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May have made my wife a size queen?!?

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So, I am approximately 6.25 by 5.25 - probably average and have been with my wife for several years. I bought an extension a few months ago. It adds about 2 inches and about 1 inch in girth. I've used an 8.25 dildo on my wife before and it seems to be uncomfortable with her, but with the extension, I bottom out. I can push and hit it just as hard as I do without it.

When using it the other day with the lights on, the expressions on her face were some that I had never seen before. It seemed like she was almost suprised or something and she came within minutes.

I've never really had any issues getting her off. I was just trying to mix it up a bit, but am hoping I haven't turned her into a potential S.Q..

I understand that with women there is quite a bit of emotion/passion and other things involved with sex, but ladies, I'm curious as to if maybe once you have had a large one, that is all you really ever want?
 

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What is an extension? How do you connect it and 6.5 is larger than normal
 

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You haven't made her a SQ.

What you HAVE done is expand your repertoire of things to do in the bedroom, and what's wrong with that?

Suggestion: introduce something else for Valentine's day -- a new toy, a new experience, a new piece of lingerie for her.
 

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I read your post and I went and bought one. Can't wait to see if it works and how she likes it!
 

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Yeah, like "Not Puny" said, it sounds like you've just given her something else enjoyable that you can try every so often. In any case, she's your wife, so it wouldnt matter if you had made her a size queen, just keep using the extender when she's in the mood, and if that doesn't do it for you, then take it off and finish without it. That way you both get what you want. However, if it feels just as good when using it, then you're both winners! Can't see any downside myself - you're making your wife happy.
 

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We bought one like that one time for my husband. He's about 7" long but very, very thick. We thought it might be fun to see what it was like with a longer one. We rolled it on, but it immediately split because of his enormous girth. Does anyone know if they make similar ones for guys with thick girth? This one seemed like it would be for guys with normal girth.
Thanks.
 

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Do the rubbery ones not stretch a lot then?
 

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If she seemed to enjoy it a lot, don't use it often enough for it to become a habit because if she can take all of you and the extension, she's definitely enjoying that. And when she starts fucking you without the extension there will be this "empty space" that you're not filling up.
 

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We bought one like that one time for my husband. He's about 7" long but very, very thick. We thought it might be fun to see what it was like with a longer one. We rolled it on, but it immediately split because of his enormous girth. Does anyone know if they make similar ones for guys with thick girth? This one seemed like it would be for guys with normal girth.
Thanks.
I've seen these in my local adult shop and they appear to be designed for men with less than average length/girth to achieve a large size. Your husband appears to already be amazingly girthy :notworthy:, like 6.5-7? My boyfriend is similarly curved and just under 6 inches thick, with the curve and girth there's no may we could get one of the in-store brands past mid-shaft - I fingered them :08:. Perhaps there are other options online, although I could not find one at my go to store.
 

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We bought one like that one time for my husband. He's about 7" long but very, very thick. We thought it might be fun to see what it was like with a longer one. We rolled it on, but it immediately split because of his enormous girth. Does anyone know if they make similar ones for guys with thick girth? This one seemed like it would be for guys with normal girth.
Thanks.


I just checked your pics, and I can now see your problem.....wow that thing is ridiculous!! No wonder you had trouble with the extender. You might have trouble finding something to fit that, like you said he's huge.
 

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So you say that there is this "empty space", you are correct. I can kind of sense that empty space when I don't use it - immediately after I am using it. Do you think that - as a woman, it probably does't feel quite as good as when I am using it - because of that empty space that the extension fills?

If she seemed to enjoy it a lot, don't use it often enough for it to become a habit because if she can take all of you and the extension, she's definitely enjoying that. And when she starts fucking you without the extension there will be this "empty space" that you're not filling up.
 

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So you say that there is this "empty space", you are correct. I can kind of sense that empty space when I don't use it - immediately after I am using it. Do you think that - as a woman, it probably does't feel quite as good as when I am using it - because of that empty space that the extension fills?

