Me and my bf... Calling him my ex during sex!!!

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I posted this a while back in Ask a Women and didn't get any similar stories... Just going to try it here...this has been a while back so just to put you up to date before you read..lol...me and my bf are still a happy couple!!!




I need some advice ASAP...so me and my boyfriend have been dating for two and a half years this January...a couple of weeks ago we were talking about all of my ex boyfriends and their endowments...we'll I was kindof nervous at first about telling the truth but I did...I told him that my ex before him had a very huge thick cock...much bigger than his...he took the news very well and kinda joked about it...so I thought everything was ok...so I just told that to tell this...well we had went to the bar and got a little wasted and came back to my apartments and started having sex..which he is VERy good in bed...then he started asking me to call him my ex bfs name and about his huge cock in detail...I was drunk so I did and he began fucking me harder than he's ever fucked me...so I screamed ""ohhh Matt your cock is sooo thick" ( my exes name was Matt) and he came soooo much...after was really awkward...so I'm kinda wanting everyone's opinion on the situation...is it normal??? Should I keep doing it??? Is it ok that I pictured Matt while I said it and kinda liked it??? Do I still have feelings for Matt ?? Anything! Please
 
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Interesting, it really depends on how confident he is with his sexuality. My wife and I have done the same thing on more than one occasion. Yes, she has had sex with quite a few large cocks and why not. The thing that really matters to me is that she is satisfied se1
 

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It sounds like he is into that stuff. You would have known if there was going to be a problem from it a while ago. Thinking about your ex isn't a big deal either. You are just thinking about his cock and how it felt, not about how you enjoyed eating breakfast together or watching movies on the couch together. That would be a problem!

How would you feel about a 3some with a hung guy, so your bf can watch you take it?
 

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Don't let it scare you, just communicate with him. My advice is don't try to guess. The desire to imagine, or even to see, your woman with a powerful and well endowed man is very strong in some men. Also, of course you still have some feelings for Matt. He gave you a ton of pleasure and you loved him, at least to some extent -- and you are human. That doesn't mean you want to be back with him, but you can still remember his big cock with lust.

The good news is that your man really likes the image of you fucking the guy with the huge cock, and obviously it turns you both on. Play with it. Next time, ask him if he wants you to imagine Matt the way you did that time. Ask him to share his fantasy with you, and act out as much of it as you want to. Many couples do this. If ultimately he is happy with you actually having a real huge cock for him to watch and you to enjoy, you can decide whether that might interest you, as well. But of course, only do what you want.
 

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1. it just depends on how comfortable YOU are with it. if it gets your bf off, then great. obviously he's into it since he asked you to tell him about matt's dick and to call him by his name. frankly, it is a LITTLE weird, but we all have our weird shit. it's just something that turns him on. but, if it makes you uncomfortable, then you need to communicate with him and tell him that you're not cool with it. if he has a hard time accepting that, then you have an issue.

2. no, it doesn't mean you still have feelings for your ex. your bf TOLD you to call out his name during sex. even if it was an accident, your bf asked you to go into all of these crazy details about him and probably made you talk about him all night long. subconsciously you were probably thinking about him, and between that and the alcohol, it just slipped out. we all have some residual feelings about our exes, but it doesn't mean we don't have "those" kinds of feelings.

3. the fact that you pictured matt and kind of liked it could be saying something, but that's just sex. how do you feel about your bf when you're NOT having sex? do you think about your ex? do you day dream about him? do you miss him and think about him in non-sexual ways? if the answer to those questions is yes, then babe, you've got a problem.
 

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Well, she didn't get she wanted in Ask a Women, so she posted here. I think it's more a fetish for her than a problem.
 

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I posted this a while back in Ask a Women and didn't get any similar stories... Just going to try it here...this has been a while back so just to put you up to date before you read..lol...me and my bf are still a happy couple!!!




I need some advice ASAP...so me and my boyfriend have been dating for two and a half years this January...a couple of weeks ago we were talking about all of my ex boyfriends and their endowments...we'll I was kindof nervous at first about telling the truth but I did...I told him that my ex before him had a very huge thick cock...much bigger than his...he took the news very well and kinda joked about it...so I thought everything was ok...so I just told that to tell this...well we had went to the bar and got a little wasted and came back to my apartments and started having sex..which he is VERy good in bed...then he started asking me to call him my ex bfs name and about his huge cock in detail...I was drunk so I did and he began fucking me harder than he's ever fucked me...so I screamed ""ohhh Matt your cock is sooo thick" ( my exes name was Matt) and he came soooo much...after was really awkward...so I'm kinda wanting everyone's opinion on the situation...is it normal??? Should I keep doing it??? Is it ok that I pictured Matt while I said it and kinda liked it??? Do I still have feelings for Matt ?? Anything! Please

I think you should let him watch Matt fuck you for real!!!!!