
146
Age
37
Location
Nottingham, UK
I don't have any brothers, which in some ways is a shame because I could imagine being comfortable wanking with someone of a similar age, Anyone older I wouldn't be cool with. Some years ago, me and my best mate spotted some girls pony riding in a field we tried chatting them up but they weren't taking any notice because we were in the middle of nowhere with a canal between us, I suggested that we streak in front of the girls. We went out of sight of the girls and stripped off, we were both nervous and carefully check no one was coming on either side of the canal. We went out into the open and called over to the girls , they shrieked but both came over for a better look. We both had a hand over our cocks but very quickly changed hands giving them a quick full frontal flash. The taller girl told us to give them a proper look, if they flashed their boobs, we agreed. Both girls turned their backs and took off their T shirts and then their bras as they turned around we removed our hands. We all stared at each other in silence then the smaller girl started grinning then laughing I looked at my mate and he had a full erection. I was also stiffening the taller girl suggested we show how big we could get, I said only if they got their knickers off the short girl refused and started getting dressed again. The taller girl said she would if we played with our dicks, I looked at my mate who just said yeah. Down came the girl's riding pants and knickers, it was almost like a race to see who would cum first we wanked so fast, just as we shot our loads the girls spotted a barge up the canal they rushed back to the horse field and us back to our pile of clothes. We never saw the girls again but for the next few weeks we would travel to the same spot, hoping to see them, each time we both had a wank. Other than with my girlfriend, the only other time I have wank in front of anyone was when my sister walked in on me some months ago, when she ask me to continue wanking, even though it was embarrassing I did.
 
  • Like
Reactions: deleted14980321

DadsAreUs

Admired Member
Joined
May 17, 2004
Posts
953
Media
0
Likes
771
Points
313
Location
All over the place
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
This thread is awesome. I, sadly, never had any experiences with cousins and had no brothers. I had one friend that i was madly in love with who, while we never jacked off together, used to have a strange thing going with me. I would stay at his house when my parents travelled. His room was a loft on the top floor of his house. There was no door. One stay lasted three weeks. During this time he would awake before me and take a shower. Then he would come out of the shower and presumably fluff his already sizeable cock. Then he would come to my bed, a mattress on the floor where I pretended to still be asleep, and gently wake me up with his cock waving in my face. I was already awake and hard as a rock. He would go downstairs to get me a cup of coffed and I would jerk off furiously. He would then reappear moments after I came with the coffee. and bring it to my bed.

This routine played out exactly the same every day. At the time I assumed he was unaware of my staring at his cock or my jerking off but years later I realized that he was orchestrating the whole thing and probably watching me jerk off. How could he not notice where my eyes were focused? How could he come in right after I finished every day for three weeks? Impossible. But the whole scenario played out the same way every day without either of us acknowledging it.
 

eastbaydude

Sexy Member
Joined
Apr 21, 2005
Posts
463
Media
1
Likes
89
Points
173
Age
56
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
I grew up with two brothers and a my cousin - all within a total of six years. Our house had three bedrooms and two batrroms so I was always sharing a bedroom with one of them and a bathroom with all of them.

Growing up, we were always nude around each other. It was no big thing growing up and still isn't. Lots of joking, towel snapping, de-pantsing, and teasing - but nothing at all in a sexual way.

We knew we all masturbated and talked and joked about it but never shared it. It wasn't unsual to hear, "Jack, quit playing with yourself get out of the bathroom. I need to get in the shower."

When my mother got pissed off at stained towels, locked bathrrom door, and porn stuffed under the bed, my dad would have THE talk with us. I remember he'd tell us masturbation normal and like picking your nose. We all do it and it's OK as long as you keep it private and clean up after yourself.

I guess they were pretty cool with it all. We all grew up petty normal.
 

