Based on the LPGS folks' comments, a clarification was added by the author to the original article:
ADDENDUM:
Since the initial publication of this article, I've gotten some great feedback which has prompted me to make a few clarifications and repeat a few points:
1. I am NOT saying that men only, simply or merely want to ejaculate. In fact, if you re-read carefully, I am saying that ego and visuals are, for many men, even MORE important and satisfying than ejaculation, and I am actually advocating that men practice separating the physical penis-focused stimulation from the pleasure/release of ejaculation so they can enjoy the ego gratification more, and the visual stimulation for longer durations, and experience the benefits that come with that practice.
2. For women: I am not saying that your male partners have not enjoyed being with you.I'm simply saying that the pleasure derived by each of you during the actual act (pre-male climax) are--as you would expect-- different in intensity.
Yes! So does "absolute bollocks"!Does "arrant nonsense" sum it up?
My male playmates always seem to enjoy themselves. :wink::biggrin1:
Makes sense to me. When I think about it, it's not that prolonged sex is better than regular sex, it's that the orgasm at the end of prolonged sex feels better.
All of this is true, but lots of men can and do still enjoy the physical act without any particular "connection" with the other person. As long as I don't find my partner physically repulsive or actively unattractive, and as long as I don't find her company abhorrent, I can still enjoy the sex. But you're right, of course, the right "chemistry" can turn a good experience into a great one, there's no doubt about that.Sex, even tho it's a physical act, you need to be *feeling* it mentally for things to happen right, if at all. *addressing the males here mostly* The connection between the two people, or more if you're into that kinda thing, is the best part of the sexual experience. IMO The better the chemistry between the people...*physical and mental*...the better the sex. The best part is the feeling after...chemicals released in the brain that give you that euphoric feeling.