Masturbation with straight girls?

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  1. Principessa

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    I've noticed a trend or at the very least an interesting theme. Men, circle jerks and/or mutual masturbation during the early years.
    These threads made me think of it:



    Apparently, I grew up in a hermetically sealed bubble; because I don't recall ever being nude in front of any of my girlfriends at that age. We most certainly did not masturbate while watching videos, perform mutual masturbation on each other, or perform oral sex on each other. :eek::confused::rolleyes:

    I'm insanely curious!

    1. Ladies how many of you experimented sexually with other girls during middle school and high school?
    2. Did you think it made you gay to go down on another girl?
    3. Did you do it with girls because there were no boys who were interested in you or available? This seems to be a common response with many men.:rolleyes::tongue:
     
  2. nay-nay

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    i have been attracted to girls for as long as i can remember, and i started experimenting with girls at the age of 6. kissing and dry humping. and then again when i was about 9, i made out with my best friend. she lived a few trailers down. i had a huge crush on her brother. she was over one day and we ended up kissing and it was starting to get really hot, but then her mom ended up calling and she had to leave. i was bummed. i also experimented with this other girl that lived nearby when she was over at my house. she wanted to do it naked but i thought i'd get pregnant! :rolleyes: LOL! cracks me up. when i was in 4th grade, me and my best friend were looking in her parents room for movies to watch (her mom told us to), we ended up finding a blank tape and we were like hmm...what's this? it was porn. so we both started masturbating. we also made up a sex game. lol. and her mom ended up finding our game rules, the porn tape, and all that stuff. so embarassing! :redface: i also messed around with another girl when i was about 12. that time it had gone even further. rubbing our pussies together until we had an orgasm. when i was 16, i did pretty much everyhing you can do with another girl. around that time, i was SO confused b/c i had done everything with girls all those years. i wondered if i was a lesbian, and i was extremely depressed.

    but see, i sometimes wonder if maybe i turned to girls because i was sexually abused when i was little. after it happened, i turned to girls. i had done stuff with boys before then, but i lost interest in males after that. so when i was 17, i figured out that i'm bisexual. it was still questionable, but i have always been attracted to males too, so like a month before i turned 19, i had sex with a guy for the first time and that clarified everything. i'm bisexual. i love both. i haven't came out yet, which is extremely hard for me. i know they wouldn't disown me or anything, it's just....hard.

    when i was younger, i didn't see it as being gay. i just seen it for what it was. pleasuring myself with another person. but to me it was like...i didn't see gay people as gay people. when i was little i was always around this gay couple. my parents' friend and his boyfriend. i just seen it as two people who love each other. i always seen it as something normal.
     
  3. whatireallywant

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    Not sure how to word this, but I was sexually molested by another girl when I was a girl. And worse, she told all her friends and it got all over school! :eek: This was when I was about 8 years old, and I think she was 10 or something. She didn't hold me down or anything, but tricked me. I was desperate for friends, and she said that she'd never speak to me again if I didn't let her do that. Then I felt very uncomfortable and didn't want to do that and left, but she told her friends and she continued to make me uncomfortable for several years after that.

    I also played nude a bit with a female cousin, but there was no touching involved, just being nude. I think I was about 10 then.
     
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