YES! Her vag will adjust to the extended size if you keep using it, so unless you're into vaginal stretching... Of course for all you know she is hammering herself with a dildo when you're out, in which case, you need to talk.

Of course if you try & fuck her immediately after you';ve used anything bigger than your cock, you won't even touch the sides, as she's nicely tented out & relaxed. Don't use it all the time.
 

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So you say that there is this "empty space", you are correct. I can kind of sense that empty space when I don't use it - immediately after I am using it. Do you think that - as a woman, it probably does't feel quite as good as when I am using it - because of that empty space that the extension fills?

From what i'm told, you'll get this effect immediately after use, less so when not using the extender. Like others have said, if you don't use it really often, then it should still be amazing for her when not using it, but she'll probably notice a difference when you use it but then take it off and immediately give it a go without it.
 

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interesting thread for certain, ronnie you and i are pretty much exactly the same size and from your gallery post, look a lot a like. i've thought about getting an extender as well, it would be great if you could post a pic of what your cock looks like with it on for comparison.

and i'd agree with most of the posts in that i doubt she's immediately turned into a size queen where nothing less will ever do, you've proven to be a very inventive, open minded and capable lover it seems, willing to do and try anything to make her feel good and that doesn't mean that YOU (without any embellishments) still don't feel good to her most of the time i'm sure. but yes, if you fuck her with it on, get her tenting and turned on, but not necessarily get her off, then take it off and go back in, its probably a situation where neither of you is going to feel 'much', she's simply expanded that 'space' and for THAT session (seeing as you chose to use the extender) that's what she may need to totally get herself off. other times, more often than not i'm sure, you, just you, can please her totally, without putting the extension in the mix.

anyway, interesting stuff, i really didn't know such a toy existed that looked like that, would love to see it on. and as for the wives here with amazingly girthy husbands, damn, heading right now to see those pics! ;-p
 

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Um, question. Did you talk to her about it? The experience? I mean, you might have rocked her world just by being so damn sexy and inventive. It proved to her, maybe, that you are fun, want to please her and are completely into her. That is a turn on. It might have been why she went off so fast, the excitement of it all. Talk to her about it. But I doubt she would only want the toy, flesh and blood? Hotter than plastic....right?

have fun!
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YES! Her vag will adjust to the extended size if you keep using it, so unless you're into vaginal stretching... Of course for all you know she is hammering herself with a dildo when you're out, in which case, you need to talk.
Talk? What she does with her body is none of his business.

Of course if you try & fuck her immediately after you';ve used anything bigger than your cock, you won't even touch the sides, as she's nicely tented out & relaxed. Don't use it all the time.
If the woman has good pussy control, this isn't true. I can switch from coming after playing with an x-large dildo with my boyfriend and move right to sex, he's average sized, without missing a beat. He not only "touches the sides", but I can still grip his cock and feel snug as well. The same is true for a smaller guy following a big cock, if the woman has the skill the guy won't know the difference... unless the point is that he *wants* to feel the difference. :wink:

There was a great video by a poster named Wildhoney (Sp?) that demonstrated this nicely by using a huge dildo and "milking" ball-point pen, but that was so long ago I probably wouldn't be able to find the link.

ETA Links:
http://www.lpsg.org/59670-my-favorite-toy.html
http://www.lpsg.org/60127-fucking-a-pencil.html
 
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I've tried to talk to her about it a little, but she for some reason isn't very open about it. I'll try to get a pic with it on for a little comparison.
 

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Talk? What she does with her body is none of his business.

It does if she's stretched out before sex - giving him a poor experience. Lucky old you that you have good control _ALMOST ALL WOMEN CAN'T(be bothered to learn). Put it this way if you found out your fella's erections were more of a lazy lob-on, & this was due to him knackering it out by beating off 3 times before sex - wouldn't this be your business as a couple? I'm sure you're fella would have a problem if you were sharing your clunge with other guys too!


