Men: Does Liking Big Cocks Make You Gay?

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  1. Nekoman

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    I want to know what all the "straight" guys out there think about their attraction to very big dicks.

    Do you ever "worry" that it makes you gay -- or at least bi?

    Are straight men supposed to get turned on by looking at big cocks???

    My profile says that I'm 80% straight, 20% gay, so I have a good excuse for looking --

    But I wonder -- What do you 100% straight guys think about being "fascinated" with big dicks?

    What about if they really turn you on -- make you hot and horney?

    Are you merely "fascinated" or are you turned on and hot?

    Do you still feel 100% straight????
     
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    i think being interested in big cock is just being interested in big cock.
     
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    Nearly all men are interested in other men's cocks. It's only natural, no matter what the cultural taboos say. The interest may not be sexual in nature, but there is a natural curiousity there - which society has sexualised in some cases, and in other cases is doing everything to suppress.

    Penises are interesting, also because it is a part of the male body which isn't seen as often as other parts.

    As a European, it is almost unbelievable to read how so many Americans have not even seen their father naked and often think it would be disturbing.

    One would tend to think that if someone is truly heterosexual, the reaction towards other penises would lean more towards indifference and/or a neutral curiosity, not towards revulsion.
     
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    If you get aroused watching big cocks then you are gay. I dont like big cocks perse but I like to compare myself with others to see where I stand in cock size.
     
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    I think it's competiton
    A lot of guys want to find some common ground to talk to people, and face it, we're a bunch of horny dudes. Talking and comparing our pieces is natural. Consider it your "call of the wild" if you will. I like comparing, but dont get aroused by them (100% straight =P)
    Some people do get hard-ons by looking at big cocks, but that's only natural.
     
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    That's getting to the point of the OP:


    Does getting turned on by watching big cocks in action make you gay or bi --

    Is that different than just being "fascinated" by big cocks?
     
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    HungDavid, in that case nearly all guys are gay. Big cocks are a turn-on, no matter your sexual preferences. Almost all men would agree that a porn stud should be well-hung, for instance, simply because it is sexier.

    It's a totally different thing to want to have sex with the big cock that's fucking that pussy to smithereens on-screen. But nearly all guys are turned on by seeing a big cock in action. It's a powerful sexual signal, if nothing else.
     
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    To me getting aroused sexually by big cocks is really a sign of gayness. That's different that being only fascinated by it.
     
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    I'm a alien then if that's true . I never got boned when I see dicks.
     
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    OK, if you could choose, would you prefer to see the same woman fucked by a guy with a six-inch cock, or a guy with a true nine-incher?
     
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    With the guy with a 9 incher . Why? Because I got 8X6 cock and I imagine that the guy is me . 9 is closer than 6 to my size.
     
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    So if you had a 5-incher, would you really prefer to see the 6-inch guy fuck rather than the 9-inch guy? I don't think many men would agree.
     
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    The reason that many men prefer to see bigger cocks in porn movies is because they imagine to have this cock . There is a difference between to want a bigger one and to actually get aroused seeing big ones.
     
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    That's more or less exactly what I said a few postings ago. Getting turned on does not necessarily mean that the guy wants to have sex with the big cock - but it is still a turn-on, no matter the reason. No matter if you call it a desire to possess the big cock, or identification with it, it is still the same thing (and these two things are mutually exclusive).

    That the big cock sends powerful sexual signals is pretty obvious. The thing is that it is perfectly possible to be *interested* in big cocks without necessarily being *aroused* by them. People seem to be deluding themselves no end about this, asserting their heterosexuality with a vehemence which speaks volumes.

    If one becomes aroused by the big cock itself - and want to have sex with it - fine. If one becomes aroused by what the big cock represents - fine. Most guys fall into one or both of these categories. Some don't - but in my experience many in this category delude themselves. You might not. But it is clearly very sensitive ground to many. It may not be to you. You may indeed be completely sorted about it. But many are not and feel very guilty about it.

    Being interested in other guys' cocks does not make anyone "gay" or even "bi". I've lost count of the number of times completely straight (and I mean completely straight) friends and friends of friends have asked to see my cock. It doesn't make them gay or bi - they're just curious. True, some of these guys have been turned on by the situation, but far from all of them.
     
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    Yes is a turn on imagine being the guy fucking a hot girl with a huge one . When I see gays movies I never get turn on by that.
     
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    That leads to the question, if you're so against seeing cocks, then why do you watch GAY porn? And what do you think about my previous post? No one has seemed to make any reference...
     
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    Listen, if you are so opposed to guys who are straight seeing cocks, then why do you watch gay porn films? If, as you said, that you like to imagine that the monster on screen was yours, are you implying you imagine fucking another guy?
     
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    First of all I'm not against cocks . I dont hate cocks. Second of all I only watch a gay movie once and I dont particulary like it . I wasnt disgusted by it but I dont like it .
     
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    I see...
    So, I have a question:
    When in a locker room, with a bunch of hung guys, how do you (and your cock) react?
     
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    My cock and I in that situation would be neutral . My cock would be a soft one. Seriously I dont get aroused by guys and cocks . When I put 1 percent gay is because I think that nobody can be 100% sure to be 100% straight . In theory I would be 100% straight in reality because I never get aroused with guys so far . The day I get aroused with guys is the day I would be bi for sure.