Masturbation & Family Openess

[MysteryMeat]

Me and my brother are only 4 years apart so we were not too far off the generation gap. For a while we were each others best friend. As far as family openness, we shared a bed together for a long while. We slept for the most part in the nude or in underwear. It wasn’t abnormal to me. Even when cousins stayed over for a sleep over... it was usually a undies only event. We would all share and compare as most do I think. As far as masturbation goes, it was commonly a group ritual, the more the merrier.
A cousin of mine came from a single parent home, so it was just him and his dad. Most often than not, it was clothing optional to roam about in the house and the pool. We were also aloud to masturbate freely. I would say around high school time is when I started to become ashamed of everything. I thought it was natural to do all of the things I enjoyed as a child. It wasn’t until everyone was anti masturbation and nudity. Even the showers were pretty much wash your hair and run. If you stayed any longer or heaven forbid got hard, you were instantly gay. All of a sudden I could masturbate with my cousins or uncle. Even my own brother got weird.
The only time I felt uncomfortable with my nudity as a child was at my best friends house. His mom was ok with us being nude when swimming but it felt odd to be nude around a women. But that quickly subsided. Even to this day we still skinny dip there. His mom is so cool, but she was never nude around us. She would regularly catch us masturbating but never actually stood there to watch. May have taken a little long to find what she was looking for but never stayed. I would even use the pool while he was gone to camp a few summers.
But my own family never said anything good or bad, just to exercise caution when around other people. My own mom was never nude around us, just in her lingerie often. She told us that she would knock before she entered the room, and to clean up with tissue and not make a mess. But as time went on we did it where ever when ever. Even when I go back home to visit, it is still as relaxed as it was. My brother still lives there and had not been too uptight. I’m glad he loosened up. But I think high school is evil when it comes to destroying something natural. A little nudity or masturbation never hurt anyone.

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Jul 18 2005, 04:32 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Jul 18 2005, 04:32 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Jul 17 2005, 03:37 PM
The problem&#39;s not masturbating with your father. The problem&#39;s masturbating with your son.

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I&#39;m so glad that I&#39;m not the only one who thought so.

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I think there&#39;s a large group of us here who believes this.

 

[deewil]

This relates only indirectly to the topic of family openess, but I read that outhouses built a long time ago, such as in the Midwest, sometimes would have at least two toilet holes located side by side. In other words, some people in the past didn&#39;t think twice about sitting down on a toilet right next to someone else, no stall divider, no nothing. :wow:

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by deewil@Jul 18 2005, 11:17 PM
This relates only indirectly to the topic of family openess, but I read that outhouses built a long time ago, such as in the Midwest, sometimes would have at least two toilet holes located side by side. In other words, some people in the past didn&#39;t think twice about sitting down on a toilet right next to someone else, no stall divider, no nothing. :wow:

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In anceint Rome, toilets were communal.

As in, there would be a large sqaure room, with a large toilet bench running along 3 walls, and it was a place of conversation and debate - while letting nature take care of itself.

Not really that supriseing.

I mean we all have to go right? Why make it so private?

But then again - thats society today. Cant even take crap with friends anymore.

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by SomeGuyOverThere+Jul 19 2005, 05:41 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(SomeGuyOverThere &#064; Jul 19 2005, 05:41 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-deewil@Jul 18 2005, 11:17 PM
This relates only indirectly to the topic of family openess, but I read that outhouses built a long time ago, such as in the Midwest, sometimes would have at least two toilet holes located side by side. In other words, some people in the past didn&#39;t think twice about sitting down on a toilet right next to someone else, no stall divider, no nothing.  :wow:

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I mean we all have to go right? Why make it so private?

But then again - thats society today. Cant even take crap with friends anymore.

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I almost fell off my chair laughing when I read that SomeGuyOverThere.......

