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a younger guy? Like, significantly younger (within legal boundaries, of course)?

I am 20 but I remember as far back as fourteen or fifteen I have lusted for a private, sexual tryst with an older woman. This isn't just limited to MILFs (as every man wants to fuck them), but just pretty-yet-typical "housewife"-ish women in their 30's or 40's.

What would you do if a college-aged guy approached you? Where would you want him to approach you and how? Would you flirt, but not seal the deal?

I work at a place where I get a steady flow of women to talk to, some being the type I just described. I also have the liberty to strike up a normal conversation with them (as long as we're not busy). It's not a challenge for me to flirt with girls around my age (and most are pretty receptive) but for some reason, I don't really know what to say to the older ones. How would you like to be approached in this scenario? What should I say? What body language would let them know that I want them? etc.
 

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Man, I am with you about the older housewife type. Probably has to be my biggest fantasy, hooking up with an older woman for mind blowing sex. Just thinking of what an older woman can teach me and do to me gets me hard every time.
 

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Im not yet in my 30's and im not a Mother, but do i still get the option?
Hmmm.
Probably yes. I like what I've seen from you here when you post. As far as the age thing, I don't know why I have such an attachment to the 30's-40's thing but I do, along with the mother and/or wife factor. It turns me the fuck on to think--the lady down the street, the mom buying milk next to me at the grocery store and the jaded wife who I'm servicing at work--is willing to let me fuck her the way she needs to be fucked, all behind closed doors. I guess it's the taboo that gives me the main rush, although I think that a mature body is probably at its hottest and ripest. Don't get me wrong, I love the way the girls my age look, feel, smell and taste...older women are just something totally different that seem fucking fantastic. I already know how they look and it's great, I want to explore the rest. It's upsetting when women think they become unattractive when they get older, they don't, it's just a different type of hotness. I know women can relate when there's guys like George Clooney and whomever else. There are cougars, silver foxes, etc. I like housewives :smile:
 

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I can appreciate that. There is a woman i know in her early 40's, 4 kids and a husband.. But my god i'd love to go down on her. She knows she is hot and that is fucking sexy that she can play it up and tease far better then i can
 

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I also don't expect her to teach me anything, it could be hot but I don't make it an expectation for her to be amazing at sex due to experience and all that. Honestly, it's just the whole taboo thing. Doing it in private. Her sucking my cock, knowing that it's wrong and that I'm too young but still wanting to do it anyway. I'm waiting for this to become a reality..
 

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LemacST, aww that's so sweet; but you needn't beat around the bush. I told you, if you have time on your spring break stop by and I'd hook you up with some sweet, tight, black pussy. :flirt:
 

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a younger guy? Like, significantly younger (within legal boundaries, of course)?

Well I'm 19 and my partner is 38, so it does happen. :smile:

What would you do if a college-aged guy approached you? Where would you want him to approach you and how? Would you flirt, but not seal the deal?

I work at a place where I get a steady flow of women to talk to, some being the type I just described. I also have the liberty to strike up a normal conversation with them (as long as we're not busy). It's not a challenge for me to flirt with girls around my age (and most are pretty receptive) but for some reason, I don't really know what to say to the older ones. How would you like to be approached in this scenario? What should I say? What body language would let them know that I want them? etc.

My partner claims that I wooed her, but I would say the opposite and that she snagged me. I'm really not sure what I did or didn't do right, but if the age was a real concern then we wouldn't still be together 6 or 7 months later. (Though I get the impression that you're looking for more of a fling than a relationship?)

I guess it's the taboo that gives me the main rush, although I think that a mature body is probably at its hottest and ripest. Don't get me wrong, I love the way the girls my age look, feel, smell and taste...older women are just something totally different that seem fucking fantastic. I already know how they look and it's great, I want to explore the rest. It's upsetting when women think they become unattractive when they get older, they don't, it's just a different type of hotness.

I may have lucked out in that department - my partner is in much better physical condition than a large majority of girls I knew in college. Ripe indeed! :tongue:
I've never really thought of her as an 'older' or 'mature' woman though; she really doesn't look it and behaves in a way I almost wouldn't expect someone of 38 to. It's not that she acts much younger or that I act much older, but there is no age gap physically, intellectually or otherwise. We simply 'are' and we can simply 'be'.
She has the best ass I've ever seen, period. Including real life, porn, TV, magazines - whatever.

I also don't expect her to teach me anything, it could be hot but I don't make it an expectation for her to be amazing at sex due to experience and all that.

