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Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_Brittney, Jan 26, 2007.
Would'nt you agree that most guys love it when a woman is Bi-Sexual ?
Certainly, and I can see the double standard those same guys apply to the idea of a man being bisexual. Then it isn't bisexual, it is gay.
Men are turned on when women are sexual with something that they're not threatened by. People are people.
I like my women straight - hey but that is just me
some guys like that but certainly not all. Among the guys who do like it, it is often because of their naive belief that all bisexual women want to have 3 way sex with them.
Myself personally, whatever makes you happy is cool with me..
I have been in a noncommittal relationship with a bi female for some time now. She told me on our first date that I should not try to get her drunk because she was attracted to females when she was drinking. DUH. I think it was just her way of telling me she was bi. Since then we have had a few FMF sexual athletics with a couple different gf's of hers. Amazing is all I can say. It is one thing to see two fm's interacting in a porno but to be there and get to join in is fantastic. Yes there is a double standard with most people. Bi females are hot but bi males are not.
To be honest, it's just not for me. I don't want to knock it (having never tried it), but I know myself and I know that the idea of my girlfriend being inherently aroused by and attracted to a type of person I could never be is something I wouldn't want to be burdened with.
But that's just the way I am.
I may be part of the minority but watching lesbians or something like that doesn't give me anything. I'm cool with it when my gf plays around with other girls but she should not expect me getting horny by watching it.
Maybe in men's eyes, but not for women, sometimes. Bi Male scenes are very highly rated in porn evolving around women's fantasies (I mean women's fantasies and not fantasies men believe to be women's), and there is a turning-on element about that. I think that's is some sort of parallelism, bisexual women being a turn-on for men, and bisexual men being a turn-on for women.
Ii nearly had a 3 some once with an amazing looking woman, but I was young at the time and did not realize at the moment that the girl was trying to pick up other women.
Oh well, next time...
I´d like to be with two women, or more if it´s possible. I know it sounds basic and typical, but it´s one of my fantasies.
But if you ask me if i´d like to have a bs girlfriend, i don´t know it. I´m not sure if i´m willing to see my love kissing and stroking another skin.
I´d like to be with two women but i´m not sure if i´d like that one of them was my girlfriend.
Anyway, i agree with you. Sometiems i hear people saying this: "I can understand homosexuality, but i´ll never understand bisexuality, they are dissolutes". There is a kind of rejection to bisexuality in society. Probably it is caused by fears and insecurities, don´t know. I guess that if you are attracted to one gender, you´ve got some handicaps to have sex, but if you have the possibility of having sex with both genders, seems like you will be all time looking for sex, (our dream, in the other hand). Don´t pay me much attention.
Anyway, i agree with you.
I had an ex who later revealed that she was bi (there's more to the story later, but I'll keep this post short).
Soon after she told me, she says, "Before you ask about it, no, I will not do a three-way with you. I don't share; you can have all of me, or none of me."
Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean that she'll want three-way sex.
Well, Kotchanski, i must recognize you move my brain cells. And i like it. Everytime you or anyone else answer me i learn and grow up. I´ve been thinking about it since yesterday.
My comment was about sexual relations, but you are right, and if i used that words is probably cause i´ve got a sense deep inside. In a concious way i agree with all you said. But i guess that in the deep of my mind i have some kind of prejudice about bisexuality. I´m not proud of it. It´s another thing i´ve gotta change in me (one of many).
I wonder why i have that prejudice. Maybe insecurity. I mean, if i have a relationship with a woman, it´s supposed she loves me and i can feel sure about it, i feel i´m the man she wants, i don´t need to be aware about other man cause i´m all the man she needs (i know i´m being basic, i don´t wanna extend it too much). But i cannot compete with a woman, if she wants any. And the possibility makes me feel unsure.
I suppose that nurture gives me some wrong approaches, aswell.
Claire, do you believe that a lot of women out there are completely turned on by gay or bi men fooling around? One of my friends is completely turned on by gay porn. I asked her why she finds gay porn so appealing and she told me it's the same concept of how some men might find lesbian porn so appealing.
Then on the other hand, I've had women tell me that they see nothing wrong with two women kissing and making out with each other but find it repulsive when men do the same thing.