Masturbation fantasies ...Do you share them

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  1. rrkrd

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    If you practice fantasizing while masturbating, do you share these fantasies with your sexual partner in the hope that he/she will act them out with you in bed during sexual relations?

    Or do you prefer to keep your fantasies private to yourself
     
  2. chgorunner

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    keep to myself- jackin off is something I do alone
     
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    share them and live them out, its very satisfying :wink:
     
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    When I masturbate, I'm usually fantasizing about being fucked by a guy. I'm, not too keen on sharing this fact very often with the wife.
     
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    Masturbation fantasies are just that...fantasies...don't feel the need to share them.
     
  6. Chaotica

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    Occasionally I share, just for the sake of sharing but not acting them out. Most of the time I keep them to myself.
     
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    Recently, I started adapting my masturbation fantasies into my written works on this site, though "Elisa and the Sky Pirate" came to me while listening to this band I started liking recently: Abney Park, a former goth band who since their album Lost Horizons (their second-most-recent album) have switched to a steampunk-inspired sound.

    Though the fantasies usually change when being turned into written works.
     
  8. dolfette

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    i don't share them, because i've no desire to act them out.
     
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    I think the world would be a better place if guys--who aren't famous for opening up emotionally--would share their fantasies with other guys.
     
  10. southernstud

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    There are some I'd share, but for the most part, I use masturbation as an outlet to explore the people odds are I would never have.
     
  11. dirrtyminded

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    I share with people that I know are mature and open enough to handle such things. Plus they might get turned on by these thoughts/fantasies and want to try them out or at the very least watch you get off on it.
     
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    I share some and have even had many of them fulfilled but some other fantasies I keep to myself.
     
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    No. Nobody would even understand me. And as far as acting them out... it's literally physically impossible.
     
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