Alley Blue

Sexy Member
Joined
Apr 1, 2005
Posts
1,151
Media
0
Likes
27
Points
183
Age
34
Location
New York
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
Originally posted by mistergrasso@Apr 25 2005, 10:12 PM
This thread is awesome. I, sadly, never had any experiences with cousins and had no brothers. I had one friend that i was madly in love with who, while we never jacked off together, used to have a strange thing going with me. I would stay at his house when my parents travelled. His room was a loft on the top floor of his house. There was no door. One stay lasted three weeks. During this time he would awake before me and take a shower. Then he would come out of the shower and presumably fluff his already sizeable cock. Then he would come to my bed, a mattress on the floor where I pretended to still be asleep, and gently wake me up with his cock waving in my face. I was already awake and hard as a rock. He would go downstairs to get me a cup of coffed and I would jerk off furiously. He would then reappear moments after I came with the coffee. and bring it to my bed.

This routine played out exactly the same every day. At the time I assumed he was unaware of my staring at his cock or my jerking off but years later I realized that he was orchestrating the whole thing and probably watching me jerk off. How could he not notice where my eyes were focused? How could he come in right after I finished every day for three weeks? Impossible. But the whole scenario played out the same way every day without either of us acknowledging it.
[post=304703]Quoted post[/post]​


This is a great story......... do you both keep intouch with each other?
 

B_Jeremy

Experimental Member
Joined
Oct 7, 2002
Posts
449
Media
0
Likes
7
Points
238
Age
39
Location
East Coast Canada
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
No siblings/cousins for me to share stories with you all, but one of my first memories of masturbating was running to my mom after I had finished because I had thought I had broken something, she asked if it felt good, I laughed and tried not to say an understatement of understatements, and she told me to run back to my room and keep doing it if I wanted and laughed herself.

So yeah, we've always been open around here about masturbation!
 

oldman9x7

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 3, 2004
Posts
203
Media
0
Likes
21
Points
238
Age
105
Location
AZ
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
Originally posted by KinkGuy@Apr 23 2005, 12:00 AM
Ah, the things we could learn! And I'll bet oldman9x7 still knows how to work with his tools! :D
[post=303559]Quoted post[/post]​

To alleyblu and kinkguy

Thanks for your notes.

BTW I do still know how to use the tools but I don't have many (or any) opportunities. I have a gal friend in Kansas. She is younger than I (one year) but I don't get back there very often. She is my cousin's widow and she recalls vividly a time when our two families shared a home in California and she walked in on me as I was drying off after a shower - TWICE! She jokes that the first time was accidental. She says that after that she always wondered how long my penis was AND how something that thick would feel when it was inside. She doesn't wonder anymore - nor has she for many years now.

Gramps
 
  • Like
Reactions: deleted14980321

B_Jeremy

Experimental Member
Joined
Oct 7, 2002
Posts
449
Media
0
Likes
7
Points
238
Age
39
Location
East Coast Canada
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
Originally posted by oldman9x7@Apr 27 2005, 08:20 PM

To alleyblu and kinkguy

Thanks for your notes.

BTW I do still know how to use the tools but I don't have many (or any) opportunities. I have a gal friend in Kansas. She is younger than I (one year) but I don't get back there very often. She is my cousin's widow and she recalls vividly a time when our two families shared a home in California and she walked in on me as I was drying off after a shower - TWICE! She jokes that the first time was accidental. She says that after that she always wondered how long my penis was AND how something that thick would feel when it was inside. She doesn't wonder anymore - nor has she for many years now.

Gramps
[post=305470]Quoted post[/post]​


Heh, it's always a pleasure to read your posts Gramps!! Love knowing there is another older guy I can look up too :)
 
1

13788

Guest
RunnerSF: cool icon. go stevie...

Well, you kinda start down a slippery slope there. I would agree that it would seem a bit odd to jack off with my dad. However, I had a friend in HS who did it once with his dad. I guess everyone is different.

Originally posted by alleyblu+Apr 21 2005, 03:24 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(alleyblu &#064; Apr 21 2005, 03:24 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Apr 21 2005, 12:50 AM
Yeah, some experimentation is normal even for straight guys. But once we get to father/son, that&#39;s a little too weird.
[post=302704]Quoted post[/post]​

Not just a lil weird.......try alot weird......lol.
I mean where does the line get drawn. Does one who gets involved in this continue on with this behaviour when they become adults? Do they stop by dads house after a long stressfull day at work to jerk off with dad..........bringing his favorite cigars in hopes that he&#39;ll throw in a blow-job.......maybe even bring the kids along so that they&#39;ll understand what fatherly love is all about.....
[post=302856]Quoted post[/post]​
[/b][/quote]
 
1

13788

Guest
RunnerSF: Sorry for the double post. I forgot to add my experience. I jacked off with a friend once and a cousin once growing up. Both times were very young and more just experimenting. I wanted to do it more - I am gay and knew it at the time I jacked off with them. I never did with my brother. My brother and i were both told jacking off was wrong...so, it wasn&#39;t really ever discussed except that one time. Of course, everyone knows just about every guy does it.
 

