Phil Ayesho
Superior Member
In the heterosexual spectrum...
Women are prized for their reproductive health and physical beauty. Ergo, Women are seen as most attractive in their child bearing years and they strive to preserve that appearance, and make themselves seem more healthy and genetically ideal thru makeup and hair color.
Men are prized more for their attainments and abilities as providers, ergo women find even older men attractive who seem to carry that sense of self confidence and accomplishment and that have proven themselves to be good and true providers... ( also, men who can show some level of influence and power within their social strata )
Women have their power in a relationship in their youth... most men have to wait until their 40s to get that same sense of being at the peak of their "salablitlity".
Because men are traditionally valued for their character and work ethic more than their appearance, one of the greatest things about being a guy is that all you have to do is try an age 'well' to be seen as even more attractive with some gray and some wrinkles...
So- try not to let yourself go- ( which reflects on character ) Dress decently ( avoid t shirts and shorts every god damn place you go ) and keep up your dentistry and you do not have to bother with all the stupid hair products and dyes and concealers.
Such nonsense makes you look less confident, less manly, and too self centered.
It's one thing to play a role... ordinary skin tones often do not photograph all that well... ans if looking good on camera is your job... that's different...
But its another thing to present yourself that way in real life.
Sean Connery wore a lot of hairpieces in a lot of roles... and makeup to boot... but when he walked off set he left the toupe in the trailer and did not wear makeup.
Any man that LOOKS like he spends as much time on his hair as a girl is going to be seen as vain and superficial.
..Not attractive qualities in a man.
Women are prized for their reproductive health and physical beauty. Ergo, Women are seen as most attractive in their child bearing years and they strive to preserve that appearance, and make themselves seem more healthy and genetically ideal thru makeup and hair color.
Men are prized more for their attainments and abilities as providers, ergo women find even older men attractive who seem to carry that sense of self confidence and accomplishment and that have proven themselves to be good and true providers... ( also, men who can show some level of influence and power within their social strata )
Women have their power in a relationship in their youth... most men have to wait until their 40s to get that same sense of being at the peak of their "salablitlity".
Because men are traditionally valued for their character and work ethic more than their appearance, one of the greatest things about being a guy is that all you have to do is try an age 'well' to be seen as even more attractive with some gray and some wrinkles...
So- try not to let yourself go- ( which reflects on character ) Dress decently ( avoid t shirts and shorts every god damn place you go ) and keep up your dentistry and you do not have to bother with all the stupid hair products and dyes and concealers.
Such nonsense makes you look less confident, less manly, and too self centered.
It's one thing to play a role... ordinary skin tones often do not photograph all that well... ans if looking good on camera is your job... that's different...
But its another thing to present yourself that way in real life.
Sean Connery wore a lot of hairpieces in a lot of roles... and makeup to boot... but when he walked off set he left the toupe in the trailer and did not wear makeup.
Any man that LOOKS like he spends as much time on his hair as a girl is going to be seen as vain and superficial.
..Not attractive qualities in a man.
