"Mean Girls" yes or no?

Do you like "mean" girls?

  • Yes, I totally love mean girls

    Votes: 17 17.3%
  • No, I'd rather have a nice girl

    Votes: 71 72.4%
  • Makes no difference to me... I don't like girls (period)

    Votes: 5 5.1%
  • I don't care... a girl is a girl is a girl (love'em all)

    Votes: 5 5.1%

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I have to point out that my mean girl wasn't mean to everyone, even though I thought she was a crazy mean bitch to me for an entire year and I didn't know why because I never spoke to her or did anything to her. She was mean to me because she thought I deserved it, and I finally found out why at the end of the year when she finally said something crazy to me that made all the pieces of the puzzle fall into place (which is why I'm certain that she'll make a terrible judge), but she didn't think everyone deserved being mean to. I've known very few people whom I think were mean to everyone. I'm sure that the people she was nice to had no idea what it was like to be on her bad side. One person's mean girl is another person's friend.

I'm just saying that pegging someone as a "mean girl" isn't a title that would probably be used by everyone universally. That one person who kept trying to pick on me when I was new here? A lot of people I was friends with went out of their way to explain why they were also friends with her and how great she is to them. My mean girl wasn't their mean girl.
 
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i'm attracted to different women for different reasons and in different contexts. as in, if it's just spank bank material, i could care less about your personality; if you're a friend, i don't enjoy being around anyone who is a dick to other people but will tolerate a modicum of it depending on how much we hang out; if you're my 'significant other', i'm going to want to be with and around you a ton obviously and if you're a dick, that just won't fly. the only reason i didn't check the "i like nice girls" option is that i don't like the stereotype of a "nice girl" (being a doormat or not having any edge at all). self-confident, independent, funny, sexy (physically) and SEXY (mentally) is the girl for me.
 

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I hate hate hate mean girls!!!!:mad: This whole trend of girls fighting and finger wagging (oh no you di'int) and all of that crap makes me absolutely sick. I hate the fact that "reality" shows now have to feature at least one nasty girl who wants to fight everybody. Even the trashy housewives of whatever county have to get in FIST fights! Hello!! What the heck has happened to our society. I believe in equality for women but that doesnt mean turn into a bitch and try to fight every girl who looks sideways at you!
 

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Are we mere men sufficiently aware of who the mean girls actually are, at least until it's too late?

If the penny did drop, I'd steer well clear.

Unfortunately I was beguiled by a nasty girl, many moons ago, and it took me some time to realise quite what I had let myself in for; the story didn't have a happy ending.
 

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I think (some) men will put up with a lot of bullshit (bad attitudes etc) to have a really hot piece of ass/eye candy. Unless she sucks in bed?

My boyfriend said he had a ridiculously hot girlfriend. Total model material or she always said she was anyway. Total bitch! Rude. Abrasive. Sense of entitlement. Men always did what she demanded of them. He put up with her at first because she was hot. He got tired of her REAL quick. He broke up with her and she said: Men do NOT break up with me. You WILL be back. He wasn't. Lol!

So anyway. He hated to admit it - but men do sometimes make illogical decisions when they think with their dicks!

Personally, I think that a confident woman doesn't need to be mean or belittle others to make themselves look or feel superior. Having respect for yourself and others exudes class. I think that's sexy in both sexes.
 

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I think (some) men will put up with a lot of bullshit (bad attitudes etc) to have a really hot piece of ass/eye candy. Unless she sucks in bed?

My boyfriend said he had a ridiculously hot girlfriend. Total model material or she always said she was anyway. Total bitch! Rude. Abrasive. Sense of entitlement. Men always did what she demanded of them. He put up with her at first because she was hot. He got tired of her REAL quick. He broke up with her and she said: Men do NOT break up with me. You WILL be back. He wasn't. Lol!

So anyway. He hated to admit it - but men do sometimes make illogical decisions when they think with their dicks!

Personally, I think that a confident woman doesn't need to be mean or belittle others to make themselves look or feel superior. Having respect for yourself and others exudes class. I think that's sexy in both sexes.

I think this might be the case, I have dealt with many bitchy hot women just to fuck them. We know she's no good, but if she is hot, then men will put up with their shit to a certain point. After a while it just becomes not worth it and she gets kicked to the curb. Only suckers try to be anything serious with a "mean girl" type.
 

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Another problem with mean girls is eventually your friends don't want to have her around, and it follows that they won't want you around if it means having her there, too.
 

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I have to point out that my mean girl wasn't mean to everyone, even though I thought she was a crazy mean bitch to me for an entire year and I didn't know why because I never spoke to her or did anything to her. She was mean to me because she thought I deserved it, and I finally found out why at the end of the year when she finally said something crazy to me that made all the pieces of the puzzle fall into place (which is why I'm certain that she'll make a terrible judge), but she didn't think everyone deserved being mean to. I've known very few people whom I think were mean to everyone. I'm sure that the people she was nice to had no idea what it was like to be on her bad side. One person's mean girl is another person's friend.

