Men, do you stay hard when getting fucked?

[goander]

When I ride my Aneros devices, it depends on which device. Some give me a staunch erection and some make me completely flaccid.

 

[Oztrich]

I mostly don't. I have had experiences where I did stay hard, but it seems like the penis size and route of entry - from behind - as well as the way I relate to the guy are major factors.

 

[Raphaelheight39]

I haven’t been with a man for over a decade, but I did when I was. Not all the time, but the majority of the time.

 

[deine_huendin]

if I'm fucked my cock is uninteresting.
I would like to concentrate on the lust of my lord
In the past I sometimes put on a hand - he did not think it was funny and he has prevented this accordingly
so sometimes he locked me in a cb6000, no chance to get hard...

 

[deine_huendin]

My boyfriend stays hard when I fuck him and he can cum without wanking if I go balls deep on him. I don't stay hard when being fucked unless I am wanking. I have no problem cuming but a though the orgasm feels stronger I ejaculate less.

he can come without wanking ?! so you do a great job ;-)

 

[dogstar101]

he can come without wanking ?! so you do a great job ;-)

I hit the spot!

 

[gr8tdick]

I really find myself not thinking about my cock when a dude is working my ass...I tend to stay soft while i get rimmed and fucked. For me, It feels so good to just let the top enjoy my hole and relax into it without worrying about getting off myself—I want him to just go to town and focus on my ass, not my cock. I love wearing a jock...keeps my dick out of the equation.

 

[deine_huendin]

I really find myself not thinking about my cock when a dude is working my ass...I tend to stay soft while i get rimmed and fucked. For me, It feels so good to just let the top enjoy my hole and relax into it without worrying about getting off myself—I want him to just go to town and focus on my ass, not my cock. I love wearing a jock...keeps my dick out of the equation.

thats right, keep your dick, small, soft, limp and flaccid (or lock it ;-))
and focus on your ass, on HIS cock

 

[gr8tdick]

thats right, keep your dick, small, soft, limp and flaccid (or lock it ;-))
and focus on your ass, on HIS cock

Damn straight, a good top working your hole is the fucking best

 

[WilliamG]

Interesting answers. It seems many here (like myself) don't stay hard. I asked this in the Ask a Gay Man section a while back and there were more "stay hard" during anal. Bi vs Gay? Who knows? I do see online profiles for tops specifically looking for bottoms who stay hard.

 

[Novacouple999]

I'm pretty sure that most guys don't stay hard because the dick or you inside you is putting pressure on your prostate, preventing blood blow.

 

[Novacouple999]

Dick or toy*

 

[FinMe]

I'd like to find out 1 day
Never had the pleasure if being fucked

Sorry

 

[deano-uk]

I start off hard, then go semi , but like others say if I am riding then I am hard or harder, but it depends on the size of his cock ... pleasurable either way.

 

[diver6]

We both stayed hard as we in our younger years, nice having a hard bouncing cock! Now I’m soft when using a toy.

 

[Gopher]

Usually note unless I'm playing with it. Or it's really fucking hot. Having porn in the back ground helps too. Nothing to do with the top being good or not.

 

[364368]

I stay rock when I'm getting fucked. I could cum without touching myself at times too. Truly explosive

 

[1141702]

I'm no physiologist but would it have anything to do with us connecting with our female side, or the fact that we have this life long erroneous idea that this pleasure might be wrong?
I know I usually go soft at some point weather at the start of it or at some time during the act as pleasurable as it is.
I know my ass hole is a source of pleasure I sometimes explore and love it so I won't stop.

Not so much connecting to your feminine side and everything to do with getting your prostate slammed.

 

[FinMe]

No, I usually have a chubby..

 

[studpud]

I stay hard af, love when a guy holds and squeezes my dick and balls while banging me out