Meeting Men Who've Fucked Your Wife Before You Met

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I'm curious as to if other men who remarry to a woman who's divorced and has adult kids have ever been introduced to men who use to fuck her before you met her, possibly by her own kids? My wife's 20 year old daughter took me over to her mom's ex husband's vending truck so she could introduce us, and once while having a beer after work at the local hangout, I met a guy at the bar who was one of her exes who she'd lived with. Awkward.
 

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I met a guy that used to date my girl....we all did the same personal growth seminar. He tried to talk me up but I had no interest when he started to ask questions about her...sort of wanting to compare notes. I just made a pleasant good bye and didn't talk to him again.
 

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In a past relationship I met the guy who my gf cheated on me with.
This same guy hooked up with another gf after we had split up.
In the first incident it wasn't his fault as she didn't tell him we were in a relationship. The second? Fair game because I had split with her.
It seems he likes my taste in women.
 

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It used to bother me but as I've gotten older I've learned to put it in another perspective and use it as a turn on instead of a jealousy hangup. The difference was liberating. The sex was better than it had been, she was happier because of the hot sex and I looked like a better guy secure in our relationship for not being a jealous dick. Win, win
 

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I was in a relationship with a woman for a few months, then found out that she had cheated on me with one of her old boyfriends. Lots of anger, lots of discussion about the status of our relationship followed. A few months later we came to an understanding that we would become friends with benefits, which made her happy as she found it very difficult to be monogamous. She ended up hooking up with another old boyfriend, and I actually met him multiple times. It seemed awkward at first, but I think she told him that she wasn't monogamous, so I think he had the same attitude as me, cool, as long as he was getting laid too!

She was sexually liberated and liked to sleep with guys she liked, usually right after meeting them. She told me sex on a 1st date was quite common for her. Our own sexual attraction was so strong, I was okay with being just one of her partners. There were numerous periods of time where she wasn't seeing anyone else, so our sex life was robust, despite not actually "dating' each other. When things got semi-serious with another guy, we would (usually, but not always) take a break from fucking each other, but I was definitely her "go to" guy when she wanted to get laid (which was quite often). Over the years of our on-again, off-again FWB relationship, I did meet a few of her other guys, but had no idea if they knew that she and I were sexually active.
 

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I was in a relationship with a woman for a few months, then found out that she had cheated on me with one of her old boyfriends. Lots of anger, lots of discussion about the status of our relationship followed. A few months later we came to an understanding that we would become friends with benefits, which made her happy as she found it very difficult to be monogamous. She ended up hooking up with another old boyfriend, and I actually met him multiple times. It seemed awkward at first, but I think she told him that she wasn't monogamous, so I think he had the same attitude as me, cool, as long as he was getting laid too!

She was sexually liberated and liked to sleep with guys she liked, usually right after meeting them. She told me sex on a 1st date was quite common for her. Our own sexual attraction was so strong, I was okay with being just one of her partners. There were numerous periods of time where she wasn't seeing anyone else, so our sex life was robust, despite not actually "dating' each other. When things got semi-serious with another guy, we would (usually, but not always) take a break from fucking each other, but I was definitely her "go to" guy when she wanted to get laid (which was quite often). Over the years of our on-again, off-again FWB relationship, I did meet a few of her other guys, but had no idea if they knew that she and I were sexually active
I was in a relationship with a woman for a few months, then found out that she had cheated on me with one of her old boyfriends. Lots of anger, lots of discussion about the status of our relationship followed. A few months later we came to an understanding that we would become friends with benefits, which made her happy as she found it very difficult to be monogamous. She ended up hooking up with another old boyfriend, and I actually met him multiple times. It seemed awkward at first, but I think she told him that she wasn't monogamous, so I think he had the same attitude as me, cool, as long as he was getting laid too!

She was sexually liberated and liked to sleep with guys she liked, usually right after meeting them. She told me sex on a 1st date was quite common for her. Our own sexual attraction was so strong, I was okay with being just one of her partners. There were numerous periods of time where she wasn't seeing anyone else, so our sex life was robust, despite not actually "dating' each other. When things got semi-serious with another guy, we would (usually, but not always) take a break from fucking each other, but I was definitely her "go to" guy when she wanted to get laid (which was quite often). Over the years of our on-again, off-again FWB relationship, I did meet a few of her other guys, but had no idea if they knew that she and I were sexually active.
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I was in a relationship with a woman for a few months, then found out that she had cheated on me with one of her old boyfriends. Lots of anger, lots of discussion about the status of our relationship followed. A few months later we came to an understanding that we would become friends with benefits, which made her happy as she found it very difficult to be monogamous. She ended up hooking up with another old boyfriend, and I actually met him multiple times. It seemed awkward at first, but I think she told him that she wasn't monogamous, so I think he had the same attitude as me, cool, as long as he was getting laid too!

She was sexually liberated and liked to sleep with guys she liked, usually right after meeting them. She told me sex on a 1st date was quite common for her. Our own sexual attraction was so strong, I was okay with being just one of her partners. There were numerous periods of time where she wasn't seeing anyone else, so our sex life was robust, despite not actually "dating' each other. When things got semi-serious with another guy, we would (usually, but not always) take a break from fucking each other, but I was definitely her "go to" guy when she wanted to get laid (which was quite often). Over the years of our on-again, off-again FWB relationship, I did meet a few of her other guys, but had no idea if they knew that she and I were sexually active.
I was in a relationship with a woman for a few months, then found out that she had cheated on me with one of her old boyfriends. Lots of anger, lots of discussion about the status of our relationship followed. A few months later we came to an understanding that we would become friends with benefits, which made her happy as she found it very difficult to be monogamous. She ended up hooking up with another old boyfriend, and I actually met him multiple times. It seemed awkward at first, but I think she told him that she wasn't monogamous, so I think he had the same attitude as me, cool, as long as he was getting laid too!

