Masturbation vs Handjob

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Blow jobs are great..but handjobs can be good if you wana hold off for a while. Depends on the guy giving and how good they are. Nothing better than a guy making you cum....
 

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it is all about technique. but a good blow job depends on the person who is giving it.. they must like to give it. I personally perfer to rec a good bj than to masterbate. also I do not cum as fast compare to when I jo. but seeing my thick cock in a womans mouth is a major turn on.
 

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To be perfectly honest, I prefer to get a handjob or blowjob over masturbation. The feeling of someone else's hand and or mouth on my cock is so much better than my own hand. I can cum really fast when a guy is good at combining a handjob and blowjob.

Unfortunately, I find it difficult to find a guy that has the proper technique to make me cum from a handjob or blowjob. Most guys jack or suck from the head down to maybe the middle part of my cock. I like to have the entire length of my cock worked on.

It is rare that I find someone who can make me have a really good orgasm from a handjob, and it is even more rare that I find someone who will make me cum from a blowjob.

I have had many guys suck my cock in my lifetime and I am sad to say that I can remember only two, maybe three people who have made me cum from a blowjob.

The best blowjob that I have ever had was years ago at a bar in New Orleans. This guy had an awesome rotating motion with his tongue that made me yell with pleasure. That is one of the limitations of anonymous sex when you are traveling...it might be good, but it is likely that you will never hook up with the person again.
 

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If you're getting into longer relationships, then you can just help teach her.

When I first started with my bf I was terrible at them, but now I think I kick ass. The difference between then and now is just a lot of time together, communication, and lots of practice :)

I can echo this. When my now fiance and I first started dating I had her try and give me a handjob a few times to no success. But with time and practice it's now well worth it.
 

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When I get a hand job or blow job from my wife, I have to concentrate on achieving orgasm, otherwise it takes forever, unless I'm already close from some other form of stimulation (coitus or tit fucking). Literally. I've always been this way, all the way back to my first girlfriend, but back then it was easier. If I just lay back and relax, she gets tired loooong before I even get close.

When I'm masturbating, I can come in a few minutes if I want.
 

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always been my personal favoured activity .. giving Hjs
almost even above all other sexual activities them naughty gays get up to ha

should be a standard requirement to get a Masters in Masturbation at an all male LPSG Age appropriate College ...
Sports Jocks of all persuasions, expected to contribute ...




nice ole thread topics being dragged from the archives thanks Jake ..
 

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Girls just shouldn't give handjobs, they don't know what they're doing.





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thats so funny, i am sure getting my quota of smiles grins and laffs today hhaa Thanks ..
 

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Handjob.
There's nothing like the feeling of being at someone's beck and call with the ultimate sexual feeling. I've had several from women, but never one from a man.
 

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I love this topic!
Personally, I like giving handjobs only because I like looking at a guys cock being played with. I give great head, but since Im a visual person, I try to find guys who are cool with handjobs too.
 
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For me, a gay guy, a hand or blow job can only be pleasurable and with a "happy ending" if I am kissing, licking, fondling my partner at the same time. Or, watching a good porn flick. But that's just me.
 

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Have to say, I'm not that bothered with hand jobs from girls. Ive had a few good ones in between having my dick sucked but ultimately, no girl (regardless of how good she is or how hot she makes me) is gonna be better than me at jacking me off!
 

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whilst the OP is probably long gone, it's normal.

obviously grip and speed are different.

it sounds weird, but getting a handjob imo is better than self-done so to speak. sensations feel better and the orgasm is better too.