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I just wanted to open up this thread on masturbation for two reasons. One, I'm curious about you all and what you do to alleviate the time between partners; and two, I need to get something off my chest.

Like most, my first jack-off experience during puberty... man, did I open some flood gates or what! Ever since I started, jacking has been a nearly daily thing for me for... well, ten years strong now. At 23, I laugh, supposing that I'm just as horny, if not more so, than I was in pubescence. I'm a walking hardon, sometimes. I wake up with wood most of the time, and sometimes I just can't my day going properly until I shoot a load. Jacking before bed is a little more inconsistent, but I do it plenty. Oh, and now that I'm back in school again, if I can't seem to concentrate, I end up flogging it again.

An online friend of mine teases me about it. Rarely does a conversation go by without a beating-meat reference. He often asks, "So, what did you do today? Wax the flagpole?" All the fuckin' time!

He's the same guy that makes j/o a weekly thing. Sometimes he's not in the mood; other times, he's too tired. Geez. Can't imagine how edgy I'd be if I waited that long.

I masturbate daily. Sometimes it's a load or two, and other days I keep going at it. Jokingly, I told myself that I need to quit beating off so much, and I ended up shooting six loads that day. Just couldn't stop it. On a lighter note, the amount I shot on each occasion didn't change much -- guess I gave my equipment enough recovery time.

I also think the size helps. I'm not going to lie. Being a well-hung guy, it's pretty fun to play with the meat, too. I find myself palming an NRB (No Reason Boner) in as discreet a fashion as possible. If I wake up in the morning and notice that I'm a little stiff, I'll give it a few rubs even if the intent isn't to shoot a load.

I am a little concerned, though. Like I said, my bud teases me about it, and on occasion, I get to thinking about it too much. For instance, the week before Christmas holiday, I figured that since I'll be at home and I don't have the privacy to enjoy, I could just focus on my work for the seminar next month. No whacking. Yeah, folks, that lasted all of a day... not even a day, 16 hours probably. My dick went up and my mind went off.

I know there's such a thing as sexual addiction, but that involves a partner, right? I mean, I want to make a joke of being a compulsory masturbator, but at the same time, I can't imagine holding off. The most joy I get out of waiting -- like I experienced tonight, actually -- was shooting a bigger load (several spurts, really, really creamed my hand). It felt nice. At the same time, my willfully weak behind could only wait, what, two days?

What's up with that?
 

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What's up with that? Nothing out of the ordinary as far as I can tell.

The only thing that kept me from masturbating daily from my very first whack-off at 14 was getting married at 25. Wedded bliss didn't put a total halt to the jacking - there were days when I didn't get what I wanted so I had to revert to manual, and some days I was so sexed up that I'd find myself whacking off even after a wild session of sex with the wife.

Now I'm nearly 60, living alone, and I still manage to clean the pipes once, sometimes twice, a day. I agree with your posit that the added size of the organ makes it more fun and possibly more frequent. It's just plain fun to handle that monster with it gets insistent.

Don't worry about being addicted. That would mean you are obsessed to the point of excluding other activities habitually or that you begin to expose your habits to others in a perverse way. You are far from that state, Dee.

Ain't it grand being a guy!
 
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thingsteal: Same here, although like drinking I never do it in the morning or afternoon. Only in the evening.

20+ years of fun and cum, only delayed by illness, girlfriends, or the wife.

I haven't come across a lot of women who masterbate regularly, or at least admit to it. Isn't that strange? If I was a chick and I had the kind of orgasms I've seen and had described to me, I'd fuck myself silly every night of the week. Most women I've seen can just cum and cum and cum once they get going. Us guys, we eventually cum and most of us have that damn refractory period to deal with.

I just found the best stuff to j/o with lately. It's Suave Aloe Vera hair conditioner. Smells great. Feels silky. Helps your skin. Try it.
 

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You've started one of my favorite subjects, Dee, and hope lots of us will add our inputs to make it a long thread.

