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Not to worry. Everyone's nervous the first time. Most guys will want to reciprocate if you blow them. There really isn't much to worry about. I liken all the fears of hat pins and psychos to Halloween candy. Everyone hears about twisted things happening yet they never experience it themselves. Use the holes in book stores since they're attended, have cameras, and other people are around. It's pretty easy. Everyone in there is looking to suck or get sucked so don't think you'll be the only guy who wants to do it either.

Go to Squirt! and check out the places near you. There are reviews, sometimes pictures, and you'll get an idea if the place is cool for you or not. Then go and read this post and this FAQ about what the etiquette is and what to do when you get there.

The point is to enjoy yourself and get off with other guys. It's pretty basic.

Thank you very much for all the info and the site link. I didn't know there were any places like that in my small town, but apparently there are seven! I'll have to check 'em out. Thanks for helping a horny young guy get some sort of 'action' :p
 

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Thank you very much for all the info and the site link. I didn't know there were any places like that in my small town, but apparently there are seven! I'll have to check 'em out. Thanks for helping a horny young guy get some sort of 'action' :p

Sniffle...sniffle... You're very welcome... sniffle... Nothing so warms my heart as guiding the new generation into a life of gay debauchery :biggrin1:.
 

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Sniffle...sniffle... You're very welcome... sniffle... Nothing so warms my heart as guiding the new generation into a life of gay debauchery :biggrin1:.

Hehe, well, it didn't quite work out. The spots in my town are all dead apparently, so I'm going to have to go less local. :( Anyone reading this thread in Northern-Mid Arizona and would like to try and find one of those places that actually are active? :p
 

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now, i wouldn't mind meeting a guy at a glory hole and taking him home. but sticking my dick through a hole and taking whatever's there is simply gross.
 

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Well, yeah, but then, that kinda defeats the purpose of the glory hole, right?:biggrin1:

Seeing that hunky guy, and watching his expression as I hit his tonsils (or where they used to be) is more exciting than the thought of fucking a hole in the wall.

Really, I do understand the concept; it's just that the very thing that makes it attractive to some guys is the very thing that makes is so unattractive to me. Maybe I just have trust issues or something. I mean, YUCK! What if it turned out to be Ted Haggard on the other side? Or Beverly LaHaye? Or Nicole Richie? <hurl>

DC, is there anything crazier than that tearoom scene at Union Station? It was so bad, you couldn't take a piss without getting cruised. Try taking a #2, and you'd find all the stalls occupied..and staying occupied! Didn't they have to shut down one of the Union Station men's rooms to stop the action?

There's also something up with L'Enfant Plaza, Crystal City, Shops National Place and a few other places. I know, because I've complained about all of the above-mentioned sites and called the cops on all of them, more than once.

If there's a tearoom scene, nobody, but the players, should have to deal with it or even know about it. It should never impede or interfere with use of the bathroom for the primary intended purpose: pissing or having a crap. If the players don't want to be hassled, confronted or threatened, the players should respect us non-players enough to stay out of our way.

I especially hate the guys, who mess around at the urinal in plain view of some innocent kid, who just walked in off the street. I saw something like this at Union Station once, and the guys involved were actually getting off on the kid watching them; one even winked at him. I chased the scumbags out myself. Not being anti-gay here, but leave the kids alone!

When I worked at [blank], there was tearoom action all around--a gloryhole in every stall and one facing the urinals. I ignored the whole thing, took care of business and went about my way.

I've even jacked off with 2 gloryholes on opposite sides of my stall. Thought about leaving, but decided I came to beat off, so I plugged up the holes with paper and beat off! Did what I came to and rolled out! Beating off is relief like pissing or etc, and the gloryholes shouldn't interfere with that. In fact, I jacked off in a men's room stall every day, after work, and never had a problem. Yeah--it's illegal, but what're you going to do?

Something's in you, it's got to come out.

As long as the gloryhole crowd stays out of my way AND respects that a public bathroom is there to be a bathroom, I say let them play. :rolleyes:
 

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If there's a tearoom scene, nobody, but the players, should have to deal with it or even know about it. It should never impede or interfere with use of the bathroom for the primary intended purpose: pissing or having a crap. If the players don't want to be hassled, confronted or threatened, the players should respect us non-players enough to stay out of our way.

I know, because I've complained about all of the above-mentioned sites and called the cops on all of them, more than once.

