Yes. Do you mean someone IRL you want to do things with or someone to just fantasize about (like Tom Welling? :smile: )? But either way - yes
Now that is one fine coincidence...I was just thinking about you when I woke up this morning and .....:wink:
I would agree, yes, but you do know there is a whole group of people whose sexuality is very inwardly directed and who say that what they think about when they masturbate is themselves, almost exclusively, don't you? I find them fascinating, and suspect they are a far larger group than is generally recognized.
Actually, I think it could apply to both, if I am being honest. I have always found it rather intoxicating when I am masturbating and I have someone in mind to fantasize about. It's better than just watching random porn. I always find the orgasm more intense. Horny vampire movie? Pervert. I too find them fascinating...but was relatively unaware that one could be so sexually aroused by themselves that they could get off... I couldn't. To be honest, Rob... it has one of those harmless contexts that is an inside joke between myself and another member. However, at the same time, it does comment on one of my fetishes.. which is masturbating using my imagination, fantasizing about other people.
yes, especially since I seem to contrive such elaborate plots. I can get a bit out of control with my masturbatory plots, and it really has to be centered around a specific person in mind, otherwise I can't visualize it. My sexual adventures have no room for blurry faces!!!
Absolutely - but, for me anyway, it takes a much large time investment. If I have half an hour or so to relax, imagine a scenario, get some background motivation in to my fantasy - It's about far more than just thinking about Johnny Depp or whoever flipping me over... If I only have 5 minutes a little porn is a great time saver It's a fetish? How is it a fetish - am I missing something here - or do you prehaps mean a peccadillo?
Defiitely mental visualization of the one you're uh, "preoccupied with" is a necessity;helps cut down on making up faces in your head from scratch.