Pices2325

Experimental Member
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Posts
69
Media
0
Likes
4
Points
153
Age
34
It is more than opinion. It is the law. When an adult jacks off with a minor. It is called "fondling" and if convicted you get free room and board down at the local prison.
[post=303368]Quoted post[/post]​
[/quote]
I agree this is wrong but know that the law IS nothing more than an opinion. The law also says not to speed but I do it all the time. It is because somebody, somewhere had an opinion that going too fast is wrong and they made a law. People express opinions everyday and sometimes those opinions becomes laws.
[post=303461]Quoted post[/post]​
[/quote]

Or J-Walk :)
 

Mighty Joe

Experimental Member
Joined
May 10, 2004
Posts
228
Media
0
Likes
17
Points
238
Age
34
I had three cousins that I use to play "doctor" with. One I carried on with even up to the night before his (first) wedding. I was his best man and was asleep on the living room floor of their apartment. I was awakened by him beside me playing with me .We wound up 69-ing. I don&#39;t know if his bride-to-be was aware of him leaving and reentering their bed. Maybe I should have spoken out when the preacher asked if anyone knew any reason why this man and woman should not be lawfully wedding or whatever the wording. :evilgrin:
He is five months older than me and now on his "third wife". I&#39;m with my "SO" since 1966.
 
  • Like
Reactions: deleted14980321

Pye

Loved Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jun 17, 2005
Posts
791
Media
9
Likes
639
Points
413
Location
Warwick (Rhode Island, United States)
Verification
View
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
I grew up with 3 brothers and 2 sisters
My brothers and I all shared one room..and get this..we never even saw each other naked.
The only time I can remember masturbation even being mentioned was when I was 5 years old and was climbing the basketball pole in the backyard my older brother who was about 16 or 17 at the time said only weirdos did that. So from that point on masturbation was done secretly in the bathroom or when no one was around to see me climb the pole.
I didn&#39;t use my hand until I was about 11 and at that point I noticed that I could finger just under the glans and get a GREAT feeling.
I remember watching The Wonderful World of Disney ( I remember Herbie the Love Bug was on) laying under an afghan and fingering my penis when suddenly I felt it get wet.. immediately I was scared...did I rip off the head of my &#39;little man&#39; ? Was I bleeding? I had to jump up and run to the bathroom to check his condition.
When I got to the bathroom there was nothing noticeable..I was confused-- I know my fingers were wet and I didn&#39;t pee myself. I couldn&#39;t ask my brothers about it as I shouldn&#39;t be playing with it cuz I didn&#39;t want to be a "weirdo".
So I had to find out what was up. Being a precocious child I knew that that set of encyclopedias would have some answers. That&#39;s when I first learned that was I was doing was called masturbation. Then off to school to find the BIG unabridged dictionary and found all the synonyms for it. I never spoke of this to anyone in my family but as I got older I did notice that my younger brother had locked the bedroom door a few times (a door that normally would be open) and there wa a lot of rustling and "hold on" while I waited for him to open the door. But still..we never talked about it and I never asked him what took so long to open the door.
I wish that we were more open about it.
 
  • Like
Reactions: deleted14980321

bareamigo

Sexy Member
Joined
Jul 14, 2005
Posts
108
Media
0
Likes
27
Points
238
Age
34
Location
Chicago
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
I have a younger brother and we’ve never jacked off together—I’ve never even seen him hard. He’s seen me jack though when I did it with my cousins. I have three cousins that I jacked off with in 7th and 8th grades. They lived out of town, so it wasn’t often. They all three was older (and wilder) than me so I learned a lot from them. My little brother was only about 8 at the time.

