Men "accidentally" cumming inside you

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So I have been wondering this because it's always strange to me when a new girl I am with says " please dont cum inside me" and then usually will say it more then once. I obviously dont want the repercussions of that anymore then she does. So this raises the question, do guys reguarly "forget" or go for this move? How often did a guy just do it anyway and say it was an accident? I have some female friends who have all hooked up with a guy in common and it's something he does. Apparently he plays it off like he couldn't help it and they believed him. I explained to them how there is no chance it's an accident. Guy know when it's about to start and a normal guy adjusts accordingly.

Thoughts? Experiences?

thanks!
 

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If I told a guy not to come inside me and he did I'd fuck his shit up, most righteously. That little game is circumventing my consent. Also known as a form of sexual assault.

The beating he received would learn him to never pull that shit again.

I've only been with one guy, the boy, and since he's not garbage he's never tried to pull a shit move like that
 
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Not really relevant for me, because I'm not even a tiny bit casual with fluid bonding. Condoms are a thing. The worst that has happened is selfish assholes who ejaculated quickly and didn't make sure I got mine in some fashion.

If I tell someone not to do x thing during sex and they do it anyway, that's a scumbag betrayal of trust and consent.
 
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Condoms or being fluid bonded or NO SEX nips that horseshit in the bud.

If I say NO then it means NO but I have enough self control to pull the
plug on sex if he's not toeing the line with condoms.
Because if I'm saying NO to cumming inside it means that we're not fluid
bonded which means he's new and trust hasn't been established.

Either way it's a bastard act and there'll be a price to pay.
 

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They'll never find the bodies of the guys who did that to me
First - who on earth would do a random guy without protection???

Second - what TG said - him, his family, his relatives and everyone who knew him even vaguely.
 

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Well, back in the pre-HIV era, when pregnancy was the major concern (wow, that seems so long ago), guys would try that move. I would have thought that everyone is smarter now. Condoms are required. Period. No glove, no love. No matter how carried away you get, it’s pretty serious.
 

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I do not have casual sex without a condom.

Once, unbeknownst to me, a playmate removed his condom during a position change. I assume that's what he did. I put a condom on him myself. I knew when it felt different. I asked him to check, and he pulled out and reassured me. It was absolutely dark, and I took him at his word. But he lied. He ejaculated inside me. I had already decided not to see him again. Intercourse was painful, and he seemed unconcerned. Like the pain was normal. It didn't have to be. So I was going to just tell him it was over the next time he asked to see me. But then I smelled the semen as I drove home. So, I called him, and challenged him on the condom. He swore everything was fine, that he wore it, came in it, threw it out. But I got home, and found semen in my panties. I inserted my fingers into myself, and pulled out more.

The rest of the story doesn't matter, other than he tried to stalk me, and failed, and he harrassed me by phone for a while. He also messaged me a year later on a dating site, and asked me for a ride to work. Obviously, he was mentally impaired, and I hadn't caught it until it was too late. Luckily, I didn't catch anything else, either.

I know how to find him, he can't find me unless I want him to. He doesn't know my address nor my name. New men get only a nickname and a partial last name, and a Google voice number. If they turn out to be crazy...

Anyway, that's the only time, really.

Once, when I was very young, maybe 19, with an inexperienced boyfriend, he came a little inside me. He was supposed to pull out. He did, but he immediately confessed that some had come out unexpectedly before he removed himself. I believe it was an accident. He was remorseful. There was a week every month where he was allowed to inseminate me. He only messed up the one time. I was worried, not angry.
 

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Men don't "accidentally" come inside me.

If I ever caught someone trying to get their fluid inside me without my knowledge they better call the fucking cops on ME. I would beat the living fuck out of them, no joke whatsoever.
 

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I agree. This guy is probably the most successful man with women I have ever known. Sex partners in the 600s. He looks kind of like a model that would belong in the category of the guys in the "smut" thread. So i believe these girls give him so many passes for stuff that would never work for anyone else. Also the town I lived in was a college town so we are talking 18 to 23 years olds. I believe it is a power move by sociopath. Kind of along the lines of when men really push for anal when the partner isnt into to. But that would be a post of its own.

But on another note of something mentioned here, unprotected sex is super common, even with just hookups. Young kids drinking a lot dont tend to make the best decisions..m
 

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That's never happened to me before, and it will never happen to me. First, I'm monogamous. Second, see first.
 
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Speaking from experience as a swinger, firstly I use the contraceptive injection, secondly all partners have proof of being tested, thirdly things like cumming inside or whether condoms are to be used are discussed before hand. For me it's more of a principle thing, personally I don't mind but if it's the rule of the party then you damn stick by it or get your ass beat and kicked to the kerb. I've seen guys pull off shit like that and women that wouldn't stop too, it's never happened to me though because I lay down the rules.
Talking in general about hook ups then that guy your speaking of should have his ass beat hunni, what y'all doing where you not abiding by the rules? Damn kids or something? X