Okay two things her, I have ejaculated without coming...prostate massage, feels awesome. Second, as far as faking it, I use to do that with an ex-girlfriend. She told me the first time we had sex,"I like a guy who can cum two or three times when we fuck." I usually last abouot one to two hours a fucking with out cumming. So I ddidn't really understand the difference, who cares as long as you get fucked for one or two hours and cum alot. But she wanted a guy to cum more during the time. So I would wear acondom and pretend that I would cum. This didn't last very long (month) since she was young and naive.