for the ladies. if you see a guy out in public and you think he may be interested in you, how do you like or prefer to be approached?
'Vernal Tiger - what do you mean by "neg"?
i always think that a guy who either kisses my arse of makes a critical comment the first time we meet is not my type. i'm sure negging is great if you only ever want to date needy, insecure people.Well, that too. I imagine it also takes a bit more panache than was possessed by the guy in my example.
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Negging is a technique used by pick up artists (PUA). The Game by Neil Strauss gives a good insight into the PUA culture.
A neg is a fairly thinly veiled putdown, designed to "cut down" a woman by playing on her insecurities. This allows average men to bring beautiful women (and therefore the type of women they'd never normally dare to approach) down to their level.
A friend got negged the other night - the guy asked her if she'd ever broken her nose, because it looked crooked. When she left the table, he turned to another girl and said, "Your friend is cute, but she's a bit mannish, don't you think?"
you were told wrong.well there are free downloads. but i was always told to get a woman you have to be funny, make her laugh, listen to her complain, and do what she wants. so any comments there?
*is stunned*
That is just so, so.... manipulative
Guys buy books telling them how to do this? Ugh.
I like the advice. But in my case it only goes as far as having another freind. Which isn't all bad. :smile:you were told wrong.
a sense of humour is nice but a clown is annoying.
do what she wants?? who respects a doormat?
my advice would be to be a decent person.
be polite, caring and interested in others.
do not settle for less respect than you offer.
do not give less respect than you expect to receive.
anything else is a matter of personal taste.
well there are free downloads. but i was always told to get a woman you have to be funny, make her laugh, listen to her complain, and do what she wants. so any comments there?