Why is it when a guy turns down sex, their partner gets all bent out of shape? I've had this happen on both sides, but the worst was when I didn't want it from this one girl. (this was a while ago) I guess what made it worse is that we had already slept together a few times so being turned down was unbearable. It wasn't that she was horrible or anything, just that I wasn't in the mood for it. Well, she flipped out and got all emotional so I spent the next hour trying to console her. I should have just had the sex. I guess a man is supposed to be ready 150% of the time. And when he's offered he should be grateful for this wonderful gift he's being allowed. Has anyone else gone through this?