Men and Strap-ons

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  1. D_Elijah_MorganWood

    D_Elijah_MorganWood New Member

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    Maybe it's the company I keep...I'm hearing women telling me about straight men who want to be fucked with strap-ons. Apparently (according to them) it's common now. My sample size includes women from several states. This threw me for a loop. Have you ladies encountered this?

    strap-ons...not just for lesbians anymore!
     
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    I am 100% straight, but do enjoy some anal play. So far I've only had fingers inserted, but I am working on moving up to a strap on.
     
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    not me sorce.....didnt u used to be a gold member?
     
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    I had an ex who wanted to do this to me, she always had her finger up there and talked about 'breaking me in properly' in other words, with a strap on. I wasn't so keen on the idea, I probably would have let her have her way with me in the end but we split up so it wasn't an issue.

    Whilst we're on the subject, any ladies who've tried this, does it do a lot for you? I've heard the motion can stimulate the woman, was just wondering if this was true?
     
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    By some accounts it's more common than you think. If you go to one of the escort sites like eros-guide or cityvibe you can find "providers" who even "specialize" in this kind of service, as well as "dakinis" who provide tantric "sacred spot" massage.

    Once in the early 80's I went in for a multi-phasic physical, the nurse was a good-looking babe maybe in her mid-30s. I stripped, put on the gown, laid on my side while she greased up and went to check my prostate and when she got there YOWZA! I erupted across the room, a spontaneous, uncontrollable ejaculation. I almost passed out, it was so intense. As I lay there dazed she handed me some tissue paper, gave me the nastiest smile, and said as she left the room, "You can clean up and get dressed...when you're able to."

    Yes, my co-payment covered the service.
     
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    I think this is increasingly common, as more guys are hearing about the idea and, feeling more comfortable with their own sexuality, thinking that they'd actually quite like it!

    Some guys, of course, are still to masculine and uptight to even think that they might like something in their ass - that's only for fags! - but as more and more are relaxed about these things, and the quality of the toys improves (feeldoes... mmmmm) the whole idea of role reversal is spreading.

    I for one love it, and so does my bf. He likes the physical pleasure and chance to see me in a different role. Yes, the motion can feel great for me too, especially with a feeldoe, which instead of a strap is simply held in place by inserting one curved end into your vagina. Otherwise most pleasure is derived from the domination aspect and knowing that I'm pleasing him. I like the new role, the chance to 'return the favour' if you like lol, to know how he feels when he's fucking me, and the look on his face when I get into my rhythm is something else - again, I guess I now know how he feels looking at me!

    If you hadn't already guessed, I heartily recommend it!!
     
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    Yes, I've already initiated two straight males
    with a strap on.

    The prostate is the male g-spot, so massaging
    it with whatever you decide to use increases
    the orgasm for the male exponentially.

    Lots of fun and everyone goes home happy!:wink:
     
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    Well, I have to say that my wife and I have done this. It started one night when she was just simulating it happening and we got to talking and she suggested I go out and get a strap on. I evenutally did and we used it. I have to to tell you it was hot. I liked the whole aspect of feeling somewhat dominated plus it felt really great. We have only done it the one time though. Think I might have to go get that toy out, hmmmmmm.
     
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    I've used a strap-on, but not for a long time. I never got what I wanted out of it, which was to FEEL what it was like for a guy. I think I like the sound of the "feeldoe", thanks GorgeousJane! I usually just use my fingers for prostate massage, but I would like a more active role.....always something new to try.
     
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    yeah.. I was readin some thread somewhere, that this is the "new trend" for straight men.... getting fucked by a woman with a strap on. I gotta tell ya, I think this is hard to beleive. I know a straight guy, my older brother, who knows I'm gay and we have talked about differences between straight sex and gay sex... and stuff. He would never let himself be fucked. no way. I sure some straight guys must be doing this somewhere, but I doubt its very many.
     
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    Now how's this for a twist...

    I know a gay guy (very gay - we're talking broadway performer gay) who gets off watching straight strap-on porn.
     
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    He's watching a straight guy get fucked, even if it is from a woman.
     
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    Nope.
     
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    I totally get it... It's a fetish just like any other. I just thought it was interesting and somewhat related to the topic.
     
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    Not all men are so homophobic that the
    will not entertain the idea of anal sex.

    As one guy said...he is secure enough in
    his masculinity that he is willing to explore
    new things.
     
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    See, that's what I always thought. I mean, how can it be gay unless someone of the same sex is doing it?

    So I guess it's official: the male ass is now on the menu for straight people.
     
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    The idea of it doesn't appeal so much to me. Sure, the dominance aspect and the fact that I assert some power over the man (sisters, isn't that a great feeling at all?) can get my juices flowing, and a sexy butt is always a hot sight for me, but fucking one with a strapon? No. I can't get anything sexy out of that.

    Inserting fingers in there is enough for me, I'm more a groper anyways. For me it's enough if I get to grip a hot male butt, squeeze it, finger it some, rub THAT SPOT of his. No fucking needed for me.
     
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    I'd say give it a shot.. was watching latenight TV with her, she saw it and I shrugged it off all manly saying "Yeah right, I'm not gay, wouldnt enjoy that". Yet she persisted, I let her try some pressure down there and it was quite the experience. Don't even have to try the strap-on, I think that is abit much for most guys (myself included). But the idea of her getitng to penetrate you is a HUGE turnon for some girls.
     
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    I've seen the feeldoe and thought it might be fun since my wife has started using her fingers in my ass. I don't know if she would want to try a strap on unless it gave her some pleasure. I was concerned that the curved end would really keep it in place though. I would be a lot tighter than her, since my rear entry is not used to this sort of thing. It is good to hear it worked for you. Maybe I'll go pick one up today!
     
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    oh yea i am hearing more and more women say they want to try it and have done it.

    but is it a common thing really? i don't know..even the guys who are most "secure with their sexuality" will not say they did it or liked it to a group of guys..and even a women would say she did do it to a group to seem like she did the impossible when she may if fact did not. the verdict still isn't settled

    but in terms of fingers..a girl once did it to me by surprise besides the sudden reaction i had i have no idea what to say on if it felt good or not i think i have to voluntarily try it in a more relaxed occasion