She was sexually liberated and liked to sleep with guys she liked, usually right after meeting them. She told me sex on a 1st date was quite common for her. Our own sexual attraction was so strong, I was okay with being just one of her partners. There were numerous periods of time where she wasn't seeing anyone else, so our sex life was robust, despite not actually "dating' each other. When things got semi-serious with another guy, we would (usually, but not always) take a break from fucking each other, but I was definitely her "go to" guy when she wanted to get laid (which was quite often). Over the years of our on-again, off-again FWB relationship, I did meet a few of her other guys, but had no idea if they knew that she and I were sexually active.
That's a hot story and I've seriously known women like that.In fact my first ex wife was alot like that. She'd get bored being a wife and get a shitty attitude which she would use to sabotage the relationship, run off for a period of time, varying from two weeks to 5 years once, after which time she came back crying to me with another kid, only after the father was killed in a bike wreck. You gotta love it!
 
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I have met quite a few of my wife’s exes. Without being cocky, I know what I bring to the table. She’s with me now. I learned a lo time ago that you can’t stop someone from cheating on you or falling in love with someone else. I wouldn’t be with someone I thought was still hung up on an ex.
 

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I've met a few guys that my wife dated before she met me, and obviously had sex with before she met me. Yeah it's kind of akward at first, but after talking a little while you get to know them and it's no big deal.

It's probably a little more akward for me, I might not know the guy's size but I do know they were all bigger then me, so yeah THAT sometimes crosses your mind.
 

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The past is the past, who cares. I've met the ex's of girls I've dated while dating them. If I'm dating someone, I trust them, and I'm confident enough in myself to not worry about it.
I used to be like you until I realized my trust was expected but not a given. Even when married I was shown that the only hole being married plugged was the one in the center of the ring.
 

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Uhhhh... I've watched dozens of guys fuck my wife and we all sit around talking, drinking, and having a good time. I've met 2 of the 3 guys she had fucked before me. I never even gave it a second thought.
That's a good attitude and one I'd likely have if I'd been able to get the exes to go along with it.
 

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I've met a few guys that my wife dated before she met me, and obviously had sex with before she met me. Yeah it's kind of akward at first, but after talking a little while you get to know them and it's no big deal.

It's probably a little more akward for me, I might not know the guy's size but I do know they were all bigger then me, so yeah THAT sometimes crosses your mind.
My current lady friend has a very open sexual attitude that I enjoy after the tight lipped exes I've been with. She tells me about all her exes and sexual adventures over the years. My fav is her 2nd ex husband who wss 22 and she was 32. She said he was young but hung like a horse. And they'd fuck anywhere and everywhere. They even made a home porn together back then that she says was way hot. He still has a copy of it and wants it so we can watch it together but the only way he'll give it up is if she agrees to fuck him again. He's shown it to everybody he and they used to know.
 

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Yeah, my wife said there were several guys that video taped her with them and showed them to their roommates and close friends. There was one that she had, the audio sucked the video quality wasn't great, but it was close to 3 hours of what was unmistakably her repeatedly enjoying a very large cock. She said he had shown it to everyone they went to school with. Yeah I felt a little different seeing people who had seen that tape of my wife even though it was a decade later
 

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Yeah, my wife said there were several guys that video taped her with them and showed them to their roommates and close friends. There was one that she had, the audio sucked the video quality wasn't great, but it was close to 3 hours of what was unmistakably her repeatedly enjoying a very large cock. She said he had shown it to everyone they went to school with. Yeah I felt a little different seeing people who had seen that tape of my wife even though it was a decade later
My girlfriend and I (pre Covid) had regularily hooked up with other guys and couples but always as a couple. We will get back into that sexual lifestyle when the world opens up again.
We however refrain from any pics or videos as both of us in the past have suffered unwanted outside exposure because someone had decided to share with others.
We did enjoy a hook up with one of her exes and she took some Polaroid pics. His cock is about twice the size as mine. (not too surprising that he is bigger because mine is very small but he is definitely big by most guys standards).
When we originally got together it was no secret that she had a taste for the larger variety and mine is a tad inadequate for her full satisfaction. We have both engaged in multiplayer sexual activities in previous relationships and right from the start of our relationship that was on the cards.
I had told her that I had absolutely no problem if any of her previous lovers wanted to fuck her as long as I was involved in some capacity (even if I just watched). She contacted her ex and he was definitely up for it . We had planned to occasionally re engage with him but the pandemic has seriously limited our sexual activity let alone involve others. We have sourced out a couple of new players who are willing to hook up with us (including another former BF of hers) but it is all on hold probably at least until the summer.
 

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Yeah, my wife said there were several guys that video taped her with them and showed them to their roommates and close friends. There was one that she had, the audio sucked the video quality wasn't great, but it was close to 3 hours of what was unmistakably her repeatedly enjoying a very large cock. She said he had shown it to everyone they went to school with. Yeah I felt a little different seeing people who had seen that tape of my wife even though it was a decade later
There's still something really hot yet a bit disturbing about that. I told my lady friend I'm not sure whether I'd be more turned by watching her home made porn or bothered by seeing it.
 

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Lol stepdad life...
Ive actually had to spend time with my wife's ex husband. Given the circumstances of how my wife and I ended up together, I think the encounters are a lot more awkward for him than me.
 
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