matter of percentage

[13788]

iluvatar: hello,

i'm pretty new in the area, but I've watched several posts already, and see who wrote them. And a question came to me.

It's about the percentage of homosexuality, and heterosexuality. You know 30% homo and 70% hetero. How can we measure that thing ? And what does it mean ?

I chat the other day with a man with 10% homo and then 90% of hereto, he was with a girl and said he was attracted to very well hung men. i don't understand that. Being attracted to men sex and have only 10% homo. In that case i must say he's "refoulé".

those hetero guys, from what percentage could u have sex with another guy ?

As far as i'm concerned, i'm totally gay, and i know that i couldn't have sex with a girl. I have plenty of friends who are women, and i love to be with her, but not into bed. I wouldn't know what to do. I was born without hetero explanations


Lionel

 

[D_Barbi_Queue]

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[jonb]

Basically, 10% or 20% means that with the right guy, yes we will. Whether or not we have is another matter.

While we're here, bisexuality does NOT necessarily mean a threesome. Those are two different fantasies, though I do fantasize about threesomes.

 

[Altairion]

Just another view point added to the mix, 10% for me doesn't mean I will do anything with a guy given the right circumstances. I'm just an open person that tries to understand multiple views. I don't believe in the possibility of being 100% straight or gay. However, I also believe everyone has their own views when they approach a subject such as this so one person's stats could very well mean something completely different than another person's.

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

Originally posted by jonb@Feb 22 2005, 01:28 AM
Basically, 10% or 20% means that with the right guy, yes we will. Whether or not we have is another matter.

While we're here, bisexuality does NOT necessarily mean a threesome. Those are two different fantasies, though I do fantasize about threesomes.

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This is funny because I have two guy friends who are straight...They happen to enjoy and quite often shag a chick together...But have been around them after the action is over and heard them bicker about their leg touching or accidentally touching each other during the act...It is pretty funny because neither is definitely not homophobic but they do not like to see the others dick or touch in anyway...I personally think one over compensates for the other...Because one is considered very good looking and other averaged looking and terrible social skills and he just trys to help his friend get laid by hot chicks...What are boys for - like Snoop said - it aint no fun us the homies can have some (LOL)...Sorry to go like this but this reminded me so much of my friends...I happened to be in the other bedroom a couple of times when these little instances occur and I think they are hilarious...

 

[jonb]

So they both are homophobic? Oy, double negatives.

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

Originally posted by jonb@Feb 22 2005, 06:36 PM
So they both are homophobic? Oy, double negatives.

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Double negatives...They are not homophobic...Far from it - we all live a pretty gay friendly area and it has been a while - but we all use to frequent local gay clubs but a lot of hetrosexuals here do or did at the time...They were the only clubs that were open 24hrs a day and served alcohol 24hrs a day and we definitely like the music better...

And both of these guys are European so it is a lot more excepted...I mean I been told by gay guys that they didn't even like to come to some of the clubs because the hetros were taking over...And also both of these guys have gay best friends too...That is why I say they are not homophobic...They are just not into having sex w/guys and gay guys do try them...

It is funny sometimes because gay guys want to say you are gay if you hang out in gay clubs or they expect if you are straight - you naturally will be homophobic...But I can definitely see where they can get that from...I took one of my most homophobic friends w/me who is a (good old boy) to a gay club w/us as a group...Actually got is girlfriend to encourage him to come w/all of us...He bitched all the way but once he got in he actually loosened up and we even watch a drag show and I have never seen him laugh so hard or have a good time...

My girlfriend did that for me and it taught me tolerance and understanding so I return the favor...And I have to say - the majority if not all my straight friends have been to gay clubs together...And no one is embarrassed to say they go either and that took awhile for me to do...I know 4 straight couples who have met at a gay clubs and got married...

 

[jonb]

ACcepted. It's EXcepted in Nebraska.

Seriously, though, it depends on a guy's background. I mean, on the Great Plains, you can generally find the homophobes by just checking the color of their skin. It's a lot harder in the rest of the world, though.

 

[Royal_T]

Originally posted by jonb@Feb 24 2005, 09:38 PM
ACcepted. It's EXcepted in Nebraska.

Seriously, though, it depends on a guy's background. I mean, on the Great Plains, you can generally find the homophobes by just checking the color of their skin.

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Is that specifically the skin on their neck?

 

[Altairion]

Originally posted by Royal_T+Feb 25 2005, 07:29 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Royal_T &#064; Feb 25 2005, 07:29 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Feb 24 2005, 09:38 PM
ACcepted. It&#39;s EXcepted in Nebraska.