If the woman has good pussy control, this isn't true. I can switch from coming after playing with an x-large dildo with my boyfriend and move right to sex, he's average sized, without missing a beat. He not only "touches the sides", but I can still grip his cock and feel snug as well. The same is true for a smaller guy following a big cock, if the woman has the skill the guy won't know the difference... unless the point is that he *wants* to feel the difference. :wink:

ETA Links:
http://www.lpsg.org/59670-my-favorite-toy.html
http://www.lpsg.org/60127-fucking-a-pencil.html

True! But NB do a poll - most women can't. I'd say only 1 in 50 can milk from personal experience, & only about 1 in 20 can really clench.

Kudos to you, but to be fair unless you're used to having extreme stretching, &, for an hour or 2, most women are so spent & exhausted, that it's beyond them. I'd feel guilty being so demanding, though perhaps now I'll show the GF your post!

Does your partner have a permanent grin!:smile:
 

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First, it doesn't matter what his experience might be, he is not entitled to dictate what she does with her body. If her pussy is too lose, he has some lotion and his hand. However, I doubt she, or most women, would be "stretched out" after a session of masturbation.

As far as my relationship, my boyfriend can bust out a few to porn right in front of me and still have sex. Perhaps I am lucky, but, if he wasn't up for sex - I have my hand, though I make my own 'lotion'. :wink:

True! But NB do a poll - most women can't. I'd say only 1 in 50 can milk from personal experience, & only about 1 in 20 can really clench.

Kudos to you, but to be fair unless you're used to having extreme stretching, &, for an hour or 2, most women are so spent & exhausted, that it's beyond them. I'd feel guilty being so demanding, though perhaps now I'll show the GF your post!

Does your partner have a permanent grin!:smile:
A poll on LPSG would prove nothing, as most of the women on this site are sexually experienced and very attuned to their bodies.

I think you do not understand how disconnected and unaware average women are of their own bodies. It isn't that they are lazy, don't try, or do not want to please their partner, in fact, the opposite is often true. It has more to do with women not knowing how their body works - parents, doctors, etc., do not teach women about how to achieve sexual pleasure. (Yes, kegels would be a primary benefit to her pleasure)

Which leaves a great deal of women to just do the best with what little knowledge they have. Those that are determined may find a book or some other source which gives basic anatomy and techniques, and they will discover what works, but there isn't a great deal out there and most is geared toward pleasing the man, not the woman figuring out what feels good for her body. What makes orgasms stronger. How good it feels for her to squeeze around a cock, as opposed to "do this and drive your man wild".

Women have to be sexually empowered - until that happens, men can whinge all they want, but only have their society's puritanical underpinnings to blame.

I quite like how I brought that around to a feminist perspective at the end. *pats back* :biggrin1:


Does your partner have a permanent grin!:smile:
He's satisfied. I make certain of that, and vice versa. :smile:
 

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First, it doesn't matter what his experience might be, he is not entitled to dictate what she does with her body.

Oh be fair. I agree with most of what you said, but by that remit if he brought back his Drum'n'Bass buds for a rave at 4AM, she shouldn't complain either.

In a relationship - which he's in, they are meant to communicate & because they're sexually stuck with each other. She & he deserve the best sex each other is ABLE to give - & any activity which lessens the mutual sexual experience is undesirable. Divorce?Lol.

Oh, & trust me - ALL men can tell when a woman feels different. I always can with the GF has had a rabbit up her during the day! Just coz we're quiet doesn't mean we don't know, though I will concede, any woman with your control could hide it - & if it's hidden - no problem.

Women have to be sexually empowered - until that happens, men can whinge all they want, but only have their society's puritanical underpinnings to blame.

Women are sexually empowered. It's men who feel ashamed saying felch me, peg me, suck my balls, put ya fingers up my ass, milk my prostate, can we watch porn, spank me like a schoolboy, get me my fleshlight, shove ya rabbit up my rectum, & where's my gasmask!

Women repress women's sexuality by exclusion, & men's by repulsion.

That's why I'm being honest to the point of being slapped daily by my GF so there are no taboos... sure, it's more of a jog than a race to transparency, but we both want each other to have the best time possible.
 

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'Twenty years ago, pornography was something you had to search out and buy,' says Paula Hall.

