i have been seeing this guy now for 2 months and we hangout and everything. We always hang out where he lives. I live an hour away, and i don't mind the drive. I always hang out with him. I met his friends and all the people he knows and do all the activities he likes to do. So for once, figuring it was my turn. I asked him to hangout with me at my parents house on Saturday for a BBQ and Fish Fry. I would like for him to go with me and see the way i am around my friends and family. He tells he isn't ready and he wants to take things slow. generally, i am not a patient person, but i like him alot. Should I relax, and go slow and see where it goes. Then when time to meet the folks he will be ready. I want him him to be comfortable. I do like him, but fair is fair. How can i convince him to hang out with at my place and around people i know.