Wow..you and i would not get along at all. I love the feel of my mans cock in my hand and being able to lick his cum off my fingers
You are encouraged to play with my cock with your hands and lick the cum off your fingers by inserting them into your pussy or scooping it off your chin if you dribble it out the corner of your mouth, but if you just have to see my cock spurt, the only way that works for me is if it's between your tits.
Basic hand jobs do little for me.