'Now it's on every home computer, and more and more men are ruining their sex lives as a result, because they can meet their desires without their wife.'


The 'cartoon images' of arousal and satisfaction in porn, she says, 'are also giving a whole generation of men ridiculously unreal expectations about what real sex is like.

The same goes for women & their toys too!

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I've seen these in my local adult shop and they appear to be designed for men with less than average length/girth to achieve a large size. Your husband appears to already be amazingly girthy :notworthy:, like 6.5-7? My boyfriend is similarly curved and just under 6 inches thick, with the curve and girth there's no may we could get one of the in-store brands past mid-shaft - I fingered them :08:. Perhaps there are other options online, although I could not find one at my go to store.

He's actually a bit over 7.5" in the middle and a bit over 8" at the bottom (base?). It split in 2 as we were trying to get it on. It was not nearly enough to fit him.
 
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I think you do not understand how disconnected and unaware average women are of their own bodies. It isn't that they are lazy, don't try, or do not want to please their partner, in fact, the opposite is often true. It has more to do with women not knowing how their body works - parents, doctors, etc., do not teach women about how to achieve sexual pleasure. (Yes, kegels would be a primary benefit to her pleasure)

Which leaves a great deal of women to just do the best with what little knowledge they have. Those that are determined may find a book or some other source which gives basic anatomy and techniques, and they will discover what works, but there isn't a great deal out there and most is geared toward pleasing the man, not the woman figuring out what feels good for her body. What makes orgasms stronger. How good it feels for her to squeeze around a cock, as opposed to "do this and drive your man wild".

excellent point another reason why surveys on female sexuality need to be taken with a grain of salt.

e.g. the oft quoted statistic that that 85% o women are "satisfied with the size of their parter's penis." I could be "satisfied" with a toyota camry, but maybe my heart's desire is a Ferrari. or for that matter it would easier to be "satisfied if one had never ridden in a Ferrari, Most women haven't dealt with a wide range of sizes--or shapes

similarly surveys seem to treat one female orgasm as equivalent with little attention given to the variety or intensity.

have said that, I respectfully disagree with a lack of information concerning female sexual satisfaction, particularly from a "how to" perspective. plenty has been published: WHEN THE EARTH MOVES by Mikaya Heart, Lou Paget's stuff, anything to do with Tantra. No one can say there's a lack of information.

One can question the quality and not the lack of consistency. In which case, the failure lies with sexology. Our knowledge of female sexual response is far from complete, yet panopoly of "experts" feel assured speaking as if they have the final word. OTOH "amateurs" (lovers?) are frequently ahead of the curve with practical emprical data.

a little history is in order, about 50 years ago William H Masters & Virginia Johnson established themselves as the foremost experts on human sexuality. It was they who discovered that most nerve endings in the vagina were in the first three inches. They leaped to the conclusion that a woman would feel the same with a 3 inch penis as a 6 inch penis or a 9 inch penis. Everyone fell in line and said that if any woman had a preference for a larger penis it was merely psychological or couldn't possibly be physical.

by the end of the 1960s the clitoris was widely celebrated as the key to female sexual satification. In the 1970s, Shere Hite went further and said that all orgasm were clitoral, and the vaginal orgasm was a patriarchal my designed to oppress women and was widely lionize by leading feminist. In the 1980s, the g spot which was actually discovered in the 1940s reached popular consciousness. It amusing the recount the hue and cry that accompanied the publication the book by Ladas, Whipple, & Perry. And even today some people seem to want to question the existence of the g spot.

since then female ejaculation, AFE orgasms, and other discoveries have reasserted not only the existence of vagina orgasm, and its ability to be achieved by intercourse, but it's variety. Kegel exercises are a welcome technique but I suspect only the most basic exercise given traditional knowledge in the far east & polynesia. I think our ignorance has been the result of thinking of the vagina as merely a "sheath" a mere receptacle for the penis. And "experts" of both sexes are guilty of holding this unstated premise.

In conclusion, I just want to caution that anything stated authoritatively about female sexuality will be likely subject to revision. And the process of revision need not wait on the experts.