I am single by choice! and I'm not interested in "giving in and settling" nor do I believe in control, and as for being Horny.....yes I am!, but that doen't mean I'm suppose to be stupid and Blind to Manipulations to be self-serving...just to get a Nutt!!!, and yes I do have a problem with using love or the notion of commitment, and btw.....not miserable either.
I have money, career, education so I spend my time helping others who are not doing so well, I have been raising my child as a single parent...alone!...I'm physically strong and strong willed, quick witted, nice looking, most have spent a life time trying to control me, and I strongly resent that, to the point of rebellion!!!.
Women, friends, family all have done it, so it has been my opinion, that most people are just afraid to be alone, no wait!.....most are just simply AFRAID PERIOD......and I don't have that particular malady!.
I have a lust for life, that is extreme at best...I became like this after staring death in the face and brought back to the living! only to see with clearer Eye's for the first time, then only to realize how petty, shallow and trivial people can be, and for those you think this is a cry for love on some emotional meltdown......wrong!...Love has not been on my mind my mind since, I.......now get ready!, I divorced my ex and was awarded custody of my infant son!
She did an excellent job in knocking that "CRAP" out of my mind for good, so it seems! now for the really good part...again not searching for real answers to life and love, or commitment, nor am I needing a reason or rhyme to compromise, or true love......??, just wanted to know what people thought, concerning the issue of how compromise is used as leverage, when it comes to commitment and control, It didn't occur to me that this is a hot button issue, mainly because it is not an issue of mine, nothing more than curiosity!
Especially since I've needed a warm body to lay next to just for a moment, then take my Ass home, to take care of my disabled son!!!!