Before age 11, I had been fascinated with stories the big boys told about what was possible to do with this instrument. Sure, I tried it, eager to learn for myself all the feelings involved. Lots of times only a thin liquid came out my dick slit, but this didn't put a damper on my new found fun.

And, then that time arrived, while standing over the john, I produced more than a thin liquid! Wow, then I knew the meaning of being male!

You say at 23 you were just as horny, if not more so, than you were in pubescence, Dee. Well, at 74 I'm hornier than during any other time frame. During 29 yrs. of marriage, my fist continued wrapping around my erection and stroking it's length to climax at least weekly.

Since getting my first pc in 1998, I haven't missed many days jacking off at least once, sometimes twice and that third one is not unheard of. I understand how your size influences your palming demands, Dee. The compliments on mine that I have gotten through the yrs., have helped me keep it in good condition and receptive to regular play times.

Keep this one up front, Dee, so more will see it and contribute.

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Donk: Dee, I am so with you. I almost could have written the same post myself because my own urges and habits are very similar.

Jacking is nearly a daily activity for me. Most days, I j/o at least twice, morning and night. And I have the occasional day when I do it several times. (I do this less and less, it seems, but more from lack of opportunity than desire. The combination of a career that is very busy right now and the presence of a healthy relationship with a long term gf mean that I have very few of those long, lazy days chillin' at home by myself that often turned into j/o fests.)

The exceptions are days when I know I'm going to be spending the night with my gf when I try to hold off. (Because of our schedules, we often only get to spend a couple nights a week together.) Even on those days, I will sometimes jack at least once.

I just seem to get horny very frequently and need the release. I cannot understand these guys who do it only once a week--or any less than daily--unless they are getting sex every day.

I doubt that size has anything to do with horniness level (despite many myths to the contrary) but I do agree that large size sure makes a penis fun to play with. When that big slab of meat rises between my legs, it just begs to be pleasured.
 
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raj: Hey Dee:

At 45 years old, I still masturbate almost as much as when I was your age. The desire is still there, but maybe not the time. Though I'm one of the few str8 men to never marry, when I'm in a realtionship, I still find the time to jerk-off. Most of the time it's either first thing in the mornings or late at night. Some of my girlfiends have even loved watching me do my morning excersizes. And when I have lazy weekend days home alone, what's a guy to do but lay around massaging his manhood. I too have also wondered if my love of jerk-ing off has to do with my size. A man must love his dick and if he can find the time to worship what makes him a man in his own hands, go for it. Yes, it nice to have a partner playing with your penis, but I am a "firm" believer that you must first love and enjoy yourself in order to give love to someone else.

Weekend days (like today) when I have no appointments and just bumming around watching TV, my hands eventually find its way down to my crouth. Usually I'm nude anyway since I sleep in the buff, but if I do have clothes on, they are usually loose fitting shorts, boxers or jammies. Easy access to my penis when I need to. I love admiring my recently trimmed manhood. It sounds narcissistic, but when It's hard and my fist is wrapped around it, those moments alone are most pleasurable. Did I say I love lazy weekend mornings and days!

Cheerish the tool between your legs and be greatfull that you have more to work with than most. I am glad to read that I'm not the only one out there who loves jerking off...
 
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Once again, we all seem to be on such common ground!

I've mentioned this before, and I not alone on this point either (from what I recall hearing from others).

Even at (ahem) almost 50, it seems a daily "release" is necessary for me to avoid that "achey" feeling in the testicles and up into the groin area. I surmise the "pipes get full" and simply need to be emptied! ;)
I've ALWAYS been that way since from adolescence.

Whether "size" has anything to do with the frequency thing or not--I think it does help contribute to the more constant arousal. The sensing of the weight and the "presence" of the gear down there when walking, sitting, going about day to day life in general is always a reminder of yet "other business" which (might) need tending to! :)

The worry about "sexual addiction" might cross many of our minds who have so many frequent private sessions. I believe Pecker hit it correctly--so long as masturbation doesn't "take over" one's life or cause problems within a relationship (i.e. diminishing the libido factor from having too much self-pleasuring). There's really nothing to fret over. To me, I'd rather get the release; "have at it and be done with it for the moment" than walk around all miserable. Now, THAT'S when I would find things really distracting and encroaching upon the quality of my life. The sooner we accept masturbation as a natural mechanism for sexual release, the healthier we'll be--individually and as a society. We need to lose the guilt over it. -Unnecessary baggage along life's way.
 