I’ve also jacked off with one of my uncles—he’s only 5 years older than me, and we’re more like cousins than uncle/nephew. One time when I was in college he and I were driving and I told him about some photos I’d posed for and he told me he’d done a bit of porn. It was kinda funny--my uncle is a really well built dude, nice dick, but not hugely well hung—maybe about 7” hard. Given that I don’t exactly have the kind of body anyone would pay to see, my uncle couldn’t figure out why anyone would want me to model for anything—til I pulled out my dick and we had a good laugh and then he pulled out his and we jacked off together in the car while he was driving.

That’s it for the relatives. I had a friend in college, though who told me he jacked with his dad an I totally believe him. He had a cool dad who was pretty young for a dad—at least a lot younger than my dad. They used to do a lot of shit together and I thought it was really cool how close they were. One time when he was still in college, they were on a trip together and I guess it’d been a few days and my buddy was in the motel room alone an thought he had time to jack off. He was spread out on his bed completely nude an well into his routine when his dad walks in. My buddy jumps up and starts to pull on his shorts but the dad says “no, no, no—it’s cool—go ahead—I’ve been horny as hell too”, an before he finishes the sentence he drops trou and his stiffy pops up. My buddy is so embarrassed he wants to crawl under the bed and of course he’s completely lost his hard on. But the dad—now nude--sits on his bed stroking himself and showin—according to my buddy—amazing credentials (my buddy’s hung too). My buddy’s too embarrassed to just sit there watching, so he goes back to stroking himself, tryin—but not succeeding—to look any direction but at his dad’s dick. After that first time, my buddy told me that it made him and his dad even closer. They talked about it and my buddy even admitted to his dad that out of curiosity he had taken a good long look at his dad’s hard cock while he was jackin it. He said that after that, it was like jerkin with a buddy—which kinda made me wonder why he and I had never jerked off together. Anyway, I know that he and his dad beat off together lots of times after that. They used to go on weekend camping trips. My buddy told me his dad turned him on to jackin outdoors. They’d go into the woods—if it was an isolated area maybe a nude hike—and jack. And I know they watched porn together and beat their meat the whole time. As far as I know they never jacked each other or anything like that but it’s like they became totally uninhibited around each other. One time I went over to their house when his mom was out of town. It was after noon and neither one of em had bothered to get dressed yet. The three of us was sittin around the kitchen and the two of them was completely nude. Like I said, I totally believe my buddy.

Gabe
 

kilbasadad

Sexy Member
Joined
Jan 21, 2005
Posts
88
Media
0
Likes
38
Points
238
Age
55
Location
Westlake Village CA
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Howdy Gentleman and Ladies,

I have not posted here for a long time due to some issues and personality issues with others. However, I have since leaned from my mistakes and will try not to make them again. However on a serious note, this is quit a controversial topic and I am sure like all of you have an opinion of what’s “traditionally” right and wrong. I have to say again this is my opinion, but by the standers of the law any person who engages in elicit acts with a minor its against the law. However I truly don’t see anything wrong with masturbating with your brother or cousin or even your father for that matter. I see it as wrong when its forced and or bought to fruition by means that one can only construe as morally wrong.

I think that if we perhaps grew up in there environment and had or have the chance to do it keeping in mind how old these guys were at the time I’m guessing 16-17ish. Would you have done it? Keep in mind all of you are older and much more learned now. But back then if you new you would not get caught and come on now at that age and hell at my ripe old age of 39 I masturbate all the time and at 16-17 hell you could never get me out of my bedroom. Just food for thought. Again please don’t take offence to this post this is purely my own opinion.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pye

blasian

Just Browsing
Joined
Jun 30, 2005
Posts
27
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
146
Age
34
I have a conservative upbringing and didn&#39;t talk about masturbation, much less mutually masturbate with family members. I do have one cousin who is the "black sheep" and was always talking about stuff like that. We would sneak into his parent&#39;s room and watch his dad&#39;s porn lol. Looking back, I think he would have mutually masturbated with me; he was a little obsessed with my size. He would actually kind of would "pimp" me out to chicks to help me get laid by talking about my endowment. Huh, now that I&#39;m reading this, it sounds somewhat dysfunctional...? Eh, it&#39;s sad but true :shrugs: