Mature women for younger men

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  1. longhungjohn33

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    Are there any ladies out there that are into younger guys? I.E. Ages 18-21? If so, what turns you on about them? Any pointers on how a younger guy can capture the attention of an older woman?
     
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    Rock out in the sack. Maybe older women have a rep as being teachers, I dunno. But that's not my interest. Younger dudes are too unpredictable. Some have had tons of experience and are great in bed, but most just suck, so why bother wasting my pussy's time?

    In short, junior....get the skills screwing your 18 year old girlfriends who don't know to expect any better. Once you have achieved something fantastic, then you can graduate, aka be worthy of an older woman.
     
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    Im 27 and my ex was 18. He was a virgin when we got together and i enjoyed teaching him and seeing him grow into a brilliant fuck, he was so eager to please and prove himself :tongue:
    However in the end the lack of mautrity showed through and i guess you cant expect a boy to be a man.

    So to get an older woman i guess you need to prove you ARE a man phyically & mentally
     
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    I have gotten together with younger guys in their 20s but 18-21 is a bit young. Like Bette and Lee have suggested, a lot of younger guys aren't very good in bed, not to mention a lot of them are pretty immature. There are definitely exceptions though and there are obviously some great things about younger fellows!:biggrin1: The youngest guy I've been with was 23 and he was lousy in bed and as a result we only went to bed once. At present I get together w/a 24 y/o fellow who is better than most older guys I think. Other than that most of the men I've been with (only 8 total :rolleyes: ) have been from late 20s on.
    Maybe you'll find an older woman who likes teaching you, otherwise focus on girls your age, who as someone said probably don't have the same expectations sexually as older women.
     
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    What's wrong with expectations? Especially if you're willing to help work to make them a reality? :wink:
     
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    Of course, SurferGirl :wink: . I'm just trying to protect the fellow from people like me!:biggrin1: I guess I'm in a short term mindset right now, because if I have sex with a guy and it's not that good there's probably not going to be a repeat engagement. Of course I don't mind giving a little guidance but I'm not into sleeping with novices. So I was saying he should find a woman, regardless of age, who wants to be part of his learning curve.
     
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    never forget my older woman.she 34 me 18.friend of the family. gave her a ride home.husband on a hunting trip.taught me things.had sex 5 or six times in that week at her house.first real blowjob to climax first anal.CONTROL!this was 1969!never was more than a weeklong fuck buddy for her.don't look for an older woman to be anything more than a fucking experience.she will teach without teaching.just pay attention.wow!isn't that what we're supposed to do anyhow?pay attention to what our lovers want and need?







     
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    I guess that is another major point.. If you do find an older woman first work out if she is there for a fuck buddy or if she is expecting long term.

    I seen it happen to a male friend of mine (23) where he was in it for the sex but she (34) wanted more. She thought he was going to be around to look after her kids, take care of her etc and when he said he wanted out things turned very nasty. He learn the hard way from that experience..
     
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    I'm not looking for an older woman to teach me anything, I'm pretty sure I can handle myself alright in that area haha. I just want to try it out because it's been a fantasy of mine and I want to fulfill it as all people would want to.

    Just looking for a lil help on getting to that point is all...so if there are any ladies in Michigan looking for a young lover, let me know! Thanks!
     
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    There is nothing wrong with being a younger man:rolleyes:

    Some of the HOTTEST members of LPSG are people that are older than me by a few years.

    I would still bang them into the mattress:biggrin1: I mean that with the utmost respect too.... :rolleyes:
     
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    I have nothing really to add here, most has been said above, especially the core sentence that everything in the YMOF relationships boils down to: Show that you're a man physically and mentally. Most have self-doubts and the bitter taste that they are figuratively having sex with boys the age of their own sons, which they don't like, and having a grown-up attitude and appearance will help them over that.

    I guess, however, as someone under the age of 20, you will have only little chances to score. My youngest lovers never were under that age, I currently am seeing someone who is 22. I wouldn't date him if he hadn't something mature about him, and wouldn't be a man in bed, but then we don't have more than this sexual relationship. We don't discuss a lot, hardly go out, it's all about the sex, and that's great so far. He has talent, and it's a pleasure for me to cut his talent into shape and teach him the smaller and bigger tricks to please women. I guess he likes this kind of school he's going through, and I know once we break up and he will have another girlfriend, she'll be very pleased to have him in her bed.
     
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    As usual Claire is right. If you want to get with an older woman, show that you're a man physically and mentally. To me having a grown-up attitude means not putting on airs, just being yourself, having respect for yourself and her, and also being confident that you belong where you are, i.e with her. And of course I am a simple creature :rolleyes: and to me nothing says "I am a man" more than the guy knocking in out in bed, making me cum relentlessly. But a man also doesn't try to act like he knows everything, unless he does :wink: :biggrin1: .

     
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    Make feel like the hottest girl you have ever been with. Tell me how sexy I am. Tell me how hot I make you.
    My current lover is almost 30 years younger than me !!!! I am loving it and having the time of my life. He isn't afraid or embarrassed to go out in public with me and hold my hand or put his arms around me and show me off. I have never felt sexier. He includes me in thongs with him and friends. They accept me because he doesn't treat me any different than if I was in my twenties like them. Occasionally we may get a disapproving look but it doesn't bother him at all.
    The sex is GREAT !!!!He makes me feel like I am the only woman in the world for him. In turn I would do anything for him. Not to mention he has the biggest cock I have ever experienced. I never thought of myself as a size queen but, I don't know if I could enjoy sex with an average size man.
     
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    I'd love to meet a mature women to have casual encounters with. Not sure why, I'd just find it hot.

    The experience and all that.
     
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    Night of the living thread LOL
     
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    i miss jeff black being around here
     
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    I'm 22....not sure if I qualify.
     
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    They tend to be hugely enthusiastic but somewhat lacking in the skill and knowledge department.
    So long as they are teachable they end up being a decent lay.
     
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    Sometimes I think that I wouldn't mind a toyboy. But in my past experience with younger guys I don't think I have the time or patience to teach them.... poor little dears and their jackhammering like a bunny and cum within 5 minutes and think they were good... I think now I'd rather someone experienced. I'd only want a younger guy (by young I mean at least 5 years younger lol..so 20 or under) cos I've found they are more prone to fallling in love easier haha.
     
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    damn skippy!!

    BRING BACK JEFF BLACK!!!
     
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