Maybe Thinking That Would Be Enjoyable...

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I've met many men, over the years, whom I'm attracted/turned-on-by. We have Fun: good conversations, laughter, mutual Like....without labels, yet they know I'm gay, and I know they are straight, basically. (This is NOT a gay/straight post!) It's a delicate-subject, with all-this entails...yet: they Like Me. They know I Like Them....

Have wondered: If a man is enjoying his time around you, easy, and I'd like to enjoy Him/Each Other, in more personal way: (delicate to bring That up), what are some tips? Some ways, without being SO (we like each other), that may bring some enjoyment for us Both?

Sometimes I think we get in the way of some Pleasure. Personnal thoughts etc, I know.

 

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you could just simply ask at the risk of the relationship changing and/or ending. if ur straight buddies are aware that you gay and still hang around with you then it may just be that... friends hanging out and nothing more.
 
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Why / How is Gay relationship / dating any different from Hetero relationship / dating. People can just be friends and still have attraction to each other. Though often though the friendship is mutual, the attractio can be one sided.
 
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Why does a gay-straight friendship have to inevitably head toward sex?
It's posts like this that reinforce the perception that gay men have only one reason to be around other men, gay or straight, and that straight men are justified in keeping their distance.
 

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I have a lot of straight friends and I respect all boundaries. It's never even brought up although I did have one friend blatantly ask me if I was attracted to him sexually. He was a little upset when I told him I wasn't. It wasn't that he was unattractive but I didn't want him to have anything in the back of his mind that might be thrown in my face in the future. I've always had an worry that straight men would automatically think that I was attracted to them if they found out I was gay and treat me like an outcast. I've even had male coworkers pickup on my sexuality and ask me and it always makes me uncomfortable.
 
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Mutual Like...not to Make one 'gay'....just that it might be pleasurable to share. We are guys.