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[quote author=benderten2001 link=board=health;num=1072422079;start=0#6 date=12/27/03 at 12:16:03]I'd rather get the release; "have at it and be done with it for the moment"  than walk around all miserable.  Now, THAT'S when I would find things really distracting and encroaching upon the quality of my life.[/quote]

Maybe that grumpy boss at work needs simply to pay a short visit to the stall in the Men's Room for a whack. He'd come back with a smile on his face and a happier outlook on his work.

Imagine how much more successful those staff meetings would be if they all started off with a circle jerk.
 

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I still jack off a lot too; whenever I'm not around my GF (or when she's on her period), it can get up to five times a day. Some of the best times have been out in the middle of nowhere. The worst have been quickies at restrooms; most places don't seem to keep them clean, and I don't have a map of all the cruising spots so I can avoid being propositioned. What's weird is, ever since I started jacking early in puberty, I've never used a single porno.

OTOH, the most I've avoided it is for a week.
 
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hung: In my youth after I discovered jackin off I just could not keep my hand/hands off of my love muscle. At times I feared that I would expend all the sperm/semen in my body. Very seldom did I let a day go by without jackin at least once. Then in my military time I was afraid that I would be discovered, but I soon overcame that by learning to take my shower at a different time. Often at 2:00 A.M. No problem. I later determined that we were all doing the same thing. Trying to get in the shower at an odd hour so that we could drain the sperm from our cocks. Even as a mature citizen, I enjoy my jackin time. Although I am in a great stable relationship with plenty of sex I still enjoy a private masturbation. I agree with those posting prior to me. As long as my masturbation does not interfer with my life socially or health wise, why not. Enjoy your body and keep it healthy.
 
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littlebighorn: This is related to a small thread- (Et Cetera, Et Cetera; climbing rope), which you might like to read, but I thought I would post here.

Try this.

Find a horizontal bar, (preferably somewhere private), from which you can do chin-ups.
Take off your clothes. You should be flacid to begin with.
Start doing chin-ups slowly. Keep all muscles that are not involved in this exercise as relaxed as possible. This is quite 'hard' to do, but it is extremely important to be relaxed to get the desired result.
 
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Floppywood: More agreement on this one...and a few extra j/o notes

I started rubbing the morning bone against the bed a few years before I could cum, and then around 10 or 11 I was sitting and playing get-to-know-you every night with my cock, caressing it with my hands, playing with the big sticky drops of precum, waiting for the big day to arrive...that magic moment when I would actually feel what it was like to climax. I guess I had read enough to know what was going to happen and that it would feel unbelievable....then when I finally shot a load while fucking the bed one evening there was no question of what my new hobby was gonna be. I set my alarm clock for 6 AM so I could get up and do it again before the family was awake...then I had trouble sleeping...like a hyper kid on Christmas eve.

Ever since....minimum once a day, but most often it's twice...morning and night. Occasionally things get crazy...January 1, 2000 I shot 7 times. I wonder if someone put something in my drink the night before, because that day I did party like it was 1999. Occasionally I forget to do it for a few days, when things are super-busy. Weird note: for some reason when I'm sick at home I usually jack off MORE, I suppose because im bored...or sometimes I wonder if I feel a deeply programmed desire to procreate when my health is in danger...?!! But a few weeks ago I had a brutal case of the flu and I did not touch the monster for over a week...the thought of any kind of sex made me queasy. VERY uncommon. The first load I shot after that break was w-i-i-i-i-c-k-e-d though!! :)

I also agree that having a big fish of a dick flopping around in your pants all day makes you want to do something with it. And a rock hard, persistent morning bone is very difficult to ignore.

