Masturbation & Family Openess

[nineboxer]

yes I have. Makes for a very close family

 

[OldFirm08]

But what about the original question. Comparison. How did the guys in family 'measure up? Did some have much more cock than the others? I'm on the very short end here, from what I saw of my dad once or twice in public pool showers, both thickness and length. Anybody else see major differences in cocks?

 

[nirecue]

I did have some masturbation sessions with one of my cousins. We were in early high school, him a year younger than me. We would only see each other a few times a year, but there was usually sleepovers involved. Once time, I had a computer in my room with internet and we watched some porn. Eventually we could tell we both had erections in our shorts, we had found some alcohol sample bottles and downed those so we were also feeling a little looser than usual. We had started rubbing ourselves through our clothes, but at some point he pulled his cock out and then i followed suit. We never touched each other, but we would look at the porn and say to each other what we found hot about it in different scenes. We would do that for a bit, and then stop watching the porn, get naked and sit in front of each other masturbating. It felt really good to share that with someone, it was one of my earliest times sharing a sexual experience with another person. Then we took turns watching the other cum, complimented each other on how hot it was and would go to sleep. After that first time, we both looked forward to sleepovers where we would repeat the procedure many times. We never felt the urge to go further with each other, and we both never really felt like it was gay or anything. And in subsequent years, even when not having a masturbation session like that, we would hit the gym or town pool and be totally cool being naked in front of each other. It was very freeing not to have to worry about holding towels up and being sure to cover up.

In case you were wondering, I am bigger than he is...he is significantly shorter in height than me, but he was in no way small. He was barely shorter and a little thinner in the cock. This was one of the things in my life that showed me I wasn't all that 100% straight as I would later jerk off to the memory of those experiences, as well as be naked in front of guys without worrying that someone would be judging me gay for not covering up etc etc.

My favorite time was actually when i found out him and his friends jerk off in groups a lot. I visited him once out where he lives and he had about 4 friends over. The 6 of us got drunk and got naked watching porn, and took turns cumming in front of the group. I was again the biggest cock in the room, which i was surprised by. There was one other guy I thought for sure had a bigger cock, but i was bigger by a little bit. One of the hardest orgasms i had was that time when i had 5 other naked and hard guys cheering me on. We all woke up the next day, not really even mentioning it or how hot it was...we just went about our day like nothing strange happened.

 

[ottosafado]

wish I had one of those experiences ...

 

[BBCJelqer]

We had an interesting split in my family. The males were very liberal and open, but there was a clear divide between the sexes. I have two older brothers--one by three years and the other by six years. I shared a room with my brother who is three years older until I turned 14. It was nothing for us to be nude around one another--cramming into a bathroom, getting ready for school, running late so one gets in the shower while the other is brushing or shaving, changing to go swim or play basketball, cleaning up after chores, etc. None of that was sexual, it was just life. I grew up in a big family in a small house.

As I look back on the various experiences, even when sexual elements were present, it still wasn't about being sexual. For example, once we got cable, my brother and I would keep watch so that we could see some of the movies on Cinemax late at night. We found my dad's porn stash in the shed, and we would look at the magazines along with some cousins and friends. By this age, I guess starting at 11 for me, I was getting erections, growing hair, and cumming. It was not uncommon to just encounter other hard dicks...it just happened. My brother might be talking to a girl he liked. There's always a strange correlation between a guy making a dominant move on the basketball court and his dick being hard.

Eventually, my brother got a steady girlfriend around the time he turned 15, and they were always around each other, always so touchy feely. I was doig homework one night while my brother was on the phone with his girl, he called my name and when I turned around he had his cock in his hand. Not even fully hard, but it was thick and long and he was waving it around--like eight inches around and probably eight inches long. He thought nothing of it, at least from what I could tell, and it pissed me off--because I wasn't that big!

After that point, the stories and experiences get more explicitly sexual....the jerking off, the guidance, etc. but everything up to that point as just a part of the circumstances of our life. My dad was very free around the house. I always knew about my dad's side from very early on. It just wasn't a big thing. However, there was a clear line between the openness and freedom expressed between the sexes. For example, I've never seen any of my sisters naked. In underwear on occasion is we were running late or things were hurried for some reason, but never casually. This rule did not apply, however, if you were a younger sibling. For example, I have a sister 15 years older than I am who would give me baths....but I was like 3.

 

[cgabriele]

Nater,

Parents have dreams for their children and so many times what they will accept from others, they won't accept from their own children.

Please know that we here at LPSG will support you as much as we can. I am old enough to be your father. So yea, I will joke about you coming and joining the fleshpile and spanking your butt and assorted other things, but in truth, it is all comical. It is all utter nonsense and all of us enjoy the joking because we all have been put down in some way by somebody for something about us sexaully.

But in the serous tone, feel free to write me privately or publically on this post. Pappy, KinkGuy and I are regular posters and we are all about the same age. We will support you all we can. KingGuy has had a time with his family. He has had to endure a lot. So we are here. I know I can speak for the other two as well in saying that we will be mature older men to give emotional support. Then there are regular posters here you age as well who will support you unconditionally.

Good luck to you. Keep us posted on your life. We are here for you. So come join in the fleshpile and let off a little stress in your life.

Freddie

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[LatinSoul]

coming from a single parent family of 2 bros and dad, lotsa cousins and uncles, and being the biggest of them, yes this happened. i did not think it was strange or weird. it was more of a bonding thing which strengthened the relationship. If anyone had similar situations good or bad and would like to discuss the subject further, lets do it by e-mail.
Nineboxer

That's really awesome man! Wish I had that growing up

 

[ronin001]

I am not sure; but this may be a little shy of being allowed by the TOS,

 

[LatinSoul]

What's the TOS?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I am not one to judge, but this kind of wank fodder creeps me out. I do believe it is toeing the line on the ToS. But it's not been deleted yet. So who knows.

 

[ronin001]

What's the TOS?

The T.O.S. Terms of Service for LPSG. Read them, learn them and live them.

This has been a public service advisory

 

[bkbll2010]

I'm the youngest of 3 brothers, and shared a room with the next youngest (1.5 years older then me). I did jerk off with him some. Most notable when we visited our grandparents, they had a hand held massager that vibrated. We would lock ourselves in a room and use it. No touching each other or anything just using it. As horny teens I guess it was just normal.

 

[ironbody47]

use to masturbate with friends all the time at the YMCA, our Y was male only in 1957-65 when I was a member. No suits were allowed in the pool. Some open masturbation in the showers too.Remember my younger brother asking to watch me come

 

[Uncutpete]

If anyone wants to discuss the whole topic of growing up in a sexually open family in a more private way, send me a private message

 

[mandoggy]

hot

 

[DadsAreUs]

This is a great story......... do you both keep intouch with each other?

Not only do we keep in touch, but i was emailing his wife this morning and for some reason this story popped into my head and I wondered if I should tell her. I have decided against it.