As long as the gloryhole crowd stays out of my way AND respects that a public bathroom is there to be a bathroom, I say let them play.

I especially hate the guys, who mess around at the urinal in plain view of some innocent kid, who just walked in off the street. I saw something like this at Union Station once, and the guys involved were actually getting off on the kid watching them; one even winked at him. I chased the scumbags out myself. Not being anti-gay here, but leave the kids alone!

Yeah--it's illegal, but what're you going to do?

Something's in you, it's got to come out.


You must be a damn attractive and hung dude because I can hear the frustration in your typing.

I imagine it was fucking hell for you to even get a piss out what with all the men falling all over you.

I can also sympathize you getting pissed when the two guys were fucking in front of the kid...that's just sick and their asses should have gotten jailtime for that.

However, I think that your frustration with the occupying of space in the certain bathrooms got the best of you. I'm not saying that you were wrong for it, but the threat of calling the police works well, if not better than actually calling the police.

Allow me to go into a hypothetical here:

Suppose you threatened to call the police on the men frequenting the bathroom. They'll get freaked out because most likely, they are very closeted and are risking enough by just being there. They'll leave, and because alot of cruising areas have sort of a fraternal effect, they will pass the info along that it's no longer "safe" there and move on. Before long, the bathrooms will be spotless and free of roaming trolls. Trust me, I've seen it happen.

Now suppose you actually call the police on the men frequenting the bathroom. First, regardless to what some say about officers "detesting" this sort of thing and hating to actually stage sting opperations to catch sex offenders...they love it. Undercover stings will be going on at all times, so the cruising won't even stop. There will be more guys acting suspicious around the bathroom. Then there's all of the uniformed officers who will hassle any guy, including you, who use the restroom at all. You would feel more comfortable if the guy staring a hole through your head was waiting for a glimpse rather than waiting for you to shake three times so he can handcuff you and parade your ass around your job like a pervert.


Again, I was using hypothetical examples. Not all situations are exactly as I portrayed them and I don't believe that they are.


Honestly, wherever there is a cruisy area (specifically bathrooms), there's usually an area near by that isn't. Like the saying, "Don't shit where you eat," guys don't really like to conduct normal activities like pissing in the same area they suck cock at. You don't have to use the cruisy bathroom to do your business in.
 

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i actually enjoyed one bj so much at a frat party once, so i asked who it was and aparently it was this handsome guy, but being straight i was kinda revolted by it,

great bj though, wish i didnt find out
 

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yngjock20 brings up some very good points. Something to keep in mind, and I forget if this was mentioned already in this thread.... these websites dedicated to cruising, or locations in "public" to meet for sex......These sites are patrolled by police, alright? If there is any covert activity taking place at them, the minute it gets posted online, you can pretty much resign yourself to the very real possibility that the local police now know about it, if they didn't already. Then it's a game of "The Law of Averages" if you get nabbed.

I have seen local public restrooms in parks, known by everyone as notorious cruising spots, get closed and locked up permanently, so NOBODY can use them. I lived in a town (Laguna Beach) with a storefront on PCH, and on summer nights would notice the same traffic occupied by a single male traipsing back and forth between Heisler Park, and the Coast Inn (the late Boom Boom Room), back and forth, cruising all night long. The police had enough money in their budget one year to buy Night Vision goggles, which helped them arrest more outdoor sexual encounters at Heisler Park.

I could go on, but I think you get the point.

You can't be too careful.
 

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...Honestly, wherever there is a cruisy area (specifically bathrooms), there's usually an area near by that isn't. Like the saying, "Don't shit where you eat," guys don't really like to conduct normal activities like pissing in the same area they suck cock at. You don't have to use the cruisy bathroom to do your business in.

Honestly, are you NUTS?! Are you seriously out of your damn mind? They're lucky we tolerated their shit that far. It's a fucking bathroom! Pissing and crapping is what it's there for, and I think most people get that! If anybody was going to be relocating, it sure as hell wasn't going to be me!

Cruisy bathroom? If you want to cruise, get the fuck out of there and go to a party or a bar!

The idea that this obscure and weird faction of people want to use the bathroom for sex, and the entire world should just move the fuck out or their way makes my blood boil. No way, are they getting that kind of pass. No way! :lol:

And don't blame it on gays either, because there's plenty of gay guys who'd never screw in a bathroom. This is a perv thing; not a gay thing.
 