I find the j/o orgasm different than others. Cumming while fucking is a full-body physical workout and a 'one-animal-fertilizing-another' subconscious mental experience. It drains the energy from my body and mind quite fully, in a satisfying way. It makes me want to sleep. Getting blown and swallowed while I'm cumming feels like I'm having every last drop sucked out of me...and that it's largely a function of the person bringing me to the point of no return physically, with little control on my part. Not much cardio going on, but a very complete physical draining of my dick and balls, so kind of overwhelming. Just being there with another person while cumming makes it different because there is a sort of mental inclusion going on -- a shared fantasy.

But cumming while jerking off alone is different than everything else...at its best it is a perfect distillation of all those specific images and fantasies that turn ME on, without needing to include the reality of a partner in front of me in my fantasy. And when I find my way into my mind and tickle the exact buttons that get me off, cum BLASTS out of my cock...I feel all the power of the blasts coming from my own balls, not being coaxed out by suction, as in a blow job...a very localized pumping sensation from my crotch that doesnt involve the rest of my body the way fucking does. It takes far less energy than fucking, so I can do it more often. The mental peak can be mind-blowing. Sometimes I marvel afterwards at how obscure and specific my fantasies become when I let them run wild.

I would never give up sex with a partner...after all, my fantasies are mostly about partner(s), and a few times I have actually been able to make those fantasies into reality.

But I can't imagine ever giving up j/o. Even right now, having the best sex of my life with a regular fuckbuddy, I squeeze in a session a day where possible.

So far I dont remember anyone jerking me off to climax...maybe once or twice but it was difficult to get there. It's partly a case of 'nobody does it better'...my hand knows exactly where to go, what rhythm to use...and when to switch it up. But there is also a very strong drive to continue the solo mission of gradually probing deeper into what my fantasies are and where they come from. It's an interesting study in how deep the subconscious mind goes, if you gently follow it inside. Being the observer I get the long term benefit of a study...being the observee, I get plenty of short-term gratification. lol

A friend of mine expresses worry that he is a j/o addict. Not just a j/o addict actually...a full-on sex addict. But regardless of how much sex he has with real-life partners, he jerks off several times a day. He often doesnt cum when he's with a partner because it's too difficult for him to squeeze out another load that day. I sympathize with his situation because I understand how it could get to that point. He and I are actually quite similar in that we are both extremely suggestible and temptable when it comes to sex...doesnt take much to get us going...but I think the difference is he is looking for more of a regular escape from his day-to-day life than I am.

See, I have to admit that even with the physical pleasure and the interesting mental journey, there is another reason why I do it: it's a way for me to get into another headspace for a chunk of time. A mini-vacation. Whether I do a 10-minute quickie with porn or I shut my eyes for an hour in a steamed up bathroom -- the white noise of the shower taking me deep into fantasy -- when it's over I return to whatever I was doing and it's as though I've come back to it fresh...like it is a different day. And at points when my life is a downer or a grind, I tend to escape into the unreality of j/o more often to avoid what really needs doing. Sometimes that's just boring daily taskwork, but sometimes what needs doing is facing up to something or making a new plan of action...and I put it off by getting down with my bad self as often as I can.

My friend is unhappy with his family life and career, and he has no clear idea of other options he would like to pursue. He's made a habit of avoidance through j/o, and I do believe it's similar to the avoidance of, say, an alcoholic. It's just that the preferred method of avoidance isn't the continued numbness alcohol gives you, it's the physical and mental rush of a repeated j/o sessions.

Hopefully I will always be happy enough with my real life that I won't need to find ways to avoid it in a serious, chronic way. The sessions I have at the moment are regular but they are more about letting off steam and being able to get back to what I was doing with better concentration.