I'm just saying that pegging someone as a "mean girl" isn't a title that would probably be used by everyone universally. That one person who kept trying to pick on me when I was new here? A lot of people I was friends with went out of their way to explain why they were also friends with her and how great she is to them. My mean girl wasn't their mean girl.
I would be interested to know what she said. My thoughts are she was really jealous of you

FYI I hate mean girls
 

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I hate hate hate mean girls!!!!:mad: This whole trend of girls fighting and finger wagging (oh no you di'int) and all of that crap makes me absolutely sick. I hate the fact that "reality" shows now have to feature at least one nasty girl who wants to fight everybody. Even the trashy housewives of whatever county have to get in FIST fights! Hello!! What the heck has happened to our society. I believe in equality for women but that doesnt mean turn into a bitch and try to fight every girl who looks sideways at you!

There have always been trashy people. Reality TV and the people who make it such a cultural phenomenon simply highlight how numerous they are.
 

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I have to point out that my mean girl wasn't mean to everyone, even though I thought she was a crazy mean bitch to me for an entire year and I didn't know why because I never spoke to her or did anything to her. She was mean to me because she thought I deserved it, and I finally found out why at the end of the year when she finally said something crazy to me that made all the pieces of the puzzle fall into place (which is why I'm certain that she'll make a terrible judge), but she didn't think everyone deserved being mean to. I've known very few people whom I think were mean to everyone. I'm sure that the people she was nice to had no idea what it was like to be on her bad side. One person's mean girl is another person's friend.

I'm just saying that pegging someone as a "mean girl" isn't a title that would probably be used by everyone universally. That one person who kept trying to pick on me when I was new here? A lot of people I was friends with went out of their way to explain why they were also friends with her and how great she is to them. My mean girl wasn't their mean girl.

I agree Petite, and get what you are saying.

This is probably true in 99% of the cases. The other 1% would be considered total bullies. But most of the time, the girls believe they have a right to make fun of, belittle, or simply harass "the new girl", "the different girl", etc. and it would be rare that others (besides her very closest of friends... who join her) would see this person as a "mean girl".

And I absolutely agree with LisaMarie's last statement about a confident woman.
 
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People are usually more stung and galled by reproachful words than hostile actions, and they bear an affront with less patience than an injury in most cases. To me those folks who have a need to use virulent and contumelious words towards others shows an expression of needless hatred, and is usually caused by an excess of rancour on their part.

Such men and women alike I have no patience whatsoever for nor will I tolerate their presence in my social circle or life, and I will make that abundantly clear should the need arise as it has in the past on a few occasions. Speaking for myself, I don`t give a damn how attractive a woman is physically, if I cannot stand her attitude or character I will not sleep with her under any circumstances.

People like that need to be put into their place, and sometimes the best way to do that is to give them a taste of their own medicine, and I can think of no better way to do so than by pointing out what a horrible human being they are in the most vivid and eloquent language possible.

I admit to taking particular delight in doing such when the occasion has arisen, tis nice to burst someone`s bubble especially once it has consumed their whole being. So to see them deflated and defeated with not a word to say in their defence is a most satisfying feeling indeed, well it is to me in any case.
 
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I agree Petite, and get what you are saying.

This is probably true in 99% of the cases. The other 1% would be considered total bullies. But most of the time, the girls believe they have a right to make fun of, belittle, or simply harass "the new girl", "the different girl", etc. and it would be rare that others (besides her very closest of friends... who join her) would see this person as a "mean girl".

And I absolutely agree with LisaMarie's last statement about a confident woman.

I think blaming her behavior towards me because I was new probably wouldn't be accurate. I don't think she would have been any different towards me if I wasn't new. She decided that she didn't like me and she wasn't afraid of being aggressive in showing that to me. That's just her personality, which I also think makes her a mean girl, but not a mean girl to everyone, just the people she doesn't like, which is the case with everyone. She's just more comfortable being meaner than most people would be. I wouldn't be surprised in the least if she popped up right now and wrote essays after each one of my posts ripping them apart and showing how she's concluded all kinds of insulting things about me by reading between the lines, which was her favorite thing to do.
 

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I never liked mean girls, but I admit that I was never too bothered by them. I ignored them. I pretty much ignored them. They aren't so mean if you don't care what they think, don't want their attention and have no use for their approval.
 

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Yes, that girl figured out very early that becoming a part of the system placed her above the rules and she liked it that way. I knew back then that she probably would succeed at becoming a judge, which is scarier to me now. I was young and naive at the time and didn't realize that bad judges aren't just a trope in the movies.

You just used the word trope.. hawt. :O

I don't like mean girls, personality goes a looooong way for me in terms of attraction.