men ask questions but women dont. why?

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  1. yongdo

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    why don't women ask all the probing questions about her lover's past relationships that men generally seem to be curious about?

    (I'm an artist and so human nature interests me. This is why I ask.)
     
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    cause men are all the same duh!
     
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    Why do women ask for directions but men don't? We're just wired differently.
     
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    cuz women don't want to be asked back. it's a fair question, but it doesn't really matter in the long run.

    -j
     
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    I like to know. Gives me insight into how a person deals with situations and what type of characted they are. That also may be the female Virgo in me, we like to take note and know EVERYTHING.
     
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    Social stigma. A "proper" lady shouldn't ask such questions. Some women act like they think it's bad to be interested in sex, even if they're having it with you. It's absurd what cultural brain washing does. Women are supposed to be sexual objects, but at the same time refrain from appearing interested in, or even ashamed of, having sex. I don't understand the logic there... I think big business and big religion tried to compromise.

    Guys have a two fold reason for asking. We're territorial and want to know where we stand in line and then we're hoping they ask back so we can lie about how much of a stud we are.
     
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    We're jealous creatures.
    I don't want to know who else you've been with.
    I don't want to know what stuff you've done with other women..
    I don't even want to hear you mention any past women!
    If I'm interested in someone, I don't want to know that they still have other women on their mind.
     
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    Yeah weird, I think everyone has their own reasons, but I agree that women get labelled a slut or similar if they show how interested they are in sex.

    When I have asked a few guys they say they find it 'rude' and/or 'inappropriate'. (LOL Get over yourself).

    Asking/Lying is just a big game really, I mean, don't lie, but be diplomatic and I think the person would respect your honesty more and it hold greater weight with them.

    *Hums Lilly Allens song 'The Fear' in her head*
     
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    I've had multiple women ask me, so I don't know why you'd assume that only men ask such things.
     
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