Seriously, though, it depends on a guy&#39;s background. I mean, on the Great Plains, you can generally find the homophobes by just checking the color of their skin.

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Is that specifically the skin on their neck?

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heh probably on some of em out here. I generally stay away from the rednecked white trash though

 

[jonb]

Well, what I meant is, the Indians generally aren&#39;t homophobic. There&#39;s no traditional reason to be so (There are taboos against certain types of homosexuality, but there are taboos against certain types of heterosexuality too.), and hell, in the 60s a gay white guy actually stopped a bill which would&#39;ve basically terminated every last tribe.

 

[deleted111]

I won&#39;t speak for everyone.
But for people with percentages split in each category.

It could be as little as appreciating really fit men, big cocks, etc etc.

Or as much as being bi-sexual and appreciating both sexs.

Nate

 

[Lex]

My percentages lean toward overall lifestyle and what I&#39;m attracted to. Mostly women--barely.

 

[B_RoysToy]

Off topic here, but I can&#39;t let Lexman&#39;s new avatar go by without my response. Damn, that&#39;s a prize instrument, m8, thx for sharing it via your avatar. You&#39;re the stud&#33;

 

[dickbulge]

Originally posted by Pene_Negro_Grande+Feb 21 2005, 11:39 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Pene_Negro_Grande &#064; Feb 21 2005, 11:39 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Feb 22 2005, 01:28 AM
Basically, 10% or 20% means that with the right guy, yes we will. Whether or not we have is another matter.

While we&#39;re here, bisexuality does NOT necessarily mean a threesome. Those are two different fantasies, though I do fantasize about threesomes.

[post=285224]Quoted post[/post]​

This is funny because I have two guy friends who are straight...They happen to enjoy and quite often shag a chick together...But have been around them after the action is over and heard them bicker about their leg touching or accidentally touching each other during the act...It is pretty funny because neither is definitely not homophobic but they do not like to see the others dick or touch in anyway...I personally think one over compensates for the other...Because one is considered very good looking and other averaged looking and terrible social skills and he just trys to help his friend get laid by hot chicks...What are boys for - like Snoop said - it aint no fun us the homies can have some (LOL)...Sorry to go like this but this reminded me so much of my friends...I happened to be in the other bedroom a couple of times when these little instances occur and I think they are hilarious...

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Don&#39;t want to burst any one&#39;s bubble but, IMHO, MFM scenes have definite homoerotic overtones. Sharing a sex partner goes way beyond helping a buddy out, you gotta be getting off on it.

I hope I have friends, like PNG, who understand why I enjoy straight porn sometimes and why I dated women in my younger days; I&#39;m not criticizing these guys mind you, its not my place to judge, but even their banter sounds like a denial of what they really feel.

I think PNG shows lots of maturity in his exploration of his own sexuality and it certainly makes for a fascinating and sexy narrative. Reading between the lines, this time, I&#39;d say PNG knows exactly what&#39;s going on between his friend.

 

[jonb]

Homoerotic or otherwise, one partner is still a different scenario than two partners. Bisexual only means you can be with either males or females. And most people are to some extent, but ultimately, sexual orientation as an element of human sexuality primarily garners so much interest because of the social implications; after all, age and gender are the two universal means of classifying individuals.

 

[dickbulge]

Originally posted by jonb@Feb 26 2005, 02:57 PM
Homoerotic or otherwise, one partner is still a different scenario than two partners. Bisexual only means you can be with either males or females. And most people are to some extent, but ultimately, sexual orientation as an element of human sexuality primarily garners so much interest because of the social implications; after all, age and gender are the two universal means of classifying individuals.

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I don&#39;t quite understand what you&#39;re saying. The social implications of sexual preference? You mean it upsets the seating arrangement at dinner parties? you know- boy, girl, boy girl? Or do you mean sexual preference is simply a convenient, and very inexact, label used by our classification obsessed culture?

 

[jonb]

I meant that all societies classify everyone into at least two categories: Age and gender. Sexual orientation has more social implications because it deals with the latter.

Of course, prior to Kertbeny, I don&#39;t think anyone honestly thought sex with men meant no sex with women and vice versa.

 

[mdvc149]

Originally posted by Altairion@Feb 22 2005, 06:18 AM
Just another view point added to the mix, 10% for me doesn&#39;t mean I will do anything with a guy given the right circumstances. I&#39;m just an open person that tries to understand multiple views. I don&#39;t believe in the possibility of being 100% straight or gay. However, I also believe everyone has their own views when they approach a subject such as this so one person&#39;s stats could very well mean something completely different than another person&#39;s.

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agreed.