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well its really for people that just want to get a bj. they dont care who what when where why how, they just want a mouth on their dick.
i'd never do it. its like asking for an STD.
It's not just for people who want a blow job. It's also for guys who like to suck a big cock thru a hole in a wall. Lots of guys just like to do it.
 

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DC, is there anything crazier than that tearoom scene at Union Station? It was so bad, you couldn't take a piss without getting cruised. Try taking a #2, and you'd find all the stalls occupied..and staying occupied! Didn't they have to shut down one of the Union Station men's rooms to stop the action?

There's also something up with L'Enfant Plaza, Crystal City, Shops National Place and a few other places. I know, because I've complained about all of the above-mentioned sites and called the cops on all of them, more than once.

If there's a tearoom scene, nobody, but the players, should have to deal with it or even know about it. It should never impede or interfere with use of the bathroom for the primary intended purpose: pissing or having a crap. If the players don't want to be hassled, confronted or threatened, the players should respect us non-players enough to stay out of our way.

I especially hate the guys, who mess around at the urinal in plain view of some innocent kid, who just walked in off the street. I saw something like this at Union Station once, and the guys involved were actually getting off on the kid watching them; one even winked at him. I chased the scumbags out myself. Not being anti-gay here, but leave the kids alone!

When I worked at [blank], there was tearoom action all around--a gloryhole in every stall and one facing the urinals. I ignored the whole thing, took care of business and went about my way.

I've even jacked off with 2 gloryholes on opposite sides of my stall. Thought about leaving, but decided I came to beat off, so I plugged up the holes with paper and beat off! Did what I came to and rolled out! Beating off is relief like pissing or etc, and the gloryholes shouldn't interfere with that. In fact, I jacked off in a men's room stall every day, after work, and never had a problem. Yeah--it's illegal, but what're you going to do?

Something's in you, it's got to come out.

As long as the gloryhole crowd stays out of my way AND respects that a public bathroom is there to be a bathroom, I say let them play. :rolleyes:
Wow, what a big party POOPer
 

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Boo hoo. :rolleyes:

If you're going to do that stuff, do the rest of us have to know about it or be inconvenienced by it? Guy just wants to take a dump, shouldn't he be able to do it, without getting a prick shoved into his face? How's that so wrong?

And why should people actually using the bathroom for a bathroom be pushed out by these creeps? What's that about?
 

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Uh, I've busted a few of straight couples in the men's bathroom at work because I used to work the late shift and came to work just as most were leaving. As all the management were female, the men's room was a lot safer. It's not just gay guys. As a good gentlmen should, I simply walked out and kept my mouth shut.

Gay men use bathrooms to hook-up because there's a reasonable expectation for your pants to be around your ankles and your dick waving in the air. Believe me, if any other public place had that expectation they'd be going there instead. The reality is that while bathrooms aren't remotely safe, they're relatively safer than other places. Many communities have no place for gays to meet, are actively hostile to gays, and in many, many, cases, the guys are married and just looking for a BJ their wives won't give them for whatever reason. They're desperate and lonely, shunned by their community and harassed by law enforcement.

Believe it or not, the more tolerant and accepting a community is, the less this kind of things happens because gays don't feel like they're being driven into public toilets to seek sex.
 

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I had many a good bj in through glory holes on college campuses in two different states. They were convenient, relatively anonymous, and fun. When I was in college, I wasn't in a relationship (at least for part of it), and spent most of my time studying. I was bored of jackin off, so going to the men's room at the campus library or student union and having some fellow student who liked to suck cock get his jollies while I got mine was a win-win from my perspective.

Actually, there was one guy and I who had this unspoken agreement that we would meet each MWF at like 10:15 (before my 10:30 class) in the men's room on the third floor of the campus library. He'd be waiting at a study table when I came up the stairs. I'd go in and take the middle stall, he'd follow a minute later and take the last stall. Shortly after I'm stickin my hard on under the partition and he's getting a tasty mid-morning snack.

"Oh, yeah!" (quietly) shudder. leg pat. clean up. "Thanks." Flush. Zip. Buckle. Unbolt. Water on, soap. Slap, slap of paper towels. Door opens. Off to class.

We got to where we'd wash up at that same time, never talkin more than some significant eye contact via the mirror.

I actually saw him while I was lining up for graduation. He was in a different college of the university, and I was tempted to say hi and get his number, see if maybe we were going to be working near each other or something. But that's not how it worked out. Too bad.