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by alleyblu+Jul 19 2005, 05:52 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(alleyblu &#064; Jul 19 2005, 05:52 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by SomeGuyOverThere@Jul 19 2005, 05:41 PM
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@Jul 18 2005, 11:17 PM
This relates only indirectly to the topic of family openess, but I read that outhouses built a long time ago, such as in the Midwest, sometimes would have at least two toilet holes located side by side. In other words, some people in the past didn&#39;t think twice about sitting down on a toilet right next to someone else, no stall divider, no nothing. :wow:

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I mean we all have to go right? Why make it so private?

But then again - thats society today. Cant even take crap with friends anymore.

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I almost fell off my chair laughing when I read that SomeGuyOverThere.......

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[jonb]

That&#39;s because the Religious Right wants to shit on you instead.

 

[strok869]

I have never done anything with my brother who is a 3 years younger, but I have done things with my couzins and friends. I had this one couzin who is 6 years older than me show me what jacking off was and he sucked my cock and we stroked each other. I also had this friend who stayed over and we played truth or dare. Then we were supposed to get naked. Then it lead to other things. We had sex, suckked each other, and all that "GOOD" stuff. Then he moved. So I am all alone. I do try to see some of my couzins from time to time. I think I am the biggest of my couzins, (having seen theres). I dont want to be "GAY" but I love to experiment. Anyone else have this feeling? Email me so we can talk privatly. I do prefer the Straighter guys with a little gay in them like me&#33; but anyone email me here or i_am_2_hot_4_u24@yahoo.com. Then if I really like you I will give you my "speacial email address and we can chat".

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Hmmm ... Utah ... sex with relatives ... Does this remind anyone else of a certain member known as hungmormon?

 

[LovesDick]

I dont know the dude but lots of peeps have called you out big time for been a fraud and a fake and a lyin&#39; sack of bs. I laughed my azz off at it all, secretly lurkin&#39;. You have some fuckin&#39; nerve calling someone out. You yourself are at least 40 years old and not whatever bs you write in your profile. Been watchin&#39; you for a long time boy and you lie like a persion rug.

:rofl: :rofl:

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by LovesDick@Sep 15 2005, 09:16 PM
I dont know the dude but lots of peeps have called you out big time for been a fraud and a fake and a lyin&#39; sack of bs. I laughed my azz off at it all, secretly lurkin&#39;. You have some fuckin&#39; nerve calling someone out. You yourself are at least 40 years old and not whatever bs you write in your profile. Been watchin&#39; you for a long time boy and you lie like a persion rug.

:rofl: :rofl:

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And you have some nerve jumping on something that you know nothing about. Believe what you will; it&#39;s no skin off my nose.

 

[Irvy]

I shared a room with my brother for most of my time living at home, and like someone who posted before, we didn&#39;t even see each other naked. We saw it as an unspoken sign of respect that if one of us was going to get changed, the other would leave the room. My bf had the same experience with his brothers.

I have to admit, I do wonder why someone would WANT to jerk off with a family member. It does somewhat propagate the myth that to most gay guys, any cock will do.

Whilst I do think that appropriate nudity in families is healthy, and can help avoid people growing up with a bad complex about their bodies, there are very many situations where family nudity is far less appropriate, and certainly engaging in sexual activities with your father or grandfather is in the "not appropriate at all" area, in my book.

 

[LovesDick]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Sep 15 2005, 10:25 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Sep 15 2005, 10:25 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-LovesDick@Sep 15 2005, 09:16 PM
I dont know the dude but lots of peeps have called you out big time for been a fraud and a fake and a lyin&#39; sack of bs.  I laughed my azz off at it all, secretly lurkin&#39;.  You have some fuckin&#39; nerve calling someone out.  You yourself are at least 40 years old and not whatever bs you write in your profile.  Been watchin&#39; you for a long time boy and you lie like a persion rug.

:rofl:  :rofl:

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And you have some nerve jumping on something that you know nothing about. Believe what you will; it&#39;s no skin off my nose.

