me and my partner need help

[mongooseontherun]

me and my boyfriend are wanting to have a go with me fucking him, problem is, im 7 inch long by 6 around.

Its really hurting him to try it even with lube and some prep with a butt plug, can anyone suggest anything to help us.

 

[chip59]

The first time for me was a lot more painful than I was expecting. I suggest practice with a small dildo and lots of lube. Go slow, only as much as you can stand at one time. Once you've taught the sphincter how to relax, it goes easier.
On X-Tube, Jakeodd has a nice video here: XTube Videos

 

[XticktockX]

Lots of preparation and lube, and go slow.

 

[mongooseontherun]

hey thanks for that, we have bought him a but plutt to try and get him used to having something there (he hasnt been fucked for about 7 years, so it was hurting to get a finger there) he seems to have relaxed to the but plugg so i think we will probably do it next time with me ontop (fingers crossed)

one other Q

Im a virgin to being the guy ontop, anything you can suggest. recomend?

 

[MarkLondon]

Just stay hard and get in there. That was my biggest problem with my bloke, when he turned his back towards me.

It's worked out, without viagra. But he did have to help me feel sexual about it, not just expect me to perform.

I have found it easier to fuck bi men rather than gay men. Possibly because they are more aware of the power of receptiveness.

 

[slurper_la]

let him watch you fuck me for pointers! :smile:

 

[D_season 5]

I'm stunned with your grammar, but then...............

 

[B_Think_Kink]

I found that going in a doggy style position and easing myself on to my friends dick helped. I was screaming his name in pain because nothing had ever touched my ass before, but me being in control helped a lot.

 

[B_Nick8]

I'm stunned with your grammar, but then...............

I'm sorry, what?? Are you kidding me?? Have you bothered to read any of your own posts lately? I'm amazed that you even bothered to capitalize "I'm" here; that's totally unlike you.

Sidebar: Don't you have better things to be doing, such as changing diapers, than correcting other people's grammar?

 

[mongooseontherun]

well i managed to get him to take it and hes took it ever since, hes gone from total to to total bottom. everntually managed to get him to take it using a little force and coersion (sp?) Once he had managed to get it and stopped clenching (which was a big part of his problem) he loved it