Men and porn

[Love-it]

Actually one observation i made (early thankfully) and guys correct me if im wrong but when you guys watch porn you are fantasizing about the actions and not nessecarly the man/woman in the video. Now i realize this i love nothing more than sitting beside my man (when i have one :redface and jacking him off while we're watching porn

Sounds wonderful. My wife has just started to watch soft and some hard porn as a prelude to sex and even during sex, we both look for women who are enjoying penetration as that has been an issue with her and my girth. It has enhanced our sex play.

 

[JMeister]

Love-it,

Find I Can't Believe I Took the Whole Thing 5 and watch the scene with Dana Vespoli. I think you and your wife will enjoy watching her taking Shane Diesel's cock up her ass.

It's one of the hottest scene's I have ever seen.

 

[Now]

I don't think I would like that my man watched porne alone. If he was to jerk off himself, I want him to think of me.
But I don't really think he Jerk off ether, becuse we have sex almost every day, and he work a lot and have a kide every other week, so I don't think he have time for that, But if he was to do it, I don't really think i would have a problem whit it. I don't play whit myself, becuse i don't like it, but he must do what he want's i guss, but i would rader have him fucking me.
He is a nice guy, and he whould tell me if he did, we bothe live and work togheter, so I think i would know.

I would'nt mind us watching together, But I don't really like all porne that much becuse there's a lot of old men using young girls, and I don't like that, and it's discusting. But if it's a young (20-30something) nice par kissing and haveing sex, and the guy is sexy, I don't have a problem whit it, but i don't want my man to watch it alone.

 

[dolfette]

I don't think I would like that my man watched porne alone. If he was to jerk off himself, I want him to think of me.
But I don't really think he Jerk off ether, becuse we have sex almost every day, and he work a lot and have a kide every other week, so I don't think he have time for that, But if he was to do it, I don't really think i would have a problem whit it. I don't play whit myself, becuse i don't like it, but he must do what he want's i guss, but i would rader have him fucking me.
He is a nice guy, and he whould tell me if he did, we bothe live and work togheter, so I think i would know.

are you for real?

 

[Mackleanen Beebarf]

I like watching porn with my wife, but the couple of times we've tried, she get into it at all. She never came out and said it, but I think she's insecure about me seeing the women and comparing (not that she has anything at all to worry about).

 

[Mackleanen Beebarf]

Actually one observation i made (early thankfully) and guys correct me if im wrong but when you guys watch porn you are fantasizing about the actions and not nessecarly the man/woman in the video.

I wouldn't even call it fantasizing. It's just straight up voyeurism & entertainment to me.

 

[Belly_Dancer]

Artfulwilly and I often watch porn together (probably a couple of times a week) -- usually videos from kink.com's Sex and Submission (just in case anyone still doesn't know, we're into BDSM) . However, I'd say we have at least two sexual encounters daily (usually more), so porn is obviously not the mainstay of our relationship.

Regardless, porn is a very nice addition to our play. We watched porn individually before we met, and it is very liberating for us to be able to share it, and not hide anything from one another. He likes to pause the videos between segments and mess with me -- sometimes making me suck his cock, and sometimes torturing or teasing me. Sometimes he'll check the length of an upcoming segment (i.e. 9 minutes), and then tell me I'll be wearing a certain kind of nipple clamps, etc. for that amount of time. He's also held a vibrator directly on, over, or near my clit while we watch, to overstimulate, stimulate, or understimulate me...whichever he decides to do at any given time.

I have also been been bound and gagged while receiving these treatments, so I can't make any comments or complaints (or close my legs when the vibrator is too much).

All of these experiences make both of us incredibly hot.

Amazingly, we have yet for me to sit on his cock while we watch porn (even though it was the first thing we talked about doing while watching clips, way back when we had an on-line relationship). But I'm sure we'll get around to that sooner or later...okay, probably sooner. :wink:

 

[Now]

are you for real?

Yes, did I say ore spell something wrong, ore what's the deal?

 

[dolfette]

Yes, did I say ore spell something wrong, ore what's the deal?

your english is ok. i could understand it fine.

i just think that it's naive to imagine a man won't masturbate if he's getting sex.

he might not...it just seems unlikely.

 

[Now]

your english is ok. i could understand it fine.

i just think that it's naive to imagine a man won't masturbate if he's getting sex.

he might not...it just seems unlikely.

well I'm a young girl so I'm maby naive,
But he's a nice family type of guy, so i really don't think he's innto it.
only 99,9% of men do it you know.
I'm sure he did it when he was younger and stuff, But not now.

Is'nt the point of masterbation to stimulate sex? whay do the hand, if you can get the real thing?

 

[dolfette]

well I'm a young girl so I'm maby naive,
But he's a nice family type of guy, so i really don't think he's innto it.
only 99,9% of men do it you know.
I'm sure he did it when he was younger and stuff, But not now.

Is'nt the point of masterbation to stimulate sex? whay do the hand, if you can get the real thing?

no, that's not the sole purpose of masturbation.

it doesn't stop a man being a nice family guy because he enjoys it.

sometimes they do it to relieve tension, sometimes because they're bored, maybe he goes to work and thinks about you and needs to release that in the rest room, sometimes just because it feels nice.

it doesn't mean that a man doesn't love or respect his wife.

 

[Love-it]

it doesn't mean that a man doesn't love or respect his wife.

And when a woman masturbates it doesn't mean that she doesn't love or respect her husband.

 

[JMeister]

I'm with Now on this one. If I am getting enough good sex at home there's no interest in whacking off. I'd much rather splooge a girl's hot ass, mouth, or pussy or between her tits.

 

[dolfette]

And when a woman masturbates it doesn't mean that she doesn't love or respect her husband.

i doubt i'd stop, no matter who i was with or how much i was getting.

it's a different sort of satisfaction.

 

[Yorkie]

only 99,9% of men do it you know.

So what are the chances of your guy being in the 0.1% ?
Sometimes erections just have to be taken care of,they can get uncomfortable and guys have to masturbate.It doesen't mean he's not a nice guy or that you're not satisfying him.
You're missing out too.When you say you don't like to masturbate I get the impression it's a mental attitude you need to get over.Relax and have another try!

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

But I don't really think he Jerk off ether, becuse we have sex almost every day, and he work a lot and have a kide every other week, so I don't think he have time for that, But if he was to do it, I don't really think i would have a problem whit it. I don't play whit myself, becuse i don't like it, but he must do what he want's i guss, but i would rader have him fucking me.

Not only do you not know but if he does but your not watching him
WOW..girl you are missing out on some good stuff. There is nothing better then watching your man jack off, and yes, that does sometimes include skipping the sex to see him fly solo

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

When a woman wants to jerk me off I feel cheated. I can do that plenty well myself, so if I am with a lady I want to do something else.

Wow..you and i would not get along at all. I love the feel of my mans cock in my hand and being able to lick his cum off my fingers

 

[dolfette]

. There is nothing better then watching your man jack off,

it's pretty hot.

and it improves your sex life if you watch how he touches himself and learn a few moves.

 

[wldhoney]

I love watching a man stroke himself while he forces me to watch. Men are so sexy and I love their bodies. Watching the different ways he touches himself. You may actually be surprised at the angles he uses, how rough he might be, and then you can use them on him yourself another time. And I am all for erotica and porn.....sometimes I put it in while cleaning house!

 

[Belly_Dancer]

and it improves your sex life if you watch how he touches himself and learn a few moves.

Amen to that! No woman in a relationship should go without seeing how her man likes to stimulate himself.