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oh-ho-ho here he goes again. LOL. The karate kid&#33; hey hey karate man. You tell me i know nothing about it and I been readin all your stuff for a long time. I know ALOT ABOUT IT, little karate kid. I saw the boguz pics you put up. like whatever. I see how your year on your profile gets changed all the time. I thought you were kinda hot when it had that pic of the guy doing a muscle curl. this picture don&#39;t even look like that guy. Nice bandana. LOL. I pm with a lot of guyz and one gal you think is your big friend and tehy all are laughin their azzes off at you. what a liar you are. you think we dont all know. then you call out someone here for a posting you accuse them of being someone else. please, little man. fess up to been what you are, a old-ass troll.

oh-yeah man i am calling it out&#33; thanks for the strength to do it, lord&#33; call out that rascally liar.

time to come clean, little karate man. big liar and veryone knows it&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Lay off the hooch when you&#39;re posting, buddy.

What&#39;s a muscle curl? Sounds like something dippity-do could tame.

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by LovesDick+Sep 16 2005, 02:41 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(LovesDick &#064; Sep 16 2005, 02:41 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Sep 15 2005, 10:25 PM
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@Sep 15 2005, 09:16 PM
I dont know the dude but lots of peeps have called you out big time for been a fraud and a fake and a lyin&#39; sack of bs. I laughed my azz off at it all, secretly lurkin&#39;. You have some fuckin&#39; nerve calling someone out. You yourself are at least 40 years old and not whatever bs you write in your profile. Been watchin&#39; you for a long time boy and you lie like a persion rug.

:rofl: :rofl:

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And you have some nerve jumping on something that you know nothing about. Believe what you will; it&#39;s no skin off my nose.

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oh-ho-ho here he goes again. LOL. The karate kid&#33; hey hey karate man. You tell me i know nothing about it and I been readin all your stuff for a long time. I know ALOT ABOUT IT, little karate kid. I saw the boguz pics you put up. like whatever. I see how your year on your profile gets changed all the time. I thought you were kinda hot when it had that pic of the guy doing a muscle curl. this picture don&#39;t even look like that guy. Nice bandana. LOL. I pm with a lot of guyz and one gal you think is your big friend and tehy all are laughin their azzes off at you. what a liar you are. you think we dont all know. then you call out someone here for a posting you accuse them of being someone else. please, little man. fess up to been what you are, a old-ass troll.

oh-yeah man i am calling it out&#33; thanks for the strength to do it, lord&#33; call out that rascally liar.

time to come clean, little karate man. big liar and veryone knows it&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;

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I dont like stealing other people&#39;s thunder and answering for them, but your post was hilariously ironic.


I&#39;d say one of the few people on this board who is highly unlikely to be lieing is DMW. You however, joined today, have made 3 posts and claim that you have been watching him for a while and you have exchanged PMs with lots of members.

I&#39;m not laughing my "azz" (whatever the fuck that is) off at him, and I seriously doubt he is a big liar.

I have very little doubt however, that you are. I think are just making up stuff to cause a stirr.

Yawn.

 

[jonb]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Sep 15 2005, 06:09 PM
Hmmm ... Utah ... sex with relatives ... Does this remind anyone else of a certain member known as hungmormon?

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Or anyone else from Utah. Usually it involves sex with younger female relatives, though. Part of having so many religious fanatics in one place.

 

[strok869]

hay lets not go there about religion. that is one of 2 thigs you should not talk about.

 

[prepstudinsc]

Originally posted by Hung Muscle@Sep 16 2005, 09:47 AM
Lay off the hooch when you&#39;re posting, buddy.

What&#39;s a muscle curl? Sounds like something dippity-do could tame.

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I think a muscle curl is like a Jheri curl. lol

 

[Inter Ested]

i am located in lower saxony/germany. i never had sex with any relatives or ever thought about it. i&#39;m an atheist by the way.

greetings

inter

 

[strok869]

you need to start and learn somewere&#33;