..... Totally different responses. As you guys know, I've been expressing my sexual frustrations with you for the past year. I created several threads about our situation. How do you deal with a partner "who just doesn't like sex as much as you"? after a couple of months, I changed my ways. And the funny thing is, I had the complete opposite problem lol. How do you tell you partner you don't want to have sex? But in between the time of my posts, I convinced her that she should have a discussion about her frustrations on LPSG too. Here is her thread. Not having Sex bums my boyfriend out And after reading the comments in each of our threads, I noticed such an extreme difference in the response. They are all very supportive, but just to the OP. In one thread, I'm normal and she is a crazy and manipulative. In her thread, she is normal and I'm a whiny boy lol. I think think Dolfette was the only one that had consistent advice for both of us. *I tip my hat to you madam* (actually I tip my hat to everybody that responded. Thank you.) MissKay and I are in a great place right now. Everything isn't perfect, but we don't expect them to be. Therapy helps. This thread wasn't made to talk about who right and who's wrong. We're both right and both wrong. I just thought it was interesting to see that the responses that we received were so polar! Like wow. lol.