I think (some) men will put up with a lot of bullshit (bad attitudes etc) to have a really hot piece of ass/eye candy. Unless she sucks in bed?
My boyfriend said he had a ridiculously hot girlfriend. Total model material or she always said she was anyway. Total bitch! Rude. Abrasive. Sense of entitlement. Men always did what she demanded of them. He put up with her at first because she was hot. He got tired of her REAL quick. He broke up with her and she said: Men do NOT break up with me. You WILL be back. He wasn't. Lol!
So anyway. He hated to admit it - but men do sometimes make illogical decisions when they think with their dicks!
Personally, I think that a confident woman doesn't need to be mean or belittle others to make themselves look or feel superior. Having respect for yourself and others exudes class. I think that's sexy in both sexes.
Mean Girls become one of the Real Housewives of _______________. Very few of them seem to have any substance at all. *I know I'll lose my gay card but I can't stand those Real Housewives shows.*
I would be interested to know what she said. My thoughts are she was really jealous of youI have to point out that my mean girl wasn't mean to everyone, even though I thought she was a crazy mean bitch to me for an entire year and I didn't know why because I never spoke to her or did anything to her. She was mean to me because she thought I deserved it, and I finally found out why at the end of the year when she finally said something crazy to me that made all the pieces of the puzzle fall into place (which is why I'm certain that she'll make a terrible judge), but she didn't think everyone deserved being mean to. I've known very few people whom I think were mean to everyone. I'm sure that the people she was nice to had no idea what it was like to be on her bad side. One person's mean girl is another person's friend.
I'm just saying that pegging someone as a "mean girl" isn't a title that would probably be used by everyone universally. That one person who kept trying to pick on me when I was new here? A lot of people I was friends with went out of their way to explain why they were also friends with her and how great she is to them. My mean girl wasn't their mean girl.
I hate hate hate mean girls!!!!This whole trend of girls fighting and finger wagging (oh no you di'int) and all of that crap makes me absolutely sick. I hate the fact that "reality" shows now have to feature at least one nasty girl who wants to fight everybody. Even the trashy housewives of whatever county have to get in FIST fights! Hello!! What the heck has happened to our society. I believe in equality for women but that doesnt mean turn into a bitch and try to fight every girl who looks sideways at you!
I have to point out that my mean girl wasn't mean to everyone, even though I thought she was a crazy mean bitch to me for an entire year and I didn't know why because I never spoke to her or did anything to her. She was mean to me because she thought I deserved it, and I finally found out why at the end of the year when she finally said something crazy to me that made all the pieces of the puzzle fall into place (which is why I'm certain that she'll make a terrible judge), but she didn't think everyone deserved being mean to. I've known very few people whom I think were mean to everyone. I'm sure that the people she was nice to had no idea what it was like to be on her bad side. One person's mean girl is another person's friend.
I'm just saying that pegging someone as a "mean girl" isn't a title that would probably be used by everyone universally. That one person who kept trying to pick on me when I was new here? A lot of people I was friends with went out of their way to explain why they were also friends with her and how great she is to them. My mean girl wasn't their mean girl.
I agree Petite, and get what you are saying.
This is probably true in 99% of the cases. The other 1% would be considered total bullies. But most of the time, the girls believe they have a right to make fun of, belittle, or simply harass "the new girl", "the different girl", etc. and it would be rare that others (besides her very closest of friends... who join her) would see this person as a "mean girl".
And I absolutely agree with LisaMarie's last statement about a confident woman.
Yes, that girl figured out very early that becoming a part of the system placed her above the rules and she liked it that way. I knew back then that she probably would succeed at becoming a judge, which is scarier to me now. I was young and naive at the time and didn't realize that bad judges aren't just a trope in the movies.