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Don't know, I actually think the same that it would be weird to meet someone. Also when you talked and shared loads with them, their is a possibility to feel uncomfterable and weird just because of high expectations etc.

I guess I only meet the ones that I know well, that don't hide their private life and let me enter their private life so you know trust comes from both sides.

And you can talk loads with people from here online, but if their is still that little boundry of not completly accepting you in their life, than it would be a no-no to meet. Also... It's still lpsg... Most don't join here to make the best friends and meet people in real life...:rolleyes: Luckily opinions and viewpoints can change.

Yeah I guess that makes sense, I'm just the type of person where I don't really care what the other person thinks as far as accepting/not accepting me for who I am.

If they don't like me for who I am, then that's their loss! :biggrin1:

It's not any more weird to meet someone in a bar or nightclub is it? You have no back story on them, you rarely have meaningful conversation. At least if you meet someone online you can talk extensively first and see if you have enough in common to even meet up. I started out with a strict policy of not meeting anyone from here, and changed my mind when I met my BF. He was super respectful and talked to me like a real person (not a pair of boobs). I actually asked him to meet me for a beer. He said yes and almost 2 years later we're still together and very happy. (But 9Hung you already know all this..)
Anyway, I dont think it's weird, I think it's a sign of the times and it's about time to erase the stigma. Odd how it seems better to say "We met in a bar"..

I agree with Seaside, well said! :smile:
 

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Well, you're in NYC, I'm in NYC... why don't we organize a co-ed mixer at the LPSG NYC clubhouse... Which is to say, who has got the largest space around here and would like to host a non-pressure, things-may-happen-but-they-may-not, it-they-do-not-everyone-has-to-be-involved, respect-boundaries, the-main-part-is-to-see-faces-in-person type thing?

Or we could just have a strict, leave your clothes at the door policy. I hear that works well as an ice-breaker.

I've met a few from LPSG. Wonderful women, every one of them. There is something 'bout the females on this site....damn!
 

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I would like to meet everyone and NO, i don`t have any expectations. Seems that I have already met one member off this site IRL. When he turned on his cam I was like- You and I have met! But he is in an another country now, so I`m waiting for him to come back and have coffee:)
What a small world this is;)

Panda, I'd love to give you a real life squeeze.
 

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Met one nice fella here. We had a nice dinner. He was far more than a big muscle guy. Smart and well mannered and a wonderful sense of humor. It was a nice evening...we just have opposite schedules. But we still chat here too.
 

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Well, you're in NYC, I'm in NYC... why don't we organize a co-ed mixer at the LPSG NYC clubhouse... Which is to say, who has got the largest space around here and would like to host a non-pressure, things-may-happen-but-they-may-not, it-they-do-not-everyone-has-to-be-involved, respect-boundaries, the-main-part-is-to-see-faces-in-person type thing?

Or we could just have a strict, leave your clothes at the door policy. I hear that works well as an ice-breaker.

Yeah, well...if we could get a few of the NYC women to attend, I'm there! But my suspicion is that it will be filled with men...
 

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Yeah, well...if we could get a few of the NYC women to attend, I'm there! But my suspicion is that it will be filled with men...

If it were all guys, would that tarnish the "S" on your chest that stands for: "Super Straight"? I'm sure the ladies are just scared to show up because with an attitude like that they just couldn't keep their hands or eyes off of you! :rolleyes:
 
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Don't know, I actually think the same that it would be weird to meet someone. Also when you talked and shared loads with them, their is a possibility to feel uncomfterable and weird just because of high expectations etc.

That is a good point and I absolutely made sure not to do any of that. We didnt get all hot and heavy on our web cams and do a lot of dirty talk exactly for that reason. I never wanted to set up unrealistic expectations about things we wanted to do to each other and then meet in person and go "oh.. ooops nevermind". I think it's important when you meet someone online not to have wild expectations and idealize that person. You have to know you're only seeing a glimpse of who they really are. That's why you meet. After that it's not an "online relationship" You're just two regular people.
 
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I have not met anybody from here, but there are many boobilicious women here so I'm very open to doing so lol... I cannot see any members here that live in my country, but the USA is not too far away (by plane).
 
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I have not met anybody from here, but there are many boobilicious women here so I'm very open to doing so lol... I cannot see any members here that live in my country, but the USA is not too far away (by plane).

Hmmm, and looking in all the "LPSG members from the UK" threads have brought you nothing...???
 

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Met 1 member here for coffee. She was very nice and I would go farther. ( FWB ) not sure she is looking for that. We still communicate from time to time. Our schedules have some conflicts.
 
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I've been offered but declined because wife is not open to that yet. Issuer I'd have a good time & great sex

Like the pic of your wife with the strapon... Does she use it on you and what are her thoughts about if you dont mind... Jealous here!
 

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If it were all guys, would that tarnish the "S" on your chest that stands for: "Super Straight"? I'm sure the ladies are just scared to show up because with an attitude like that they just couldn't keep their hands or eyes off of you! :rolleyes:

Wow. I didn't think I said anything to offend anyone. My reference was to my belief that there would not be a lot of LPSG women there. And since he was responding to my post about the incredible women on LPSG, I was under the impression that it was women who were the target of his post. I'm not sure it would be an event that would draw them. Seems a little like standing around with shotguns and trying to entice fish into a barrel, no? I could be wrong. And I can assure you that countless number of women have been able to keep their hands off me.

But...jeez. I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone.

And what does "Super Straight" mean, actually?
 
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Wow. I didn't think I said anything to offend anyone. My reference was to my belief that there would not be a lot of LPSG women there. And since he was responding to my post about the incredible women on LPSG, I was under the impression that it was women who were the target of his post. I'm not sure it would be an event that would draw them. Seems a little like standing around with shotguns and trying to entice fish into a barrel, no? I could be wrong. And I can assure you that countless number of women have been able to keep their hands off me.

But...jeez. I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone.

And what does "Super Straight" mean, actually?

Ok fair enough, I rescind what I said initially.

It just sounded to me like you wanted the meet and greet to be you and one guy friend talking to 50+ women from LPSG (i.e. that if a lot of guys were there instead of girls then it would be weird).

"Super straight" is something I came up with myself, meaning guys who really go out of their way to "prove" that they are straight all the time. For example, the guy that can't stop talking about how hot every girl is, the one that says "that's gay!" to everything, the guy that keeps bringing up how macho his sex with women is randomly during converations, etc. :tongue:

Sorry if I offended, I misjudged your post's tonality.
 

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Ok fair enough, I rescind what I said initially.

It just sounded to me like you wanted the meet and greet to be you and one guy friend talking to 50+ women from LPSG (i.e. that if a lot of guys were there instead of girls then it would be weird).

"Super straight" is something I came up with myself, meaning guys who really go out of their way to "prove" that they are straight all the time. For example, the guy that can't stop talking about how hot every girl is, the one that says "that's gay!" to everything, the guy that keeps bringing up how macho his sex with women is randomly during converations, etc. :tongue:

Sorry if I offended, I misjudged your post's tonality.

I don't think I in any way or at any time have ever exhibited even a small part of the behaviour you mention. You did offend me, but I get that you didn't understand my post. I don't think you need to apologize, though I might suggest that next time you look at a member's post history before you label him. No harm done.