Masturbation vs. Sex

[Beanie]

i was wondering this the other day and where else is there to post a question like this

My question is, when you masturbate, especially when using porn vids, do you cum alot quicker than you do if you were having sex? now this could be any type of sex at all.

thanks in advance guys.

 

[kalipygian]

If just enjoying getting off, but there is more to being with another person than that.

 

[Beanie]

im not talking about the enjoyment, closeness and the intimacy and everything else you get from being with another person all though i know that those things are important i am purly asking in a "time from start to finish (cum)" question. thanks.

 

[OPPinSLC]

It is kind of strange, but I have found that I am quicker when I am on my own.

 

[oralFixaShun]

It DOES make more sense that you cum quicker on your own. I mean, you are solely focused on the task of getting off. You want it done, and you're doing everything to get it done. When you're with a partner, you are (hopefully) splitting your concentration between your pleasure and making sure they are pleased as well, probably holding back to make the experience last longer, etc... There are a lot more factors in sex. With maturbation, only one.

 

[nonpareil]

I definitely feel like I have more control over how quickly I can come or how long I can hold out when masturbating versus sex. I think everyone over time develops the ability to apply the kind of pressure and stroke during masturbation the way that feels absolutely best to themself. And I feel like if you masturbate considerably more than you have sex, you're essentially training your body to respond more quickly by orgasm through the specific feeling of masturbation as opposed to intercourse.

That being said, I feel like I will always last longer while having intercourse, but that doesn't mean I won't feel the same physical pleasure (or more) as when I masturbate. Masturbating all these years though has allowed me to control my orgasm more effectively during sex.

 

[himy19]

My wife and I have great sex. I almost last too long sometimes. Especially if she hasn't orgasmed during foreplay. Her second orgasm always takes longer, but it still seems like I outlast her. I still masterbate even though I am very satisfied with our mutual sexuality. I can make myself cum in a 10th of the time it takes during intercourse. Foreplay has alot to do with it, since, like oralfixashun said, my focus is on getting off. I also love watching myself cum, so the anticipation of THAT is a big turnon too.

 

[Fire Agate]

no way, the couple of times ive boned girls ive lasted about two seconds before i came, i can last pretty long if its just me jackingoff:tongue:

 

[drgirth]

During sex, no doubt about it. I would use my decibels as a gauge. I can moan pretty intensely while jacking off, but when having sex with my wife, I can fucking wake the neighborhood. Sex is just a more complete orgasm than masturbation, a more full body experience.

 

[SteveWood]

I usually cum faster when I masturbate because I'm not trying to hold off to please my partner or prolong the experience. If I'm watching porn, I may "edge" for a while, but my erection may also subside a little at times if the FF isn't F enough. That doesn't happen during sex - at least, not if it's good sex.

 

[simcha]

I don't know, really. It depends. Generally I last a very long time regardless. However, if a guy really gets me in the right way, I could cum quickly. I can also cum quickly by masturbation, but usually that's more controlled and I like to last when masturbating...

 

[joejack]

Wanking provides good practice for the real thing. Like a pitcher warming up his arm. In fact, some relief pitchers have been known to jack off in the bull pen. :wink:

 

[mightymac]

I think that wacking off is just that - to get off. You can take your time or you can hurry it up. It all depends upon what you are thinking about or viewing. I can hold out for ever masturbating, but having sex with a partner seems to speed things up. I think it is the Heat. The body temp. hands are not very warm usually, but a twot is Steaming.

Who knows really?

 

[Oncamale28]

if i was trying to cum the fastest prob masturbation

 

[Beanie]

oh great, thanks guys iv got a real insight for your comments, which is good coz i thought this topic was gioing the wrong way from how it started . anyway thanks guys