So, like the title says, and if you aren't ashamed to talk about it amongst other men here, do you deal with any decrease in sexual anything as you get older? I'm only 40 and deal with a number of health issues and, unfortunately, I deal with ED, decrease in sexual appetite, and looking at porn nowadays feels like a boring chore. I still have desire and that's all I really want is the desire to be with someone, but with a penis that may or may not get fully hard and not even being aroused enough to ejaculate, being with another seems impossible.
I've tried Viagra once and was brave enough to ask my doctor for it. A lot of people think it's a pill that magically makes your dick hard. No, it is supposed to promote blood flow to the penis, but getting 100% hard may not happen. When I did take it, I was fortunate that it worked for me. Some days I noticed I was popping boners that lasted longer than ten minutes and I was able to masturbate and not lose it. But I wasn't getting hard daily as I took my single doses for those ten days.
Masturbation has also become something that I don't really do unless I'm really horny. Sometimes I find myself sitting there jerking with lube trying patiently to get hard and it's a total turn off and I'm like, never mind. And I close the browser. I look at guys who can cum healthy looking thick pools of cum and I can only produce a few squirts. I've always been like that as far as I can remember. And as I mentioned in another thread, I was never really one to ejaculate with stimulation like a blowjob. Jerking off is my way to ejaculate. I've been with a guy before who always wanted me to cum on his face and it just didn't happen. I didn't know if I should be embarrassed for him or for me. I'm the youngest in my family and I've reached the age where these kinda things are now affecting me and I can't believe the time that has passed. It's also not predominately an older person thing. Younger men can have problems like ED and loss of desire, so I've read.
How do you deal with it?
I've tried Viagra once and was brave enough to ask my doctor for it. A lot of people think it's a pill that magically makes your dick hard. No, it is supposed to promote blood flow to the penis, but getting 100% hard may not happen. When I did take it, I was fortunate that it worked for me. Some days I noticed I was popping boners that lasted longer than ten minutes and I was able to masturbate and not lose it. But I wasn't getting hard daily as I took my single doses for those ten days.
Masturbation has also become something that I don't really do unless I'm really horny. Sometimes I find myself sitting there jerking with lube trying patiently to get hard and it's a total turn off and I'm like, never mind. And I close the browser. I look at guys who can cum healthy looking thick pools of cum and I can only produce a few squirts. I've always been like that as far as I can remember. And as I mentioned in another thread, I was never really one to ejaculate with stimulation like a blowjob. Jerking off is my way to ejaculate. I've been with a guy before who always wanted me to cum on his face and it just didn't happen. I didn't know if I should be embarrassed for him or for me. I'm the youngest in my family and I've reached the age where these kinda things are now affecting me and I can't believe the time that has passed. It's also not predominately an older person thing. Younger men can have problems like ED and loss of desire, so I've read.
How do you deal with it?