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pichulon said:Stronzo:
I am writting to you, because, I would like your help in avoiding those ridiculous fights in here, and, I hate to be called a homophobic which I am not.
In the topic big lips to sink ships, a guy named spadle stated insulting women , and I just wanted to stop him. You can read the post, ...stuff escalated, the moderator there came on to insult me, and, read it....you will see, fact is,jeff black ( I think you know him, are you friends?) came on to start more problems, I am fed up with his constant jumping in on me at any occassion, acusing me of being homophobic.
Clearly he does not like me ( because we had an argument about nothing back when I came here), and uses any occasion to create trouble.
Well, if you know him, would you please tell him to stop his nonsense?? I came here to talk, and receive, give advise, learn from otheres, not to engage in silly provocated fights.
If you do not know him, I understand.
I am just tired of this homophobic accusations.
later.
pichulon.
Stronzo said:Hello pichulon-
To your board concerns I can only suggest you read more intelligibly those posts written (in this particular instance by the women posters) who, without exception, were able to dispel your theories. The reason you took such heat is that it appeared you were not reading or comprehending what they were saying.
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In the topic big lips to sink ships, a guy named spadle stated insulting women , and I just wanted to stop him.
I haven't read it. But I will after I send this. "Spladle" is someone I don't much know but his take is pretty childish so I wouldn't take him seriously. And I know you don't need to fear for the women on this board. They're entirely independent and can take care of themselves. "mercurialbliss" and I are good frends. One of the things I like best about the place is that the few women among us are strong and their convictions are in place. They can back them up too. You need not feel any inclination to be chivalrous.:wink:
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You can read the post, ...stuff escalated, the moderator there came on to insult me, and, read it....you will see, fact is,jeff black ( I think you know him, are you friends?) came on to start more problems, I am fed up with his constant jumping in on me at any occassion, acusing me of being homophobic.
I don't know jeff black well. I don't know whether you're homophobic or not. That whole business on my "bisexual women and straight men" thread would leave one a bit suspect. But I think you need to listen more carefully to what people have to say rather than continually restating your view. The board works best (again in my experience) if one listens and respects the opinions of more seasoned posters.
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Clearly he does not like me ( because we had an argument about nothing back when I came here), and uses any occasion to create trouble.
My take? Do not worry who "likes you" and often when someone takes a shot at you I've found the easiest thing to do is dismiss it if possible. It difuses that person immediately.
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Well, if you know him, would you please tell him to stop his nonsense?? I came here to talk, and receive, give adivse, learn from otheres, not engage in silly provocated fights.
There will always be "fights" on this board. It's the nature of strong personalities and again I don't know the fellow really. But be glad you're among people of conviction and do your best to broaden your perspective given the input of other posters whose experience in certain matters (me for example since I'm a homosexual male) may be immensely more subjective than your own.
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If you do not know him, I understand.
I am just tired of this homophobic accusations.
Again, I may have had one pm from him in the seven months I've been a member here. So I don't know him. I know the Lex the moderator and I had a very rocky beginning with him when I first came in here. And now he's one of my best friends on this board. We've grown to respect one another immensely.
Give yourself time to find your own footing. You've involved yourself with a bright (albeit largely good) crowd of people.
That's my best advice. I hope I've been able to help.
pichulon said:That is the most objective action any objective person reading and trying to learn the facts of any case can request.
Objectivity is not your best quality. If cases where decided by a bunch of articles written by third parties about the litigants in a case, by gossip, innuendos, and other kinds of hearsay , we would be living in the dark ages.
pichulon said:Objectivity is not your best quality.
pichulon said:You can not respond about the thread in question, and you are bent on getting me engaged in personal confrontations.
faceking said:just don't let it be a Lethal Weapon 9.
that_other_guy said:that made me laugh
Stronzo said:Pichulon to me in private message July 7, 2006
Stronzo to pichulon in reply same day:
Now stop whining and take your medicine.
faceking said:Ah yes... Stronzo getting his regular fill of self-security and bravado on the Et Cetera sub-forum.
business as usual on LPSG.
Lex said:I don't see why Mel should get any more attention than the average drunken bigot (or person).
Stars are just ordinary, flawed, fucked-up people like everyone else. Fuck him.