One last note: because my natural masturbation instincts, as a kid, started with 'fucking the bed', I didnt actually cum using my hand until a friend told me I was weird for NOT using my hand when I was 15 or 16. I had to sit down and try to figure out how to do it. Then I would alternate methods because I found that they produced very different feelings. These days my preferred method is to get away from it all and crouch down in the shower, allowing manual access to everything...but occasionally I still opt for that original way that I made up myself: in my morning horniness I put my arms around my pillow and press my face against it as though it were a real live person, and with an extra pillow under my loins (and some kleenex protecting it) I build up a rhythm until I'm fucking the shit out of the bed. I was always a creative kid...as a teenager I tried out countless variations of this setup...multiple pillows...I threw various household appliances into the mix...a lot of times I would put a plastic bag over the pillow-to-be-fucked and then squeeze moisturizing lotion onto it as lube. (If you try this, make sure you turn the bag inside out because any ink it has on it will rub off in the lotion and stain your abdomen!! LOL)

When I finally cum in this position, it's like halfway between the feeling of a solo hand job and real life fucking. It begins with my own solo fantasy, but the sensation rises up and fills my whole body...it is quite romantic actually, more innocent than whacking away with my hand, because I am usually thinking about entering and riding a specific person and it often becomes less about sliding cock into them than it is about imagining the subtleties of their body and who they are that I would want to enter them and pleasure them in the first place.
 
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leanffm: Agree with you Floppywood. I did the same with the bed for a long time, until I figured out from friends to do it with hands.

Only: I started with 6 years. The first time I still remember, I was scared of what happened, but I was horny and let it go. It was amazing. Later I learned that my father was also starting so early, and I read somewhere in a pychology-book that this can run in the family ;D

Anyone knows more about this???

Fucking the bed though requires still more energy (for me) than just masturbating with the hand. Also, I need to be in an "active" mood where I fantasize of penetrating a girl or a man. Whereas when I fantasize of being dominated, I usually use my hand :)

As a kid I was in a 24-hour-school with a lot of other boys (120). Sometimes I caught other guys masturbating. But I was the only one besides another guy who did it with the bed. It was hard to hide, since we were sleeping with one bed above the other and the other boy sleeping in the bed beneath or above me, would certainly notice it and tell it to the others. I therefore needed to wait until they were sleeping before I could really rock it. But that made it quite interesting too ;) The other problem with all the come ruining the bed, would not start before I turned 13 anyway. I never fantasized about men at that time when I was fucking the bed, but always about women.
 

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If you're doing it with someone else, it can be intense. You know about feedback, right? Bingo, only - unlike feedback - it actually feels good.
 

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Floppywood,

It's always great to find someone on here whose experience tallies with your own. Just a few random comments:

I began with "humping the bed" ... and for years as a young single guy would need to do this almost every morning and every night, sometimes needing it twice before I was relaxed enough to sleep. And I have often done it pretty much as you describe. At other times of the day I would use a whole series of other methods, but (as I posted somewhere else) I was into my 40s before I ever used the 'hands' method on a regular basis. It simply never occured to me, and even now I find it less than satisfactory.

Masturbation methods may be in my case partly dictated by size -- I love the feeling of full contact along my whole length, which hands can't give (or at least mine on their own can't give!), and I love the working out of frustration. This way I can do what I cannot do during sex --- I can thrust as hard as I want with strokes as long as I want to make them ... I can really let myself go. And I do.

This is NOT to say that masturbation is better than loving sex with a partner, of course it is just an extra --- but I have come to accept that for me it is an essential extra. Another reason, in fact the main one, is timing and practicality ... I feel the urge to come far too often and at all sorts of times of the day. Some of the methods I use are aimed at wasting as little time on it as possible.

I know what you mean about j/o as escape .. but I would say that more typically for me it has been an aid to concentration. These days when starting on a new piece of work and sitting down at my desk my automatic ritual seems to involve coffee .. but plenty of times in the past (and still on occasion these days ;) ) a good quick powerful orgasm seemed to help far more. :)
 
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SpeedoGuy: Like some of the posts above, I routinely j/o to relieve a sensation that is a combination of subtle mental distraction and physical pressure. I feel a lot better after I do it.

