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Hello everybody
So, me (m) and my bf (m) are thinking about doing a threesome. Not necessarily soon but it's something that we've been wanting. Yesterday we talked about our feelings and desires and it became clear that we have this desire of making out with other boys and etc. I personally don't think I'd be able to have an open relationship, but I often think about me having sex with other guys and even a three-way. I've lost my virginity with my boyfriend and sometimes I'm curious about how it feels to do it with someone else, with a different dick and taste and etc.
Although, of course we are scared of everything. What would it be like? What's after like? What to do in the moment? How to find the right guy? What about ISTS? Would we still the same after doing that? Everything is coming to our heads.
Maybe if we could go somewhere and just make out with a guy together but without sex would be enough?
We often fantasized about threeways, my boyfriend always like when I create histories out of my head about us going out and making out and having sex with other men, even men we know that we wouldn't be able to be with. It was most like a fetish of imagination but of course now we see this as a wish.
Yesterday he allowed me to create a Snapchat account for us to talk with other men and trade nudes but he wasn't in the mood for that but I was, so he allowed me to talk and trade nudes with the guys and to be honest I did but i didn't really enjoy it as much as I thought I would (I always have been a nude trader but when my relationship started an year ago I stopped with that, ofc).
We talked about all of that, our communication is very very good and we understand each other, and I'm happy that we have this safe space where we can share our thoughts and desires and etc, and we don't want to lose each other.
Anyone could help? Any tips about what to do about this situation? Any advices? Any similar stories? Everything will be welcomed!
So, me (m) and my bf (m) are thinking about doing a threesome. Not necessarily soon but it's something that we've been wanting. Yesterday we talked about our feelings and desires and it became clear that we have this desire of making out with other boys and etc. I personally don't think I'd be able to have an open relationship, but I often think about me having sex with other guys and even a three-way. I've lost my virginity with my boyfriend and sometimes I'm curious about how it feels to do it with someone else, with a different dick and taste and etc.
Although, of course we are scared of everything. What would it be like? What's after like? What to do in the moment? How to find the right guy? What about ISTS? Would we still the same after doing that? Everything is coming to our heads.
Maybe if we could go somewhere and just make out with a guy together but without sex would be enough?
We often fantasized about threeways, my boyfriend always like when I create histories out of my head about us going out and making out and having sex with other men, even men we know that we wouldn't be able to be with. It was most like a fetish of imagination but of course now we see this as a wish.
Yesterday he allowed me to create a Snapchat account for us to talk with other men and trade nudes but he wasn't in the mood for that but I was, so he allowed me to talk and trade nudes with the guys and to be honest I did but i didn't really enjoy it as much as I thought I would (I always have been a nude trader but when my relationship started an year ago I stopped with that, ofc).
We talked about all of that, our communication is very very good and we understand each other, and I'm happy that we have this safe space where we can share our thoughts and desires and etc, and we don't want to lose each other.
Anyone could help? Any tips about what to do about this situation? Any advices? Any similar stories? Everything will be welcomed!