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Hey lads,
As guys don't talk about things, although I wish we did.
I was curious to know if its normal to watch porn with your mates?
Its normally straight porn and the occasional lesbian, nothing to risky like we do when we are alone.
We are never looking at eachother but we know what's going on. Starts with the making ourselves more comfortable, then the rubbing over the trousers, hand in trousers and then cock comes out etc.
Its never chatted about before or after, just happens, its normal to us to we are used to it.
With playing football, I see my mates in the changing room all the times so we are used to being around eachother.
Does all guy mates do this?
 

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My mate and I watch porn and beer when the wives go out. We find it really bonding and we talk openly and honestly about things in our life. We have never touched but sit very close to each other. Of course we are alway checking each other out and I like the way he shoots his load. I see another side which brings us to mateship.
 

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I also consider myself straight curious and I had already jerked off together with mates. Now we are in different places so we don't do it. Probably we will create some new strong friendships to do this again.
 

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I have with a buddy but also watched with others and not. All depends on the comfort level of the buddy I’m with. Some are more open then others. I wish they were all very open as it’s a lot of fun!!
 

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I have to remind myself that LPSG is a multi national society. The term Mate, has a generally different meaning in America

But, back to the question, No, not really. I have been to parties where someone has played a porn on the TV, but it was more like a mild distraction, should you get bored . Back when I watched porn / bought porn , all my friends including myself had our own places. We would share / pass around a tape / CD; but never sitting in the same room / same house to watch it together.
 

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I think it's normal...i don't think it's all that universal though. I think differing demographics of straight men have a spectrum of comfort in sharing their sexual space with other straight men. I, and most men I associate with arent into group watching of porn..i tried it a couple of times when i was younger and found the experience very uncomfortable, especially when the masturbatory motions were starting..some i imagine dont mind it all and will even pleasure themselves within the same vicinity.
Personally i do think the willingness to share such a space and perhaps pleasure oneself in a same sex presence denotes a degree of sexual fluidity, not judging or labelling, just a personal opinion based upon my understanding of how the visual and the auditory contribute to our sexual process...
But academically, as long as there is no haptic interaction Im willing to go with it being under the realm of "normal" heterosexual male behavior, in the same way Im willing to see broccoli as part of a normal human diet, despite me and plenty others having an aversion to it.
 
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Sadly not! Very nearly back in school but I was too big of a shit house!
 
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Your topic talks about watching, but your post includes masturbating.

Yes, and particularly as a young single soldier (back in the 80’s); I’ve watched lots of porn with other guys. With one exception, no dicks were pulled out and no masturbation happened.

The one exception is one person who did, and we left him to it. He was also a guy who would barge into a barracks room and say shit like “how much would you give me to wipe this peanut M&M in the crack of my ass and eat it...”. So you can get an idea of his peculiarity and our opinion of him...
 

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Hey lads,
As guys don't talk about things, although I wish we did.
I was curious to know if its normal to watch porn with your mates?
Its normally straight porn and the occasional lesbian, nothing to risky like we do when we are alone.
We are never looking at eachother but we know what's going on. Starts with the making ourselves more comfortable, then the rubbing over the trousers, hand in trousers and then cock comes out etc.
Its never chatted about before or after, just happens, its normal to us to we are used to it.
With playing football, I see my mates in the changing room all the times so we are used to being around eachother.
Does all guy mates do this?

I mean, if you want to send me some video footage of you and your mate doing this, I would be happy to tell you if its normal or not XD
 

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Years back before I was married there was a few times watching porn on VHS with buds. But it never resulted in anyone jerking off. That would have been met with an immediate "WTF????"
I did not like it. It was only frustrating. Obviously it turns you on, but you can't do anything about it.
 
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Have done it with mates but not for a number of years. Seemed a natural extension of what was happening. Maybe slightly reticent the first time with someone, but after that no problem.
With one exception was straight/lesbian porn we were watching, the exception being a bi mmf threesome video. That added a certain edge to what we were doing, but no one opted out or had problems being aroused.
 

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The only instance I can not discuss since it was not 18+.

Since then, I've only been around other guys and porn in swing clubs and parties but only once did I witness anyone actually jerking off to it. Many of those at such places treat any porn playing on the TV as a warm-up to be watched with whatever woman they are present with or as background noise and ignore it all together.

Since I can admit to mild bi-curious tendencies, doing this with guys is not something I'd be against under the right circumstances, but I would likely not do it with those who are already vanilla friends that I've known for years under other circumstances.

I think you will find the vast majority of straight men do not look at porn with friends, let alone jerk it with them, but I realize this is just yet another one of these same questions to get straight guys to admit they aren't really straight.
 
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