Maybe having a big dick doesn't help??

[deleted19896351]

I had a relationship with a nice, handsome guy for years he had a small dick. I have never been with a big guy - I want to but its a bit daunting.

 

[elklindoxxx]

I'll share what my partner told me about 'dicks'.

She doesn't like a really big dick, her ideal range is around 6 to 7 inches long and 5 to 6 inches thick. Anything bigger becomes more uncomfortable and smaller doesn't stretch enough to stimulate

What is a turn on???

A HARD HARD DICK....thrusting inside of her.

According to her the big dicks are really for show. So I suppose that they could work for entertainment purposes. But for practical intents and purposes...probably no so much.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Interesting. What if size for so many women is too big and they'd rather only slightly larger so that they can take more thus increasing probability of successful pregnancy? If that big/hung/huge dick is shooting blanks, she just backed herself and the species into an evolutionary corner.

Again, multiple strategies involved. Even if the big hung one is shooting blanks, that doesn't preclude her getting impregnated by another party then having the status and resources of the big hung one to increase the survivability of offspring sired by more fertile men.
Polyandry doesn't mesh so well with human society, hence why infidelity(cuckoldry) is the most reliable escape route for women when comes to an evolutionary corner they may find themselves backed into.
Truth be told, the very title of this thread could be changed to, "Maybe Having a (Insert Here) Doesn't Help??", because quite frankly no matter what metric(s) of attractiveness you adhere to as a man, there's some negative aspect of which, women will be motivated to covertly seek out solutions for in other men. For instance our conventional modern concept of romance was developed by men without jobs, status, or property seeking mating opportunities back when such things meant only 1 man reproduced for every 17 women.

 

[Zhuren]

Again, multiple strategies involved. Even if the big hung one is shooting blanks, that doesn't preclude her getting impregnated by another party then having the status and resources of the big hung one to increase the survivability of offspring sired by more fertile men.
Polyandry doesn't mesh so well with human society, hence why infidelity(cuckoldry) is the most reliable escape route for women when comes to an evolutionary corner they may find themselves backed into.
Truth be told, the very title of this thread could be changed to, "Maybe Having a (Insert Here) Doesn't Help??", because quite frankly no matter what metric(s) of attractiveness you adhere to as a man, there's some negative aspect of which, women will be motivated to covertly seek out solutions for in other men. For instance our conventional modern concept of romance was developed by men without jobs, status, or property seeking mating opportunities back when such things meant only 1 man reproduced for every 17 women.

Could you expand on that point a little bit more?

Romance developed by Men without jobs?

One out of 17?

 

[Sagittarius84]

Romance developed by Men without jobs?

Land and business ownership typically consumed a man's day if he were one of the few to have them. It could afford a relatively luxurious and safe life for(a) wome(a)n, but not afford them quality time. Most of what we consider as romantic involves a lot of time and effort, but not necessarily cost, a great way to get mating opportunities if you didn't have the money, power, or status to get it.

One out of 17?

Sort of like how 1-200 people in Asia have Genghis Khans DNA or something like that...Kings Mistress has been the norm for most of human civilization, the idea of the peasants wife is relatively new and very newly ubiquitous.

 

[MilfBanger78]

Could you expand on that point a little bit more?

Romance developed by Men without jobs?

One out of 17?

20% of men fuck 80% of the women. so thats just nothing new. Women in general dont marry the guy they're most attracted to, they marry for security, survival. Pareto Principle. And in modern times, a guy could be a total weakling, but make money kiss her ass etc lol so she will go with him. Where as in primitive times that guy would be eaten

 

[HorseHung40's]

A big dick doesn't solve everything, despite the fantasies of many ("straight") men here.

 

[old gay dude]

Interesting.
- The ladies can be scared off by a big dick.
- An old saying - it is not the size of the magicians wand that brings the rabbit out of the hat - it is the skill of the magician. You may have a big cock but you have to know how to use it.
- So many photoshopped images out there, how can you tell if the guy is hung or not.
- Be happy with what you were born with. I once was laying on a bed, waiting for a new young lady to get out of the shower. When she "saw me on the bed, she laughed and said "who do you think you are going to satisfy with that". My answer, "Me". When we were all done, she told me it was one of the best nights of her life. And she came back often.

 

[James Kujveli]

It does appear that women prefer a "really cute guy".. I'm not sure what that is exactly aside using a celebrity example like Brad Pitt or Jared Leto, etcetc.. financial status as well.. nice head of hair helps.. but a good looking guy with an "average" dick will always do better than an ugly guy with a huge cock.
What about personality.. being funny and clever.. no worries mate, those guys are all stuck and secure in the `friends ` zone...

 

[Sagittarius84]

but a good looking guy with an "average" dick will always do better than an ugly guy with a huge cock.

If you were to round up say a thousand or so of sexually active women between 18-35 and polled them upon the traits of their toxic exes, baby daddies, old hook ups, and the like; essentially men they had been most promiscuous with in the past but would never go back to them, do you think theyd describe them more as good looking guys with average dicks, or ugly guys with huge cocks?

 

[theogman]

A big dick doesn't hold the door, pick up the bill, ask how you feel, do the dishes, give you a hug when you really need it, entertain your friends, tell a joke or discuss a dilemma. It's still just a dick, remember?

 

[Luudwig]

A big dick doesn't hold the door, pick up the bill, ask how you feel, do the dishes, give you a hug when you really need it, entertain your friends, tell a joke or discuss a dilemma. It's still just a dick, remember?

A big dick might pay the bill, though.

 

[SaltnPepper32]

In my experience, dick size is rarely that relevant in the straight world, its a niche fetish for some ladies, but for the most part being well hung is not a requirement and very low on the list of things women look for in men.

 

[Sagittarius84]

In my experience, dick size is rarely that relevant in the straight world, its a niche fetish for some ladies, but for the most part being well hung is not a requirement and very low on the list of things women look for in men.

I agree within the realm of committed relationships and the like...
I guess where I'm more curious if other things are at play is the less spoken about, less flattering sexual habits of women, like casual commitment free sex, or infidelity.