I spent a lot of years on another comparison site where men and women could show off what they have and other people could rate them. One difference between here and there was that that place had live chatting. I would also say that the ratio of women was much higher. The men dominated the women in terms of numbers but there were many more women to chat with and I learned a LOT in my time there. Much of what I learned was from the perspective of women who would relate to me their experiences. I thought I would pass on what I learned.
When a guy would private message a woman, a vast majority would immediately hit the woman with an unsolicited (and generally unwanted) dick pic. There was no lead in. Like a kid in a candy store they just had to show their dick right off the bat. Then the inevitable question was, is this enough? Enough for what?
When the guys asked if their dick was "enough" it IMMEDIATELY revealed their insecurities. I'd also say that it was somewhat insulting to the woman. In many cases the men were average to large so the implication was that the woman needed an average or large cock to satisfy them. Is it because they have extra large pussy's? What the men really wanted was a compliment but when you go fishing for a compliment that obviously you're either going to get a fake compliment or turn the woman off even more because now you look insecure and needy.
Men often told the woman what their dicks were capable of and this generally included pain and/or damage to a woman. I would joke with some of the female members that these guys would be like, "I hope you have insurance BECAUSE MY DICK IS GOING TO HOSPITALIZE YOU" The number of women looking for painful sex has to be vanishingly small. I know y'all have seen women loving huge dicks in porn even as they appeared to be in serious pain but that ain't reality folks.
From my experience, the best thing to do when talking to a woman online in a place like this is never brag about your dick. In many cases, the women I talked to never once brought up my dick size and sometimes never even looked at my pics. I found many of these women the most engaging but I totally get it if some guys aren't into just a conversation. I totally get that but if you really must talk about your dick size, ease into it later on.
Women are certainly not innocent in all this. They can be absolutely just as needy (and sometimes more so) than men and it all depends on what you want. If you just have a burning desire to show your dick ASAP and don't give a damn if it turns off the woman then go for it. If you want to find someone you can chat with long term than restrain yourself. I'm sure there are legit women that crave a huge dick and if you find one I'm sure you'll get the feedback you're looking for. However, one of the things I've learned is that women craving huge dicks are often men posing as women. Just a heads up.
When a guy would private message a woman, a vast majority would immediately hit the woman with an unsolicited (and generally unwanted) dick pic. There was no lead in. Like a kid in a candy store they just had to show their dick right off the bat. Then the inevitable question was, is this enough? Enough for what?
When the guys asked if their dick was "enough" it IMMEDIATELY revealed their insecurities. I'd also say that it was somewhat insulting to the woman. In many cases the men were average to large so the implication was that the woman needed an average or large cock to satisfy them. Is it because they have extra large pussy's? What the men really wanted was a compliment but when you go fishing for a compliment that obviously you're either going to get a fake compliment or turn the woman off even more because now you look insecure and needy.
Men often told the woman what their dicks were capable of and this generally included pain and/or damage to a woman. I would joke with some of the female members that these guys would be like, "I hope you have insurance BECAUSE MY DICK IS GOING TO HOSPITALIZE YOU" The number of women looking for painful sex has to be vanishingly small. I know y'all have seen women loving huge dicks in porn even as they appeared to be in serious pain but that ain't reality folks.
From my experience, the best thing to do when talking to a woman online in a place like this is never brag about your dick. In many cases, the women I talked to never once brought up my dick size and sometimes never even looked at my pics. I found many of these women the most engaging but I totally get it if some guys aren't into just a conversation. I totally get that but if you really must talk about your dick size, ease into it later on.
Women are certainly not innocent in all this. They can be absolutely just as needy (and sometimes more so) than men and it all depends on what you want. If you just have a burning desire to show your dick ASAP and don't give a damn if it turns off the woman then go for it. If you want to find someone you can chat with long term than restrain yourself. I'm sure there are legit women that crave a huge dick and if you find one I'm sure you'll get the feedback you're looking for. However, one of the things I've learned is that women craving huge dicks are often men posing as women. Just a heads up.