In all seriousness, expect to teach her as much as she may or may not teach you. There is no knowledge threshold when it comes to sex, and regardless of the age of either particapant, sex overall should be a learning experience.

too young

No such thing. :wink:


I'm not sure that I offered any information that you were necessarily looking for, but hey, that's my experience with this topic. :tongue:
 

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Approach them the same way you do women your own age. Once some of us get past 30, it is flattering a young guy would even look at us, because guys our own age tend to prefer the girls your age.

a younger guy? Like, significantly younger (within legal boundaries, of course)?

I am 20 but I remember as far back as fourteen or fifteen I have lusted for a private, sexual tryst with an older woman. This isn't just limited to MILFs (as every man wants to fuck them), but just pretty-yet-typical "housewife"-ish women in their 30's or 40's.

What would you do if a college-aged guy approached you? Where would you want him to approach you and how? Would you flirt, but not seal the deal?

I work at a place where I get a steady flow of women to talk to, some being the type I just described. I also have the liberty to strike up a normal conversation with them (as long as we're not busy). It's not a challenge for me to flirt with girls around my age (and most are pretty receptive) but for some reason, I don't really know what to say to the older ones. How would you like to be approached in this scenario? What should I say? What body language would let them know that I want them? etc.
 

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I'm 24 and have always been with guys my own age or older, but recently have wanted to hook up with younger guys!
(I'm talking legal like over 16 lol)

so... I am hoping that when I'm 40 or so I can still nab me some fresh meat :wink:
 

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about 10 yrs ago, we had some bored, rich type gals, late 30's, early 40's and they would pick up college lads at my favorite bar. the guys looked like deer caught in the headlights. my comment of "take it easy on the young lad" as they went out the door was met with a dagger eye stare from her and more bewilderment from the lad. 3-4 gals would go down to the Ozarks once a month, as a "wives away" party, until their husbands figured out what was going on. the main instigator, Park, had a rich husband(and 2 small children), husband was gone a lot with work, got tired of her fucking around. so he picked up an bought or built a house in the middle of BFE, Iowa. never saw or heard anything about her or him again. you still out there, Park???? the worst part is I was only a couple years older than she and wanted to fuck her, but she wouldn't give me the time of day.
 

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I would like this too. Best I've done so far is a 24 year old when I was 21 and a 25 year old when 22 :redface:.

But I want an older woman to show me a thing or two rather than the other way around :tongue:
 

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Hmmm.
Probably yes. I like what I've seen from you here when you post. As far as the age thing, I don't know why I have such an attachment to the 30's-40's thing but I do, along with the mother and/or wife factor. It turns me the fuck on to think--the lady down the street, the mom buying milk next to me at the grocery store and the jaded wife who I'm servicing at work--is willing to let me fuck her the way she needs to be fucked, all behind closed doors. I guess it's the taboo that gives me the main rush, although I think that a mature body is probably at its hottest and ripest. Don't get me wrong, I love the way the girls my age look, feel, smell and taste...older women are just something totally different that seem fucking fantastic. I already know how they look and it's great, I want to explore the rest. It's upsetting when women think they become unattractive when they get older, they don't, it's just a different type of hotness. I know women can relate when there's guys like George Clooney and whomever else. There are cougars, silver foxes, etc. I like housewives :smile:

Women who look after and stay in touch with themselves physically and emotionally only get better and better as they mature.

Being confident, charming and approachable are three key qualities in the older woman who oozes sensuality.

It's attitude and self-belief that count (well, alright then, it does help if you don't let yourself go to the dogs, but then that's all about being proud of yourself anyway) Getting older doesn't have to mean losing touch with your younger, sexier self and if you believe you've got it, you can convince all those around you that you've got it too!

Lily:wiggle:
 

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Approach them the same way you do women your own age. Once some of us get past 30, it is flattering a young guy would even look at us, because guys our own age tend to prefer the girls your age.


This is true, it's very flattering if a younger guy is flirting with you. Quite an ego boost.:tongue:
 

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I lost my virginity when I was 16 and it was 2 a 31 year old. the when I was 19 I had a 41 year old but the 31 year old was far better in the sack. so yeah I think the older women R good in the sack I am just waiting 4 my next chance.
 

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I've had two experiences with women significantly older than me.
The first experience was with a 48 year old woman I met on a dating website when I was 22 years old.
The second experience was with a woman in her forties when I was 23. I was on vacation in Bermuda and there was a group of sisters. My friends and I started talking to them and as the evening past, we got friendlier. We then went to the club/bar in their hotel and from there I hooked up with the woman I had been talking to.
For two years I dated a someone who is six years older than me.
I liked the women in their forties. They were in good shape for their age. Not too skinny. I would classify them as thick. Great personalities and I had a wonderful time.