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3) No one can agree on where the fluid from female ejaculation comes from. Is it the Cowper's glands, the Skene's glands, What percentage is water, urine, etc. Porn has done little to validate the real phenomena by creating such ridiculously fake exhibitions, but by all means, ask a guy who's been drenched by a woman, and he'll tell you it doesn't smell like amonia (like it does if she loses bladder control and pees on him) and the flood of water is intense.
Jana,
I have not been with many women at all. But I do know the difference between fluid from the vagina and from the bladder. And I do know that when a woman gets excited enough the sheets will probably be wet with vaginal fluid. After all, an unaroused vagina is hard to penetrate at first. As it is aroused it becomes encourged with fluid or at least the women I have been with do. And the longer the sex goes the wetter they usually get. And yes I have felt fluid coming from somewhere in the vagina when they have had an orgasm. I am no expert here. I don't know anything about all the names of all the glands. But I do know the fluid comes from within the vagina. Yes there has been a loss of urine a time or two and that is easily distinguishable.
The fact that "experts" have discussed this makes me agree with you. They haven't had sex with a woman who had an orgasm or they wouldn't be making those rediculous claims. I do think that orgasms are different for women then men. But that doesn't mean that they are more enjoyable or intense for either gender. But we will never know for sure. It is not like ordering two differnt brands of vanilla ice cream and seeing which one you like best and see if you can taste the difference. No one at least with present technology can have experienced orgasm as both a male and a female.
It is my personal belief that women have the capacity to enjoy more orgasms then men. A truly liberated woman may be able to experience an even more intense orgasm than a man. I don't know.
I suspect that the intensity of orgasm has more to do with the individual, age, health, complications from diseases, who you are with, and your own personal sex drive that you allow youself to have, and what you were taught and believe. I suspect gender is a very secondary factor. But I know no way to prove that.
I think that there are a lot of women who don't experience orgasm and some even dread sex. Many times it is the man's fault. A man should never penetrate a woman until there has been enough foreplay to get the vagina aroused and wet enough to allow the penis to slip in without any pain or discomfort.
But too many guys just want to stick it in, get their kicks and pull out. No their "woman" probably won't have an orgasm and will come to despise sex. It is the job of both genders to see what the needs of their partners are in sex activity wither it be gay or straight. If you fulfill the needs of your partner first, then you will find your own needs are met as well.
This is just one man's opinion on a woman and a womans orgasm. And it comes from experience and not from a book.
Yes, it is true that I find men more sexually stimulating than women, but that doesn't mean that I don't know understand what women need.
In closing, I find it so ironic that gay men seem to understand women's needs more than most straight men. I have often wondered why that is true.