I started to j/o in early teens as a solo bed humper similar to some of the descriptions above. However, that soon changed after some fascinating experimentation with a neighborhood girl friend who introduced me to the wonders of hand jobs. I was willing student. Sometimes I stroked and she watched, or sometimes she helped. In either case, it was so exciting I can still remember some of those explosions vividly.

Even today, my wife will assist with a hand job if she's too tired or rushed for anything else. I still find it satisfying.

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Were it not for LPSG and you guys who hold nothing back and tell it like it is, I would go through life not knowing lots of titilating, hot activities re. sex.

Since my length gets mostly covered, albeit alternating from top portion to lower portion, I have never considered being so long there would be parts never contacted with my hand, well, except for a couple or three inches at the base. Max's explanation re. prefering to hump the bed rather than use his hand for solo sex b/c of loving the feeling of full contact along his whole length, is a very sensual idea which I have never considered.

I certainly understand and would probably have done more bed humping, had I been so endowed. Hell, yeah, the total dick needs stimulating during masturbation!

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When I masturbate, I prefer to do it naked. I usually do it in my bedroom or bath, but I've also done it in public restrooms - provided I was the only one there. I've also done it outdoors, far from the roads - it's a special treat I allow myself when I'm on trips. (A bit of advice for anyone who does it: You can use national parks - stay away from the trails of course - or just get a pickup or a Jeep, if you live in the Southwest. Bring a blanket.) I don't really need any porno or anything; I've actually never used any porno or toys in my life.

Now, for my method. Sometimes I'm standing and sometimes I'm laying down. I usually, about one time out of four, stroke with two hands. I sometimes only use one hand when I'm just explaining to a new GF what I like. I like to take little 'detours' - pinch my nipples, fondle my balls, stroke my whole body, kiss my biceps or something like that. Another favorite is to stroke with one hand and put my other hand's thumb under my foreskin, playing with the head. I also sometimes just fuck my hands. (This is easier when standing.)

For the cumshot itself, I sometimes keep my eyes closed, when I'm lying down on my back. (Those are more passive fantasies, where she has total control.) Sometimes when lying down, I keep my eyes open, but standing up, my eyes are always open. I like seeing it shoot out. I oftentimes cum more than once; I always found the contrast of pearl drops on my coppery skin a big turn-on. (Of course, if I haven't cum in days, I won't see the contrast; it's better if I came in the last couple hours so I can see it on my skin.)

I did some experimenting with circle jerks and mutual masturbation in my early to mid-teens. A lot of contests about who was bigger, who could shoot farther, who could last longer, who could cum faster, etc. One of my favorite methods was to get down on all fours while a friend would stroke, like milking a cow. Then I'd do him. (It was agreed that we wouldn't go anywhere near each other's asses.) But we'd also do each other in the standard 'I stroke you, you stroke me' method, as well as circle and line formations. Or just jerk off in front of each other.

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dancinfool: i think the first time i jacked off was at age 11, i dont remember what movie it was, but i had seen some movie where a guy jacked off in the bathroom. a sudden lightbulb went off in my head and i finally knew how i would be able to practice for sex, after many failed attempts of humping the wall of the shower (what was i thinking??)

That summer i remember being really upset because i was jacking off about 4 times a day and all of a sudden i went to camp for 2 weeks and they told us that we couldnt do it. not until the next year at camp could i defy that rule and do it anyways, even in the cabin, usually not the only one doing it.

Recently, i have found that most of my jacking off happens standing facing the toilet and just coming into it. its easy, not much clean up and its fun to watch my reflection in the window behind the toilet.

Nowadays i probably jack off on average once or twice a day, usually more on weekends. My habits havnt changed much, but they do get pushed around by any work i have to do, it i have to do a lot, and time just isnt available.... kind of like all this week.... i should be doing a report, but instead i have been spending my days jacking and surfing the web, mostly this page.
 
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HungJordan: It's a pretty simple equation for me: I need to release (cum) on a regular basis. I usually do it twice a day, once in the morning then later that night. I am a very horny guy and If I don't JO regularly I get ever horny and sport a semi alot and stuff.